Aquarian got hurt

Hi, I an aqua guy who dated a Taurus woman. for her this is not like a real relationship, as she was in a very long realtionship with two other guys previously and she used to be with guys as she likes. this was my first serious date & she initiated it very much and i really didnt find it intresting. I tried to tell her that there was something missing. but eventually we were together and as days went on i found myself thinking one and only about her all the day. but i didnt express my feelings to her. she flew back home for some time and i was able to figure it out that i really fell for her & when i asked her, she said that she was thinking about her first love. i got hurt.when she came back, i expressed it as in a way i never would express and she seemed to be coming near to me. but she again went very distant and she even tried avoiding me. when i asked what all those u initiated and asked for. and she replied they are just for fun. oh my God. because I had may girls around me before whom i really didnt feel so much. but tried not to hurt them and i usually explain them and convince them that i cant be for them. but in this case she asked for so much and i really really in my life came so much for her. I feel so much fooled , hurt and feel that i cant love another girl as much as i love her. i am hurt to the deepest.

oh no !
please don't take it out on the next lady you date...
try to put it down to experience

i am a taurus woman dating aqua male..this is a confusing match,,i get that push pull from aqua all the time and too much distance,,we have dated for a yr now and i still dont feel the connection i need to feel..i dont feel i have a stable relationship with this aqua man..i have broke it off for him to come back to say he loves me blah blah blah..still not feeling the connection...but hard to let go....im not sure what u were saying but find it strange that the taurus hurt u..there must have been some non communication going on...if she felt that u were too distant or not sure of your intentions she will see other people until she is sure or until u both have decided that yall are in a relationship..taurus women prefer straight out honesty over round about actions,,it is too confusing to try to figure out how people feel...and as for telling u how she feels or not telling u it is because we are unsure of how YOU feel about us...i think at the core taurus/aqua can be a good match because truly want the same things..i think the major problem with this combo is taurus wants closeness and aqua needs freedom..if there can be some compromise in that area..it may work..

Yeah I am confused abput what really happened! She didn't waby a relationship? All while you were falling in love with her?

Oh shit....another young Aqua boy goes bad...
This is where it starts...they get hurt and never get over it and many many woman suffer for it for years to come.

Thanks friends for your comments. Yes you are correct taurus35. I feel that she is honest, but when i ask some critical questions at some point like why you committed yourself in words, she usually smiles at me reflecting that she played / lied. She usually feels that her first relationship was spoiled because of her and she want it back. but at some point she thought that i might be some one who could give her happy life. but it took me so long to get correct decisions because i feel in love with her slowly and progressively with a true feeling that i am in love. but at that mean time she felt that i may not be a good match for her. its like she changes so quickly with out knowing that the others in the relation may get hurt. i can see her good qualities, but some bad qualities also. She usually thinks that i am lying on my previous relationships. i used to say that there is no woman in my life made me mad, but she thinks that its a usual Man's dialogue. but when she said that i am not like an other guy, i believed her. now my question is , whether will i be able to come out of the emotional clutches? when i be in with the next woman, i need to think only of that new person, but not on this taurus. Also, i usually have the fear of my partner leaving me and now it came true in my life.

aquaboy how old are u and this taurus...as far as her not believing that u never got mad in a relationship is a hard one to swallow..it seems unrealistic n a taurus mind..now she may think that u did get mad but maybe never expressed it...see if it dont sound logical or realistic we will not believe it..for us seeing is believing,we need hard core facts...if not we are stubborn about it until it is proven...u cant just tell us anything.....and expect us to believe and trust it if u are not showing it in your ACTIONS..that is where people go wrong..thinking they can just tell u something without backing it up..for the most part we require closeness but also need just a little space sometimes...just want to give u some insight,,,p.s dont let no relationship judge your future relationships..its nothing but trouble..from my experience..when u decide to let it go do just that let it go and move on..dont jump from relationship to another let yourself heal..and nobody want to be alone,,,my advice find u self,love yourself,then give love to someone who wants 2 love u back...good luck

I think that their is a lot of confusion going on here...I think that the aqua taurus relationship could really work out if they can communicate well...I think that aquas send so many mixed messages to straight forward taurus that eventually they both get confused and back off...your taurus probably really likes you or possibly loves you but isn't sure whether you like her back so that's why she's getting attention from others to see how you would react...because if tauruses don't like you they won't even waste their time with you...I think you should ask her how she feels about you and make sure your serious about it...that's the only way that your going to know for sure about this situation and then tell her how you feel about her...one tip on grabbing a taurus is to be consistent