Hi All, this all started when Cap messaged me on FB msgr about a month ago. He had been loving and commenting on pictures/memes for months prior to him sending me a message. We have been friends on FB since early this year before covid... He and I have several friends in common, tons of music in common, we have very similar solid ground/thoughts. He was pretty responsive via FB msgr and texting and then he starting calling daily at his lunch time and even at night on way home from work. We both seem to be very stoked on each other. He asked me to come say HI at a family gathering at a park couple Saturday's ago but got stressed and overwhelmed (his words) as his mom kept changing locations. I didn't really trip bcuz I wasn't ready to just say HI at his family gathering before I had even met him in person - rather meet him then see how things progress. So last week he kept mentioning how he was going to come pick me up and not let me go home (as i funny way) so I said I could be ready after work Friday but I wasn't able to be ready in time, so we still planned to meet but I would drive to him. We met and it was a good time, no sex, only making out and some touching parts (lol) He took me to brunch on Saturday then cooked a really awesome dinner (ribeye, stuffed portabella mushrooms', bacon) I mean he went all out chef style making sauces and everything! I decided I needed to go home Saturday night after dinner. He seem fine with it, not sure if he was expecting me to stay until Sunday. He walked me to car and we hugged only a kiss on lips, he seem like deadpan when I left. So didnt hear much since, I have been texting but not much back and have not heard from him since Tuesday afternoon...no reply to my last 2 texts sent on Tue night and one yesterday evening...nada...could he be ghosting or just not into me now that we met? PS - last time he didnt respond for little over a day he apologized he isnt himself with current job, super stressed about it... wondering mind here!!
