aqua girl versus virgo guy

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hey there vll...how have you been doing? long time, no talk!!! well, i don't get to visit this site very often anymore, but i still pop in once in a while 🙂
my aqua leaves in about a week from now, but i have been trying to focus more and more on my life and not having him around. it will be a life style change but i think i am up for the challenge! i am staying as strong as i possibly can right now...
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P-Angel: re your hubby's feelings about Aqua women: I would have feelings of a different nature but of a similar intensity. I find that virgo men turm me off the way they are so pedantic about certain practical matters which they show no flexibility on and have no insight at all for the broader picture and the fact that these little issues that they cannot see beyond are not even a requisite.

I find it an efeminate trait in a lot of virgo men the way they get into a tizzy about things that really are trivial and they show no awareness of how petty they appear to others who listen to them going on and on. It is also something that makes me aware of a great distance between me and him in that I think if this is the type of mind state he is in over something that I consider to be ridiculous, I have little confidence that he would even comprehend what I was talking about if I were to share with him what's going on in my head. And that it doesn't seem to occur to him that I might have my own set of feelings and thoughts that are not the same as his, further alienates me from being able to feel close to him.

To re-cap I find virgo men to be very self-orientated and into themselves and this type of personality does not attract me at all.