A confused question (Aquarious)

I've known this Aqua guy ....for about 3 years, it started out with all the love promises and disappearing coming back into a patern. But I've learned to give him his space.
Anyways a question, I know when a woman has confidence in herself, men are more attracted to her. My guy once in awhile would come out and say something mean/rude
and usually I would brush it off or I would think its my fault and say sorry a few times with explanations.
Yesterday I had to ask him a question online and it showed he was on line, I sent him a message and waited for a good while, and finally i send him a message, u are busy, later. I get a reply back, are u checking on me if I'm online or not, and for how long?
This time I was upset, I said some things and at the end I said, if u want to talk to me act your age and grow up! (He is not young) and today he said something silly and I came out and told him what I really feel about it. He didn't say more on it and started another subject to talk about. Do aquas like it when someone comes out and tells them how it is? (I'm not a rude person) I have other friends as guys and its nothing like that with them. Any other suggestions advice, on Aquas? Thanks everyone for all your replies

What is your sign? I'm with an aqua now. I'm a gemini. And yes, my aqua is sweet, expressive, pulls a disappearing act at times. I guess, the thing is with an aqua, you should understand that they need space. Do not contact until he initiates. Don't apologize as well for something that you are not supposed to be sorry for. Keep it light and happy. It looks like you really like him and by being that predictable, the thrill disappears and later on, so will he. Keep your mystery. Show him you like him or you care about him but stop checking on him. That will suffocate him.

Thanks Aria ....no I don't check upon him, I don't have that much time on my hands!
Any advice on how to be more mysterious? And have contact u more and more?

Let him initiate. Pull back and let him chase you. Go about your business and do your thing. Be independent. Aquas like that. They do like directness and boldness but the don't like confrontational and emotional stuff. They will avoid that like the plague. And for goodness sake - Stop Stalking Him. Or at least don't let him know about it.

Hi truecap, how are u? Of course I don't stalk him, I don't have that much time on my hands lol, yes sometimes u do have something to say or ask .....but I've noticed he's very rude at times ...he will say it, so to try to put a stop to it ....I had to say something, direct and confront it. But he did say "lol" (to mean he's joking about it)
I jus was livid, .....because it wasn't true, I had no one say that to me! Anyways I have to really stop contacting him till he contacts me. He did say sorry after and that it was rude of him to say that.
He is busy too .....so I respect that! Does a aquarious man think about u when they disappear or be aloof?

Hopefully the aquas will chime in to answer that question.

I think there's a lot of merit in what truecap has posted 🙂

My truth is a bit different to most other Aquas I've found it's that if I don't consider someone worthy of a relationship I usually wouldn't be any more affectionate than that of an acquaintance. Playing hot and cold was a sign for me when I was YOUNG but it's not something I do now so I can't say for him tbh.

Either case you need to look to his venus/mars and also moon/mercury and aspects pertaining to those placements if you want an understanding for his behaviour if we're talking astrology.

Thank you aquasnoz 🙂

Posted by Keesha
Thanks Aria ....no I don't check upon him, I don't have that much time on my hands!
Any advice on how to be more mysterious? And have contact u more and more?

How to be mysterious is a tough question! I am mysterious by nature. It drives people crazy. At times. Some like it, specially my aqua. He told me " I'm usually not interested with other people but with you, I feel so comfortable. I feel I want to talk with you always". Lol. Anyway, so, your question about being mysterious lies on how interesting your life is. Do you do a lot of stuff? Sports? Dancing? Do you enjoy your time alone? What kind of person are you? Do you reveal everything about yourself? Are you secretive? You have to be a mixture of good and bad and not try to conceal the bad side. Mystery isn't about hiding your true self but rather letting him uncover it layer by layer by layer and find him liking it. Humans are mysterious by nature and I don't think a person is boring unless he chooses to be one. So I would really suggest that you get your gear on and live life as he uncovers you. Do what you love, be passionate and express it. Be unpredictable. Surprise him with little gestures.

Wow Aria .....thanks I appreciate u taking your time out and explaining this all!
Yes it makes a lot of sense now! 🙂