What ever happens, happens for the best!

Not sure how to explain.

Some one we know very closely,passed away yesterday..

If life had gone imperfect,that some one might have been my sister's husband! But, years back it had not worked. My mom had regretted it badly then and today she can't explain how grateful she is for it did not happen.

We are upset to hear the news but I think we are bit selfish too, to think that, he is/was not our family member!

May God give peace to his soul.

One thing for sure - WHATEVER IS HAPPENING, IT IS HAPPENING IN OUR BEST INTEREST, WE LIKE IT OR NOT!!!

Hope to get some sleep....

Sorry for your sisters loss of a loved one .. my condolences to her.

PA:

You have a misunderstanding in reading. My sis did not loose any one.

I conclude your mysterious post as to the relationship of this man, in which you apparantly intentionally worded it this way ... is that your sister wanted to be with this man, however, your mother decided against it .... it appears to be years ago, in which case, if this man never really married your sister, or stayed with her as her man, yet, he is a close enough person to the family for mourning purposes ... then I would conclude that though the other family members didn't approve of him or like him .. your sister must have.

If you leave a post like this in which doesn't clarify then a responser will interpret according to their own perspective .... and I interpretated this to mean that your sister lost a loved-one.

Whatever it means .... my condolences anyway.

"If you leave a post like this in which doesn't clarify then a responser will interpret according to their own perspective .... and I interpretated this to mean that your sister lost a loved-one."

*blink blink*
and the wheel of blame goes round and round