I wrote a post earlier on here about him stalking me after he disappeared....he disappeared on me for a month and a week we've been dating for 5 months....just when i said bump him and started doing my own thing he appears!! smh he called me....and i played it super cool lol...i was all jolly like "Oh hey!! how you've been" and he goes "Not great,i've been down lately,finacial issues,and all" i figured that in the first place when he disappeared because he told me he lost his job and needed a new one....but he could've still let me know what was up....so he just started talking to me like he normally does...our intellectual conversations and he gets quiet and says to me .."You may not want to hear this right now,but i missed you so much" i'm thinking in my head..."Well why didn't you contact me"....then he asked me "Do you love me? " i got quiet because i was thrown off...i told him i will not answer that right now...so i asked him do he love me and he says "Yes,I do...I love you,So do you love me" i told him yes...because i do.....so he been back in contact with me everyday...he called me and wanted me to stay the night while his mom was there in town and his sons...i never met either of them i think that's a big step...once he wouldn't dare call me while he was around his children...do they disappear before they are ready to be serious and come back changed?
Aqua male disappears then reappear!!?

"I wrote a post earlier on here about him stalking me after he disappeared....he disappeared on me for a month and a week we've been dating for 5 months"
This phrase is confusing...stalking eludes to unwanted behavior like someone peeping in your windows behind a bush.
I read on thru your writing and deciphered oh you wanted him to be in touch...so the word you are looking for is not stalking it's checking up on you or keeping tabs.
If you've asked this before...surely you must know the hot and cold, push and pull method of the dear aquas. No one can truly say what this aqua is thinking. All you can do it bide your time and wait until he reveals what he wants to.
This phrase is confusing...stalking eludes to unwanted behavior like someone peeping in your windows behind a bush.
I read on thru your writing and deciphered oh you wanted him to be in touch...so the word you are looking for is not stalking it's checking up on you or keeping tabs.
If you've asked this before...surely you must know the hot and cold, push and pull method of the dear aquas. No one can truly say what this aqua is thinking. All you can do it bide your time and wait until he reveals what he wants to.

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