Already a loser?

Well, for those who dont know i?m kinda seeing a new Aqua man (05/02/79), we met last Sunday on the Easter weekend. Anyways, since then we?ve been joined literally at the hip..except at the weekend when he was motorbike racing for 4 days. BUT, now i?m very comfortable already, and he appears to be the same and he says he is too but should i start to back off anyways?? I dont want us to suffocate each other so early on, but if we?re both comfortable, whats the problem, right??

Hmmm, not typical of Aqua i suspect, but then i always have such good rapport with those guys!!! Maybe i shpuldnt see him until the weekend..give us a chance to miss each other

Well, i think i might have fucked it up already I sent him a message to say that i wanted to spend time alone tonight because im really tired and also that i wanted to have a chance to miss him and that a little bit of space is a good thing for us. He said "of course, no problem" but then straight away i just wanted to see him so bad. WTF is happening— Ok, im obviously a loony!!!! So i answered back that i want to see him so often but that i dont want him to suffocate just because i cant keep still....but maybe i should just have left everything alone!!! I will wait until tomorrow and then ask him if we can do something nice at the weekend...a good idea??

I agree with Atlantic Myst, i did so much agonizing and analyzing in the first few months with my Aqua, i realise now that they just respect you more for being yourself. Go with the flow Sola... ps they don't need as much space as people think !!

I guess that would be a good idea sola but I wouldn't try to give him the impression that you want him to yourself all the time cuz as you may know the typical aqua would hop on his nimbus cloud and zoom off...

good luck on the new relationship though best friend! No matter which way you guys go I'll still be here for you!!!🙂

FEAR NOT!!! He called to say that it?s impossible to have "space" because we are inseparable (how luverrrly) so everything is back to being great. I guess i just think too much, and i suppose i should just learn to deal with it as it comes, and anyways, it turns out he?s confused by me as much as i am by him = perfect!!! We have so much fun, and this morning we already made plans for the weekend..the cinema and out on the motorbike on Sunday 🙂


Thanks ESPECIALLY BigD..you?re a star!!

So after work i sent a message to say that if he was in the city the enext day he should send me a message so that we could meet for coffee, but he said he would prefer to saty over. Basically he has stayed over every night since last Tuesday, gulp!!

And then he was telling me that he just wants to be with me everyday..i?m a bit scared really, but i told him i was so its ok!! I think i need space and then when i have it, i dont want it...i feel sorry for him!!! But i think it might already be love 🙂

Yeah, i guess, but he just said the "L" word today. Hmmmm, dont really know what i think about it, and right now he?s gone on an hour long motorcycle trip just to pick up a new helmet for me so that we can ride together tomorrow. I like it, but i?m just soooooo overwhelmed, it?s come right out of nowhere. Deep breaths...calm!!!

The other thing is..the other morning i went tothe supermarket because everything is closed here on Sundays and he said that he would come with me..fine! But when we got there he started to add things to the basket like a toothbrush etc to keep at my house for when he stays over, as well as spare motorcycle clothes...OMG. What could i say without hurting his feelings?? He stayed at his own place last night..the first night of the whole week. Ive got the feeling that now is the time for him to start backing away from me..i dont know how i feel about any of it. Sometimes when he?s there im suffocated, and then as soon as he goes im so sad. Even for example last night, i was out with friends for dinner and stuff, and i was there with them of course, but my mind was only on him. SHITTTTTTTTTTTT. Not good.