virgo women only please answer this question.

How do virgo women act with guys they like as a friend or just see as friend ? and how do virgo women act with/around guys they like as more than a friend?

I will have more time to elaborate later, but essentially, we're completely "backward" from the norm in that: around men we like only as friends, we are our casual, friendly, fun, and usually laid-back, funny selves. Comfortable, obliging, just one of the boys, so to speak. Completely relaxed, like we would be with male relatives.

With a man we're attracted to, he is usually completely "invisible," as we act like he's nowhere around--scared to death that our attraction is going to manifest so transparently that everyone standing nearby is going to immediately sense it and then broadcast it all over the place. We also don't want to appear vulnerable to the man himself and be so readily "caught at our game" and revealed for the emotional "weakling" that we really are underneath. We're nervous, on edge, fairly uncomfortable--though enjoying every minute of it. It's a double-edged sword: we tend to challenge ourselves with the chaotic chemistry that his presence provokes for the excitement of it all but want to run away from it at the same time because it presents a certain fear. So we run away and comfortably displace ourselves from his overwhelming presence, and then imagine all sorts of delicious things we'd love to do with him that we could never allow ourselves to sense in his presence for the chaos that predominates. A sword we rather enjoy.

A fair synopsis. 😉

When I like someone I can be a bit shy but if he approaches me I
respond. If he flirts with me I flirt back.
With guys who are just friends I'm not as affectionate or flirty.
Also, when I know someone likes me more than I like them but
they aren't direct about it (they just keep making reasons to get closer)
I try to keep a distance so they will move on to someone else.

I agree with both girls above me, on just acting cool around guys I don't have no romantic interest in. However if I'm interested in a guy, I'll flirt a lot more. Usually I don't approach guys anyway, since the guys I'm interested always approach me first.

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I really need help understanding what you said because how you said virgo women act with guys they just see as friends she does not act that way with me. The way you said virgo women act with men they are attracted to is the she act towards me. She has shown me signs that she was attracted to me like she touches me,laughs at my jokes. She was excited when she found out we had class together and since a couple guys she has known for long and her bestfriend is the class makes me feel like how you said invisible. I can understand her not being with them and they are not the problem. This is my problem There is a guy who is kinda a friend of mine who sat behind her she known him about 2 weeks and acts the way you said virgo women act with friends. That has my a little upset becacuse to me that means she likes him more than me.

I have been little more quite in class this semester than last semester and she told me that a few times she walk up to me and said "you're quiet today" I told everybody is saying that and she said "I dont like it" she did that 2 days in a row. Some times it does seem like she is trying to get my attention like tap my chair and when I looked back she said you are quite today again then the other guy said something to me and she turned to him said "every time I talk him you start talking him". I would like to why she tells me that and when the other guy is quite she tells him "well you're boring today". She also playfully called me her bestfriend.

I would also like to what you think about how she feels/ her relationship with the other guy and do I need to worried about him. And I really want to know how get rid of the other boy so she will pay more attention me.

And if you dont understand somethings I wrote or need more details about something please ask about

Thats so true I didnt realize all Virgos were like this its nuts. Yeah whenever I like a guy I definitely dont show it, the more I like the guy the shy-er I will be and I try to avoid looking him in the eye because I'd definitely blush. I treat him as a platonic friend and I act like one of the guys. I will never make the first move and if my crush doesnt make a move after a while I'll put him in the friend box and lose interest forever. So act fast!!!

Definitely agree with everyone else.

With my guy friends, I'm completely casual, laid-back, always joking around, less apologetic, and what I put as "more willing to say no." Since they are my friends, I'm less worried about what comes out of my mouth or how "weird" I'm being. They've seen me at my weirdest and they know what to expect from me. I'm definitely just one of the guys. For guys I DO like, I'm definitely more reserved, more mysterious if you will. I watch everything I do and I tend to "run" more often, but with all hope that you're willing to come after me. I definitely feel more vulnerable, and that's the last thing I want to show. I might come off more aloof, a little more sarcastic; however, if the guy flirts with me, I'll flirt back, or I'll drop very subtle hints. This is where my feminine side comes out.

Well just ask her out and get it over with already. You never know until you try, chickenbutt. 🙂 BTW what is your sign?

If you wait around for some obvious sign from a virgo woman, you will wait forever and miss your chance. Virgos are usually reserved in the romance in the beginning. No matter what the sign of the person is, you as the man need to be confident in who you are. You already have your foot in the door because she already knows you. So that is half the battle right there. Stop waiting for the sky to fall in as your sign. She will either say yes or no. Hopefully she will say yes, but if she says no then that is her loss and that is how you should view it.

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