We met online through a social media site. I posted some song lyrics and he wrote me continuing the lyrics. I thought it was cute, then he proceeded to send me a couple cheesy pick up lines that were funny. I found it to be charming and different from the usual guys in my messages. The next day he sent me a selfie in the morning when I didn't ask for one saying good morning beautiful. We talked here and there but he wouldn't answer for days ( mind you we met on tumblr, so it's not something even I use everyday) He started to get very flirty.....almost too flirtacious to the point of sexual....He has a way with words so I was definitely smitten but I didn't say anything sexual back. I would send an emoji or a short answer to give him the idea that I was interested in him but not going to sext. It's been about a month since we met and we've talked a bit since then....he either takes HOURS to respond, I'm talking like 20+ hours, or he responds within minutes. I told him I'm not going to send him nudes or sext, and he said it was fine and he just finds me extremely attractive and can't help it but STILL kept trying to talk sexual. He even sent me several porn GIFS on tumblr telling me that's what he wanted to do to me. I kinda just call him crazy and laugh at it when he acts that way. Also may I note that I'm WAY more attractive than him....I'm very attracted to his mind and the way he speaks. He eventually asked for my snap chat, and added me immediately. He told me I should send him cute selfies (nothing sexual) so we sent some selfies back and forth and talked for a couple hours....and he disappears again and this time for about 4-5 days. He comes back like nothing happened, mind you I haven't been chasing him or messaging him first since he went M.I.A. I continued the conversation like normal and didn't bring up the disappearing act. He told me he's been super busy and even mentioned he was working a lot. The thing is he flirts ALOT and sometimes asks me questions but not enough. It's like he wants to flirt and doesn't want to know SO much about me, whereas I would like to get to know him but I hold back because I'm worried he doesn't give a damn. We've had personal convos but they've been scattered and its not like he's DYING to know anything about me. Is he just playing cool? So the other night was like a huge ass break through. He seemed to be VERY available on snap chat all night long. I sent him a cute selfie and we started flirting again....he continued to say sexual stuff. I'm like using emojis and brushing off his comments. I did tell him I find him attractive though, and his smile is to die for. So I asked him if he could send me a voice memo since I DONT want to be catfished by anyone. He sent me a video telling me "youre so treetrunking cute" while he smiled with his beautiful ass smile. I melted. LMAO. And I proceeded to tell him that I find him cute as helllllll. So we sent some flirty snaps back and forth and I told him what nice lips he has....you know what this MFer says......"you like my lips? maybe you should sit on them" I was stunned but this isn't something new he's typed stuff like that before but I guess hearing it was a shock....I just told him he's crazy and laughed it off....he even asked for a pic of my butt....I said NO of course I told him I don't send nudes to anyone and he said "fair enough can he at least get me wet?" this dude is relentless with the sex talk;...I'm not even giving him anything and he continues. I feel bad because I don't really egg him on but I'll be like "I can't with you....." or i'll say something like "DAMN..." like he knows im into it but I'm trying to be classy. He told me he thinks I look innocent and would love to see me go from innocent to horny. Then he calls me on snapchat! I was being a total dork and couldn't stop acting shy and giggling awkwardly he...he kept saying " i love your laugh ugh" and would be quiet sometimes and when I finally asked if he was ok he said he was "enjoying the silence" Over the phone we talked more in depth about our lives, he even told me he wants to drive the 3 hours to take me back to his house so I can stay over....he was really adamant about it. I told him maybe. Then he asked me if I was wet -_____- i'm like I told him "MAYBE" LOL! because I was in fact turned on by his voice and the stuff he was saying but I never straight out expressed in detail that I wanted it or what I would do back. I kept quiet. He legit told me he wants to eat my kitty until it's dripping down his face.....LOL I was like damn..that's crazy and kept laughing. We spoke for a little over an hour at 4-5 in the morning. At around 10 he snapped me again saying good morning beautiful....we spoke a few times that morning then he went M.I.A AGAIN!! So a day or two goes by and no response...I was starting to feel forgotten and guilty that maybe I came off like a hoe....but I really have given him no nudes or sexted him, I just don't stop him when he's saying sexual stuff I kinda laugh it off. I texted him an entire paragraph but I made sure not to come off as emotional. I basically told him I feel bad I kept the convo going in a sexual direction like that and I told him I'm not an easy girl at all...I told him I don't think he respects me and maybe that's why he keeps talking to me so sexual. I did include that I find him attractive and interesting and even fun to talk to. I said I want to get to know him better if thats something he would be interested in because I realized he was saying all that stuff to me and we barely know each other....WELL he opened my snap chat and deadass didn't answer it's been like 1 1/2 days...mind you he has done this butter a couple times with opening the snap chat and then not responding for hours. And then says "my bad I just got back from the gym but before that I was at work" I'm wondering if he's so turned off from that message...all I did was clarify that I want to get to know him a little better and I even complimented him and told him it's partially my fault for not saying anything about how uncomfortable the sex talk made me feel. He's a really awesome guy despite the CRAZY NONSTOP flirting. He's interesting and smart.....I'm just sad that he got freaked out that I called him out on it. I even posted a snap the day after he opened my message and he watched my snap!!! still no response. Any idea what game he's playing? or is he giving me space because he feels bad. If you're a taurus or you've dealt with one. Gimme some insight, I'm not attached right now at all so I will probably get over it. Any chance he will message me back in the future? I never send more than one message and I WAIT for him to hmu.
