So, how does one tame and keep an Aqua man?

Okay, I know that sounds rather arrogant. But if you read my post about the Aqua man being fantastic in bed....you would realise that I can't lose this man! He is too amazing for words. And he cracks me up!

I keep thinking "Clark Gable, Clark Gable" when I see him, because he has that debonair attitude, that tough guy air, that smile, that wink....as well as being slightly goofy when he dances 🙂

Do I play hard to get? Does he like surprises? Lingerie? Or just saying crazy out of the blue things? I am capable of all of the above, and willing to relinquish my natural Scorp fixity and stubborness....if only to prolong this love affair.

I say keep doing what you are doing. He clearly comes back for more. So dont fix what aint broken.

No offense but I don't think any one can tame the aquarians! I mean to tame them, you gotta understand them! But then they don't even understand themselves at times!
I second Lady_M, keep doing what you are doing, it's working 🙂

you let them tame you...

precisely 🙂

Unfortunately, the Scorp-Aquarian connection is rated mediocre for the long haul.

Apparently, the book says the nature of Scorpios and Aquarians are fundamentally different. Scorpios are emotional and intuitive, while Aquarians are more logical and detached. Says you got to relate with Aquarius on a more mental level, not a deep emotional one.

Girl, I understand the Aqua Man in bED!!! THey are amazing...truly amazing...and I am in the same boat...or similar one anyways...I recently sent my aqua a bag full of lingerie, toys and a sexy note...I got a call that night, and he's taken me out twice in one week (without the sex part)...they are kinky and love it! It sounds like you guys are having fun, unfortunately, my aqua man is a little more shy and in bed, although willing to experiment, does not have the greatest sense of humor! Or if he does, I just haven't seen it yet, but I will say, from my short experience with this aqua (only 2 mths)...they love to have fun...party and overall like to have a great time...keep things interesting and I have a feeling we'll be able to keep them aroudn...they love learning new thigns..introduce him to anything new that they can learn from...and try the lingerie thing...

Yeah, I am thinking along the same lines. I haven't played with toys for years, certainly not with my ex-hubby (Cancer), but this may be the man who would appreciate them. Wow, I'm actually nervous!

Scorp rising,

Yes, I know that Scorp and Aqua are not supposed to get along. But I have a lot of air in my chart, and he has moon in Cancer I think. Also, I read somewhere that fixed signs understand each other (even if we get stubborn) because we are fundamentally reliable. Also I know quite a few Aqua man/Scorp woman couples.

whatever you do, don't try to tame him. Hell, I'd even stay away from trying to understand him. From my experience, they HATE to feel they are understood.

But they've got soft hearts, believe me. They feel a lot, but keep it all inside. Just stay comfortable. Things will be great btween you for a little while, and he'll start pushing against the fences, straining the relationship a little here and a little there. Keep your cool if you can, he needs you to be solid so he can be a little crazy.

(ps: it is very difficult to keep your cool, time after time. Don't let him walk all over you, though. They can't stand a woman who'd let them do that.)

"From my experience, they HATE to feel they are understood."
*giggles* I know a few guys who can attest to this...

Aqua men really like bitches...well women who are mean to them; so for those of you who try to kill 'em with kindness...well good luck.

*(waits for herds of stoner's...)*

"Aqua men really like bitches...well women who are mean to them; so for those of you who try to kill 'em with kindness...well good luck."

M.. is this true?

'cause his Ex is a Total (C-U-NEXT-TUESDAY)

It's really quite sad actually... why settle for someone who treats you like shit, vs someone who would do anything for you?

Weird.

Call it 'independence', 'strength'...essentially good qualities...but they confuse bitch characteristics with this....besides the fact that we prefer challenges.

Aqua men arent the only ones with this issue...most men it seems.

assertiveness is the word im looking for.
Again, assertiveness is good, but can be confused with bitch characteristics.

So Aqua men like bit...hy girls? hmm...maybe I'm just beign way too nice to mine! The one day I was slightly cold to him, he called me that night and was really sweet all week! hmmm...lightbulb!

yeah, i agree. aqua men do not like bitchy girls...well, at least my aqua man doesn't!!! they just want a woman that has a backbone, a strong opinion, and independence. they want and need a STRONG woman!!! someone they can admire and respect at the same time.

"I think "sassy" is the idea, not necessarily "mean". It's okay to have a bit of an attitude as long as you don't forget your sense of humor"

-yes...they like when you can take a few and throw some back! they like to joke around and tease, but you have to be able to be witty and comment back. be able to joke around with him and fun with it, and not take it to heart. but, don't ever have an attitude...oh, they hate that!

I read all your post, and I think MC so far are most correct!

I need some guidance. I have been dating a aqua for 3 months now, most things were good except for the calling thing, and he does call atleast once time a day. But, now he is very aloof, me being very leoish I told him if he doesn't have time for me, we can go our seperate ways. Oh no, he 'loves' me, but still what is up with this and its just started this weekend. Past relationships have taught me that he was with someone else. Maybe he does. What is up with these men?? Have dated a leo man before--- whole lot easier than this!

Read the 700+ topic as well as the countless aqua leo threads which you can search for (theres a pretty recent one as well) and if you have any more questions start your own thread.

click here

Recent leo/aqua thread

WOW!! Did not know these men are so crazy. Thanks. I am out of my leo realm.

Nope, your not in Kansas anymore...

Should this sign even need to be tamed is the question—!!!?? haha

😕

Try a good game of chess and a nasty bet =D