Physical Appearance

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Angeleyes17 on Thursday, May 2, 2013 and has 39 replies.

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@Angeleyes17
13 Years500+ Posts
Just a general question.

Are Aqua males/females into appearance? What strikes them the most when they meet someone?

If you have a partner, how did they get your attention?
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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts
I'm not into appearance at all, but it does count for a bit..example..I wont date a fat guy. I go for personality more than looks. The person has to be funny, be able to have a conversation about anything, be smart & of course look healthy. Facial features dont matter, but most of the guys I dated do have one thing in common, tall & slim.
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@aquapiscescusp
14 Years10,000+ Posts
It's not a top priority for me. What gets me is the essence of the person, the chemistry we share, how interesting they are and if they have a sense of humour. I do like someone who takes care of themselves, shows confidence and has that twinkle in their eye.
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@aquasnoz
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Everyone I've been interested in had this x-factor (I think I mentioned this before) looks are nice but not essential and really if you're being you and I like you then I can throw looks out the window.

So... be weird... I like weird.
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@MuchLovetoGive
13 Years
Weird! I agree, but it's not really weird, it's true; people who are genuine. I was just thinking about this last night. I thought it was maybe emotional intelligence that is attractive, or maybe it's just energy. I prefer someone who is fit, but I think if I really connected with someone their weight wouldn't matter. I know that once I connect with someone on a non-physical level, they become incredibly sexy to me. It wouldn't matter if they were sagging here or fluffy there, a mental connection does wonders. It's definitely mental or emotion that's first for me, when others look at pics of half-naked people and get excited, where I honestly wonder who they (in the pic) are inside and if I would be attracted to that.

I guess it's a lot easier to change the outside by caring for yourself than it is to change what you're truly made up of on the inside.
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@aquapiscescusp
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We went somewhere to eat and I ordered something expensive. I never assumed he was paying for it and frigg, that is what I wanted. He gave me that look and said, you are ordering that?

That was it for me.

I said yes, and proceeded to order some fancy appetizers just to watch him sweat. That put him in a foul mood.

I enjoyed my meal whilst thinking, how to break up with him.

When the bill came I took it right away and said, don't worry--it's on me 😛

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Yeah I think so! I mean if you're gonna take a girl out why worry about so much lol. Plus it is you that's taking her out if you're worried about money then why the hell are you taking her to a place that's going to make you sweat lol just seems so fake like you're being someone you're not just to please the other person.

*shrugs*
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@aquasnoz
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Posted by feby16aqua
I would not go out and expect someone to pay for me...I'm prepared. But if I know that he's going to be paying I will try to take it easy on him LOL. Plus I'm weird about eating in front of someone I'm into 😉 I'm not a shy person...but I become incredibly shy and coy with an interest.



LMAO! That's one of my tells I think. Which is why I'm always super conscious when I end up at lunch or dinner with the person I like.
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@aquapiscescusp
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Posted by aquasnoz
Posted by feby16aqua
I would not go out and expect someone to pay for me...I'm prepared. But if I know that he's going to be paying I will try to take it easy on him LOL. Plus I'm weird about eating in front of someone I'm into 😉 I'm not a shy person...but I become incredibly shy and coy with an interest.



LMAO! That's one of my tells I think. Which is why I'm always super conscious when I end up at lunch or dinner with the person I like.
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Me too tbh but wine is my friend.
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@NotYourAverageAquarius
13 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius
You know I don't really get this who'll knew thing I hear bout when it comes to dating women... It must be me growing up with a mom who was born in the 40's or something... cause I ain't never seen so many women expecting to pay for everything these days—
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@aquarius09
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Very much so!! I don't know what placement it is in my chart, but I'm superficial when it comes to my partner. I have to be physically attracted to my partner, not just his personality. I have often seen people overlooking looks for a greattt personality, but I can't seem to do that. I don't care how beautiful a person's personality is because if I don't find them physically appealing, it just wouldn't go past that.

What am I attracted to? Slender faces with facial hair in men. I'm not attracted to babyfaced and clean shaven men. I don't care much for height as long as the guy is taller than me. I don't care if he's physically built, just as long as he's not fat or lardy. I don't mind skinny guys, so long as he doesn't look frail. Hygiene is a must!

When I meet someone, what strikes me most is the way they carry themselves and whether I find them attractive.