Posted by bloopbloopbloopPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by bloopbloopbloopPosted by PhoenixStorm
This was so painful to read I can’t even finish.
Stay in therapy and stay out of his bed.
You can’t treetrunk your way into a mans heart/his head. You can’t sexually manipulate a man to make him love you back. Dude is trying to walk out of your life every way you turn. (LET HIM) you are begging him to stay, all the while losing yourself and your dignity in an effort to keep him. Mind was blown when I found out that you are older than him. Sex clouds judgment. Stay out of his bed then maybe you will gain some clarity and dignity.
well he ended it because he’s not sure what he wants. so i really think if i continue some type of relationship with him, then he’ll come around.
i definitely think he’s worth the wait. he’s stated to me that he doesn’t want to do this, doesn’t want to lose me, loves & cares about me but the relationship is a bit too much for him. which i totally understand because he has a lot going on. i know, it’s crazy that i’m older, but when i love, i love really hard. i’d do anything for the people i love. i gave him so much/did so much for him. i literally would take busses 4 hour busses every week to go see him (he couldn’t visit me because of his schedule).
i know it’s pretty naive of me, but i do really have hope for my future with him..even if i have to wait a little for it to happen, i’m okay with that.
& if i meet someone special along the way, then maybe i’ll stop trying to be with my now ex...but for now, i’m going to work on myself & work on getting him back.
Do you love yourself as much as you love him? He has proven that he can’t be trusted and he has tried to walk away from you as you have begged him to stay.
What do you love about him? What makes him a good catch?
ugh, yeah...i’m working on loving myself/my self esteem. i tend to get a bit insecure in relationships (for no reason at all...).
i love how much fun we have together, we laugh so hard, he does little sweet things for me, his gifts are thoughtful, he’s usually there for me emotionally, he makes my heart feel full when i’m with him & i feel so safe in his arms. we love the same music, same hobbies (besides sports). we have the same viewpoints on religion, & tend to complain about the same things. we can literally do nothing but every second of doing nothing is amazing. obv the sex is incredible, we both agree that the sex is the best we’ve had (he said this to me a few times & i agreed). he also makes me a better person, although he brings out the nasty in me sometimes, it made me realize that there’s a lot i don’t like about my behavior & i’m changing it, not for him but because of him, which is so amazing. he is the kindest, most sweetest person...i just ruined it. i kept pushing him, i shouldn’t have -_- & now it’s probably over. i’m literally going to think about him everyday of my life..i will never love anyone as much as i love him..hopefully it’s not too late to fix things.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixStorm
I don’t think August is hurt at all. Lol I think he used this “entanglement” as a publicity stunt to promote his album. I think Jada was used and doesn’t even realize it. That’s just my opinion.
And I never realized how imbalanced the marriage is between Will and Jada (although they are both actors, so I could obviously be way off base with my observation) but Jada seems self centered while Will seems relationship centered. She was all like “MY healing, MY childhood trauma, I wanted to feel good, hadn’t felt good in long time and the part about nobody can give permission except her”. While Will kept talking about unconditional love, etc.. and she said she didn’t consider it a transgression which shows she feels no remorse or regret. (Again, just my thoughts)
HOWEVER.. when he had said “I’ll get you back” and she said “you already did” that makes me wonder if it’s one of those situations where they have both cheated and they both know they’re not enough for each other, but they hold onto what’s familiar and continue to try to “one-up” each other.. which is toxic as hell. They are definitely not “relationship goals” for me.
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Ugh not!!!! Aries, Virgo, Cap and a Leo.. ok fine the Leo ran his own business but still being given way too much. The Virgo was given a lot but ended up in his own career in his own right eventually. The Cap 😂😂😂😂 omfg he’s an idiot. ( this is Cap#2) Aries had own business but enabled.
Me the Sag married one of them, planned to marry another and nope i had no clue of the money in the beginning .. I was attracted because they were fun. Ugh 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Money messes up everything 😡
Posted by PinsAndNeedles
My job was totally handed to me thanks to connection I had with my Taurus. I'm okay with that.
I'm not rich though. Am rich in spirit... And chocolate. 🙂
Posted by Sailor_Mars
I've come to the conclusion that Scorpio Sun males have a rather feminine energy. They're mysterious and sexy in a dark way but I wouldn't call them Alpha. I think that Aries Sun females are too Alpha for our own good.
Posted by Mactavish_RPosted by PhoenixStorm
I do think there is truth to this. Even after people have known me for a while, I think I still have some libra tendencies (scorp sun) that go beyond the surface/initial meeting. For instance, I prefer harmony over conflict, whereas I think other scorps don’t shy away from conflict. I have people pleasing tendencies 🙄 most scorps don’t give a butter.
But I have 3 or 4 other libra placements in my chart besides my libra rising so I wasn’t sure if it was just my rising or all of them combined.
I've seen that in other Scorpios as well tbh. They care, or at times overthink alot on what other people think of their actions and words.
And yes the preference of not saying something just to avoid conflict, that is also common.
This is coming from a guy who has a Scorpio dad, Scorpio best friend, Scorpio ex-girlfriend and some more Scorpio friends.click to expand