Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus

Posted by Undine
My Gem ex has Venus retro passing over his Moon! So I thought he has been thinking of me, since I was his last serious girlfriend and we've been dancing together recently.

Well, according to his FB, it turns out he was thinking about his first ever attempts to get laid, several decades ago in Oxford!

It looks like he is very thorough, taking it in chronological order . And I'm his very last


People never change hey girl?

Keep moving forward xx
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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I can't be with a boring guy...did that for years and years, so i tend to be with myself now, who i don't find boring at all


then you wouldn't find men like me to be appealing.



Awwwww...you are a Gemini....how can you be boring?

By default, that sign is never boring



well I don't know. I am after all a very chill laid back kind of guy who doesn't really care about going out or having fun. those days are numbered for me. all I ever want this day and age is have enchanted evenings at home and enjoy nice romantic candlelight dinners and have these moods of giving a good foot massage after a nice dinner. I'm not about having wild sex anymore. that's why I said you probably wouldn't find those types of men appealing. for laughter's, I do like telling good jokes and stories. that's about as fun you'll get out of a Gemini like me.

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You don't sound boring at all. A man that can make a woman laugh is always a good thing

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
I can't be with a boring guy...did that for years and years, so i tend to be with myself now, who i don't find boring at all


So you 'proposed' ending?
What did he say?
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It was very mutual, thankfully....it was coming on for a long time and we decided to live separately but are still very much in each others' lives, just as friends now .

Works very well
Posted by TheTinMan
Posted by MyStarsShine
I can't be with a boring guy...did that for years and years, so i tend to be with myself now, who i don't find boring at all


then you wouldn't find men like me to be appealing.

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Awwwww...you are a Gemini....how can you be boring?

By default, that sign is never boring

Posted by -elle-
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lol...can I just take a time out and say how much I love my boring capricorn? ♡

I was married to a scorp for 7 years.

Love the scorp guys, but.....yeah...I would now choose the stoic goat any day.


You were married to a Scorp, Elle?

How did that work? Is he the father of your boys?


Yes. Scorp sun/Taur moon.

First half was great. Second half was pure hell.

No, he was not the father. I was married to a cap previous to that. The scorp and I had no children together.
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Oh God

Same placements as me

Sorry

Lol
I can't be with a boring guy...did that for years and years, so i tend to be with myself now, who i don't find boring at all
Posted by -elle-
lol...can I just take a time out and say how much I love my boring capricorn? ♡

I was married to a scorp for 7 years.

Love the scorp guys, but.....yeah...I would now choose the stoic goat any day.


You were married to a Scorp, Elle?

How did that work? Is he the father of your boys?
Posted by ScorpG
Thanks everybody for the answers.
I just think marriage/living together in such a young age can be bad for carrer/experiences etc...


Maybe leave it as long as possible and to make sure you are doing it for the right reasons?
~*Love, compassion, creativity, emotion*~

I felt the way you do over the last guy i was seeing...(for almost 5 years)...we were like obsessed with each other, but looking back i know that most of the appeal was that we couldn't be together in a conventional way, the yearning for each other was what kept it fresh

I also know, had we lived together, it wouldn't have the same feeling or appeal

Be careful of any illusion around the Scorpio man.....he may not be the same once you decide to be together?
Usually a strong connection to the mother. I know two guys with this who found it very hard to break away from mum. Very sensitive and perceptive too
Posted by Gemitati
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Not hating....promise....

I just have a question.

Right now, you are very interested in your scorp and he appears interested in you.

You are both married.

What's to say you go ahead and get divorced...marry the scorp and then come to the conclusion that he is boring too?

That's three marriages that were ultimately destroyed in the end.

Maybe marriage is not for you?

No shade.

Some people just can't do with the stability, consistency and the monotony of marriage and need the opposite to be happy.

Nothing wrong with that, but something to consider before you introduce anything new in your life so you don't set yourself up for the same screenplay....just with different characters.


Well we both had been married 23 and 28 years. So you can hardly say marriage is not for us.

Our relashionships is 8 y/old so boring or not there is more! I can watch him sleep and be on a cloud 9!

Don't we have rights to be happy at least at the finish line of our lives?
But it wasn't a question!

Question was how to divorce nice guy!
Not if I should do it? Yes I should!
How though?
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Yes but if and when you live with him day in, day out, he may become boring too

Yes of course! Go ahead and flirt . I think the retrograde is more difficult with starting a serious relationship
Can be clingy, like Cancer rising
Wait till it is over...i don't think it is the best time to start anything. It ends on 15 April
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Gracefully

It it ain't meant to be, it ain't meant to be

Simple


Any specific actuation/behavior? How does it feel losing? Are you happy when you lose? If you cared a lot about the game so much, how does it feel losing after?
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I never see it as losing though

Just another experience
Gracefully

It it ain't meant to be, it ain't meant to be

Simple
No i didn't hear that Lisa, you didn't tell me that, i would have remembered .....good luck with it!

Have a great weekend!
Any luck with the job hunting Lisa?
Saturn return.....people tend to subconsciously panic