Saturn figure?

wanted to punch this guy at first coz he talks forever and says punchable things but then i got used to him being around. then he rambles on about the past and his ex wife like an old man. this a weird question but why do i keep getting dad vibes from this guy? he even got annoyed that he didn't remind me how i was suspended from work coz he knew my goldfish head would forget and he always brings a jacket coz i always forget mine. (nothing more than platonic here coz eww we are so not each each other's types). thing is though he's always telling me what to do (10 years older than me). is this like some kind of saturn/mentor figure for me? am i supposed to learn something here? dude sounds like a nagging dad every day. i forgot to wear a jacket again and he's nagging me about it again. this dude more controlling than my actual dad.

i think his placements are:

scorpio sun

cap moon

scorpio merc (?)

sag venus

scorpio merc (?)

but yeah pretty sure he's a scorp stellium.

i've got a virgo stellium.

i really do appreciate the help but it's like he moves around the assumption that i'm completely helpless, so much so that he covers all the bases even before i fuck up. but the gratitude just makes me feel indebted and incompetent. like that time i cried at work and he immediately covered for it. i was about to pull an MJ again and start wearing face masks at work. it makes me feel as if i'm always getting rescued. which makes me now realize how many times i get myself in trouble lol.

used to avoid him when he was punchable but now we're best friends at work.

weird world.

Posted by FuckItWhatever

I’ve had a number of people I’ve gotten close to who either I couldn’t stand at first, or they couldn’t stand me, or both. Funny enough the best example of this was probably this Capricorn sun female friend of mine. We sat next to each other in a class and legitimately didn’t like each other at first. Well at least I didn’t like her, maybe she secretly liked me and was just purposefully annoying me to get a rise out of me or something Idk lol. But then one day we were just cool with each other and became pretty close friends 🤷‍♂️

Also my best friend since I was 12 years old was a similar situation, I thought he was hella annoying at first but I just hung out with him because he lived right down the street from me and we’d take the bus together and stuff

So Idk, life is definitely strange like that sometimes. Then again I was really young back when these happened, not sure if I’d still have the same patience to get past that initial phase of dislike lol

this doesn't always happen to me but it always feels like the most genuine of friendships when it does get cemented.

i like to think i'm organized and on top of things as a Virgo but a Cap be they sun or moon always makes me feel like i've always been living my life like a ghost just coasting around.

they're too 'awake,' know what i mean? i feel like there's a part of me that's always asleep and it's never going to wake up no matter how many times i claim to be red pilled now.

it's like if you let them, a Cap can just live your life for you. a wonderful blessing for us who don't actually wanna live our lives.

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Dad vibes could be from his Capricorn moon because like the other Scorpio men on here they are not daddy like?

He can come wipe my ass after I doo-doo 😂😂😭🤷‍♀️

i'm guessing it's the cap moon too.

always said it's the fatherly king's moon.

dude just stepped on a cockroach for me just now lol, nags me about jackets, how i should've brought an umbrella, should've been to work earlier nag nag nag nag.

the eye of sauron bro.

then again, i don't even drive myself. i don't take responsibility for my own sleeping patterns. if i fall asleep on the road, guess i'll just die. to be honest, i'm probably too lazy and childish to actually do anything about it really. maybe i'll just make a thread about the first house again or something.

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I’ve had a number of people I’ve gotten close to who either I couldn’t stand at first, or they couldn’t stand me, or both. Funny enough the best example of this was probably this Capricorn sun female friend of mine. We sat next to each other in a class and legitimately didn’t like each other at first. Well at least I didn’t like her, maybe she secretly liked me and was just purposefully annoying me to get a rise out of me or something Idk lol. But then one day we were just cool with each other and became pretty close friends 🤷‍♂️

Also my best friend since I was 12 years old was a similar situation, I thought he was hella annoying at first but I just hung out with him because he lived right down the street from me and we’d take the bus together and stuff

So Idk, life is definitely strange like that sometimes. Then again I was really young back when these happened, not sure if I’d still have the same patience to get past that initial phase of dislike lol

this doesn't always happen to me but it always feels like the most genuine of friendships when it does get cemented.

i like to think i'm organized and on top of things as a Virgo but a Cap be they sun or moon always makes me feel like i've always been living my life like a ghost just coasting around.

they're too 'awake,' know what i mean? i feel like there's a part of me that's always asleep and it's never going to wake up no matter how many times i claim to be red pilled now.

it's like if you let them, a Cap can just live your life for you. a wonderful blessing for us who don't actually wanna live our lives.

I kind of get what you’re saying yeah. Me and caps have always gotten along well, male or female. So I guess it was just a matter of time before me and that girl did too lol. I love earth signs in general because they bring relatively less bullshit to the table in friendship or whatever kind of relationship. They’re like a stable canvas that’s more than capable of and often willing to soak up my Pisces craziness and it just works and feels right a lot of the time lol. I see caps as the version of earth that I can bond with over darker and more sarcastic humor than some other people are comfortable with and that’s cool lol. And caps can get you to see things you were missing before in a brutally honest way without even trying, definitely. Like they just subtly nudge you in a direction and you feel it more than if another person wrote an essay explaining the same thing

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Cap is my 3rd dominant right after Virgo (1) and Pisces (2) which disappoints me coz i lack ambition to further myself. back in college, i had a Cap female friend i'd call in the morning just to ask her what day it was. i'm kind of like a hypocrite in that i'd blame people for forgetting when i'm just much of a cuckoohead. thing is though i'd rather not be 'fully awake,' know what i mean? i'd rather live half-asleep. and know what? i die if i die whatever.

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then again, i don't even drive myself. i don't take responsibility for my own sleeping patterns. if i fall asleep on the road, guess i'll just die. to be honest, i'm probably too lazy and childish to actually do anything about it really. maybe i'll just make a thread about the first house again or something.

Nuh uh, that's not first house. I don't want anyone to be responsible for me ever. That would hurt my pride. It's gotta be me!

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sometimes i'm so intense but then sometimes i'm so mindlessly lazy like i don't even try. there's something about this energy that just enables me to not even TRY lol i can't explain it.

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then again, i don't even drive myself. i don't take responsibility for my own sleeping patterns. if i fall asleep on the road, guess i'll just die. to be honest, i'm probably too lazy and childish to actually do anything about it really. maybe i'll just make a thread about the first house again or something.

Nuh uh, that's not first house. I don't want anyone to be responsible for me ever. That would hurt my pride. It's gotta be me!

sometimes i'm so intense but then sometimes i'm so mindlessly lazy like i don't event try. there's something about this energy that just enables me to not even TRY lol i can't explain it.

I think it's because you don't have to try. There aren't any real consequences if you don't do your job or don't go to work or don't drive.

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my job is quiet and peaceful but i just only really care to talk to the scorpio like i literally just wanna live the MJ life with as minimal contact with the others as i can get away with. we have similar backgrounds and upbringing (scorpio) so it's comfortable to talk to him. and i got somebody to drive for me so i don't actually have to take responsibility for being on time or not dying on the road (i've fallen asleep on the road so many times). i'm not even under the influence of anything but i just fall asleep like some people faint sometimes, especially when i'm stressed or sad.

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then again, i don't even drive myself. i don't take responsibility for my own sleeping patterns. if i fall asleep on the road, guess i'll just die. to be honest, i'm probably too lazy and childish to actually do anything about it really. maybe i'll just make a thread about the first house again or something.

Nuh uh, that's not first house. I don't want anyone to be responsible for me ever. That would hurt my pride. It's gotta be me!

sometimes i'm so intense but then sometimes i'm so mindlessly lazy like i don't event try. there's something about this energy that just enables me to not even TRY lol i can't explain it.

I think it's because you don't have to try. There aren't any real consequences if you don't do your job or don't go to work or don't drive.

my job is quiet and peaceful but i just only really care to talk to the scorpio like i literally just wanna live the MJ life with as minimal contact with the others as i can get away with. we have similar backgrounds and upbringing (scorpio) so it's comfortable to talk to him. and i got somebody to drive for me so i don't actually have to take responsibility for being on time or not dying on the road (i've fallen asleep on the road so many times). i'm not even under the influence of anything but i just fall asleep like some people faint sometimes, especially when i'm stressed or sad.

I'm actually impressed that you have a job and make it a point to take responsibility for things. I'm not sure I would if I didn't have to. I have a fantasy about losing my sanity so I can live in a home and have people do everything for me. It's just a fantasy, of course. If that actually happened, it would be horrible.

I knew a Scorpio man with either Cap or Sag moon, never learned which, who had that fatherly feeling about him...like this is a person you could trust to take care of things. I know the vibe you mean.

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to be honest, the only reason i got into this is coz of the statistics that i can use for astrology. i'm lazy and sometimes spoiled but i'm a virgo too and i need to feel productive. gets me depressed when i'm not doing anything. in fact, i tend to get into new things/hobbies/activities pretty quick then later on throw it away for something else then cycle back. i'm mercury/mutable dominant. i'm always out for myself (1H) which connotes self-sufficiency but this cap energy just enables my bad qualities for some reason.