Which would you date Virgo or Scorpio?

So in my circle I have a silent virgo and a talkative scorpio. Which one would you date? Personally I have found that the virgo listens but says nothing back which drives me crazy. He only talks when pissed off which I find very interesting. The scorpio has a lot to say but when angry or even he hurt he retreats. I find it very interesting the differences between the two. If I had to pick I would take Mr. Virgo, but the scorpio could for sure steal me away if he really wanted to lol

The scorpio could take me away because he is very passionate, which I really enjoy. He is open to the things I want to try whereas the virgo is a little more reserved, but I feel like he wants all the things I do however I think that he feels like to do those things would require him to break loose from the superman mold and become a freaking human being.

The scorpio for all his talk is really just a very soft person that wants love, but fears the responsiblity that love brings. If was willing to open he could take me away because he already has me with the intense passion and great humor

id have to have them both in bed and see which one of them gets left out

I'm compatible with both signs, the Virgo will probably give me more stability and security, the Scorpio a deeper connection and understanding with ease. I would date both.

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My answer? Neither. But if I just O so HAD to choose, I'd say Virgo. And hey, even with both signs (Scorp & Virgo) I've had some pretty good experiences. BUT, in all of those experiences I must say that when things are bad they are REALLY bad. And they're even worse when things are bad with Scorpios.

Scorpios can be so vengeful. They put the same amount of passion into what makes them happy/tick the way they put so much passion into the things that anger them. I'm not saying that anger/passion is wrong, but sheeeeeesh! When Aquas & Scorps are fighting it's like 2 bulls who refuse to give up. Problem is, they both always want to be right. Virgos always have to be right too, but compared to Scorpio, they know when to throw in the towel & surrender. Scorps are advanced like Aquas are in verbally shutting someone down. When Aqua & Scorps argue/fight it's like a new competition/war of the bulls gets started.

Virgos can be pretty fixed in their opinions, pretty stubborn & pretty reserved like Aquas, but compared to Scorpios they atleast know when to put the "passion" down when necessary. Virgos don't go over board. When they're upset, they don't normally let their emotions consume or control them as much as a Scorpio would. Scorpios can get so embedded in their emotions that they can sometimes get lost & lose control. Bad combination all the way around

Posted by size zero superhero
...Wait for a Gemini or Libra, lovelyleo. It will pay off. Hahahaha.

Just sayin', all the Leo-Virgo/Leo-Scorp unions I know of have ended in misery and corruption. Given, there's no definite way to tell with astrology alone.

It's all about the natal chart ... and the decans and the cusps. Real Astrology is all about Personalogy -- plain zodiac stuff will just give you the bare minimum.

That really is a toss up. Virgo is home like to me, Scorpio is intense from the start. Don't misread what I wrote, Virgo is intense, definitely, it's just under guard better. I was engaged to a Scorpio many moons ago, he had an anger management issue and I left. I don't think this had anything to do with him being a Scorp, he was a type-A, tightly wound individual which compounded any black mood he was in.
My 'choice' is the anti-choice really. It would be who I clicked with, who made me laugh, who made me feel outrageously feminine, lovely, sexy, all of it. Scorpio, Virgo? Who knows?

I had a true love...he was scorp. He was everything i wished for in a man, he made me happy, and than he died 😢 I never had a scorp again. Now I'm with a virgo (still early stage) but I can already see my love can grow similar for him as for my scorp love.

I really see my virguy can make me happy just like my scorpguy did, even if their personalities are different...so I'm not choosing, cause I can't choose between my scorp and virgo...so I say...BOTH! 🙂

Posted by Clair De Lune
I'd say both. 🙂

But take the scorpio first for the experience (fun and challenging) and then take the virgo.

noooo
how could you do that

typical

The virgo guy. Not cz of hs sign,just the way u described him.I find its easier for me to truly connect with the quiet kind.Cz there is a part of them everybody else wont see bt u. Loud scorpio gy?Comittment phobe.Nah ah.Too much drama already.I will nt go there.

Neither. I am a Virgo sun with a Scorp moon. I could just date myself. 🙂

If I had to choose between a Virgo and a Scorpio, OMG I so choose a virgo. No matter what I say about Virgo guys, they aren't nearly as conceited as some Scorpio guys I've met ^_^. No way, I don't care what my astro compatibility says lol. Its Virgo all the way.

We love u cappysweetie. I don't care what DY says about u and other Caps. Right Shaka, Where the hell is that fool? 😛

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@Bulleo you are right! Both these males are driving me up wall and back down again. They act the exact same way which amazes me. Had I known that the scorpio would get on my nerves I would have just told him to keep walking I already have a headace on my hands.

My issue with the scorpio is that we are supposed to be kicking it but its only on his time card. Thats fine with me I got other players in the game, but like any coach I want my a-team up first not the second string contenders

I am a Sagittarius with a Leo rising and I dated a Virgo once and well, "once" being the key word. I used to say that I would never date a Scorpio because they were just to deep for me, but the funny thing is I have been dating a Scorpio for the last 10 years! I really chalk it up to him having 4 planets in Sagittarius and an Aries Moon, enough fire to keep up with me.

However, I do understand Virgo's as my mother is a one and also has 5 planets in the sign of Virgo so I have to understand them as I have gotten older. :-)

Posted by Mr. Defense
I would choose a Virgo. At the very least the sex would be worth it to offset the bitching. Scorp women are just not good in bed. Virgos are all about pleasing, Scorps are all about being pleased. Virgo at least are better at communicating, Scorps are all about games.

Please!!! What Scorpio did you have sex with?! LOL. As a sidenote: All the Virgo men I tried dating we're boring/corny! I just can't get into them romantically, I feel more of a "friend" vibe with Virgo men.