Aqua Man & mind games

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I'm talking to a past friend that's an Aqua we've known each other for quite some time but disconnected for a awhile. He was still messing around with his child's mother and I kept blowing up on him because I knew he was lying. Now this year I actually had sex with him and he says he wants to wait to get to know me all over again before he gets into another relationship but never reaches out to do so. He works out of state so it varies when I get to see him. I wonder if he only came back because something didn't work out like he thought it was and I was just filling a void he had. If u wanted to get to know me why would u come onto me? I remember before it happened he said I've never came at u in that way "sexually" but that night he did. So I feel like if he wasn't trying to jump into a relationship why would he pursue me. I can say it was my fault in a way for giving in and not telling him how much sex means to me. He takes forever to text me back and hasn't called or texted. We did right after he left but it was only about us being together bcuz I had other guys trying to pursue me, & if he was serious then I wouldn't entertain them. He claims he is only talking to me but I fell like it bullshit...who goes through life not talking to anyone or someone they like? At this point I fell like I made a mistake and just wanna let go of him before he does any further damage



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I'm talking to a past friend that's an Aqua we've known each other for quite some time but disconnected for a awhile. He was still messing around with his child's mother and I kept blowing up on him because I knew he was lying. Now this year I actually had sex with him and he says he wants to wait to get to know me all over again before he gets into another relationship but never reaches out to do so. He works out of state so it varies when I get to see him. I wonder if he only came back because something didn't work out like he thought it was and I was just filling a void he had. If u wanted to get to know me why would u come onto me? I remember before it happened he said I've never came at u in that way "sexually" but that night he did. So I feel like if he wasn't trying to jump into a relationship why would he pursue me. I can say it was my fault in a way for giving in and not telling him how much sex means to me. He takes forever to text me back and hasn't called or texted. We did right after he left but it was only about us being together bcuz I had other guys trying to pursue me, & if he was serious then I wouldn't entertain them. He claims he is only talking to me but I fell like it bullshit...who goes through life not talking to anyone or someone they like? At this point I fell like I made a mistake and just wanna let go of him before he does any further damage





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Stop texting him first. Let him reach out to you. If he does be happy to hear from him and don’t mention anything about lack of contact. If he doesn’t reach out, that’s the answer (not interested).

That said, given his history, how he’s lied to you, how he treated his baby momma, how he says he wouldn’t hit on you then contradicted himself, ask yourself why do you want him. Why do you think he’s worth all this worry? I’m not asking for you to answer, but for you to consider the answer for yourself.