AQUARIAN WOMAN NEEDED

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I read your message and posted a reply. I personally feel you are not at fault here. You sound like a nice person who was coerced into something that was not of your making. Why does the girlfriend hold on to resentful feelings for you, when she is the one who got the ball rolling? This is the problem. Most men have this same fantasy, and the partner wants to satisfy them, so they go along with it at the time. After the experience is over, they wish they didn't open that door. It is not your problem. It's to late to change things now, but you can get your own partner and let her have sex with both of you and then her husband will now what it feels like. Or she can suggest they have a threesome with another man. This whole situation is so common. You are not alone!!! Please don't beat yourself up. It was a learning experience; you made a mistake, so just move on!! The fact that you are questioning your behavior, shows you have a good head on your shoulders. Good luck!!!
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Thanks for yor encouraging words. I really needed them. I've moved on from this bad learning experience. I don't think she has problems with me because of what we did. I think she resents me personally. I know this because they plan on doing it again, not with me, but they liked it, and they're going to try it with another woman. If she resented me for that reason, why would she do it again? Anyway, it is not my business anymore. They aren't asking me to do it, so I have nothing to worry about. I just don't want him to marry her. She's sick in the head. This could not be healthy for them as a couple and as parents. They both need help. You only go to certain extents to please your partner. And he's going way too far.
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this is to the last response......sounds to me like all 3 are young and didn't bother to think of the repercussions of their actions....typical of alot of people today, not just the young......however, seeing how you must be perfect, i guess you've never made a 'mistake' and now feel entitled to judge this girl.....should i ever require a jury trial....i will pray that you are 'not' on it !! oh perfect one !!!
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to 67.213....i would have to take these comments personally in order to be insulted and only a moron would do that !!...it's the trash talk i don't like and you encouraged this in one of your comments. i don't think this person sent the message so everyone could take a shot at her....maybe she just wanted some advise because she was feeling bad....and i don't know what you're talking about when you say ''doesn't look like she plans on staying out of it''....from everything i've read, it sounds to me like she 'is' going to stay out of it but maybe i missed something....and why are people so willing to trash other people anyways and why does it come so easily to them?? people like that scare the s*** out of me !!....especially if they are in a position of power....i just don't understand that kind of logic nor do i want to....the planet is so full of angry people and if you can't offer words of encouragement or try to be helpful then why not just keep your mouth shut !! i'm sure calling her a slut was of no help or use to her at all or to anyone else reading these comments....everyone has their opinion but to offer one with no solution or compassion is utterly pointless and destructive !!
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Willie, start from the top of the conversation and read slowly. Yes, you are missing alot. She asked for open advise. If you or anyone else can't handle the truth, then don't ask!!! I agree the world is a pretty violent place. Talking and having debates is not violent. If your scared of the world, get some help. Telling people how they can express an opinion is none of your business. If it offends you, then that is your problem. I am not hear to scare anybody. You missed the whole point. I gave her(the original writer) the benefit of the doubt and she kept wanting to pursue it. So, what do you want to say now?
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Thanks for the CMA. However, I do think ole' Willie needs to stop living in fantasy land. He should just move to the Mountains and get as far away from people so that we dont have to listen to his June Cleaver a** anymore. Oh, and my language? Go (like I said before) and wack your Willie and f*** yourself! I am the most positive person when it is deserved and the least positive person when it isnt. If it looks like a slut, acts like a slut and walks like a slut.....I call it for what it is...she knowingly has made a slut of herself. Period, end of her feeling sorry for herself and you allowing her to do that.
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here's what i have to say now....i think you and that other person (excuse the expression) would make a great case study !! talk about hypocrites !! it was ok for you two to criticize her but the minute someone criticizes you two, you get all defensive...yes, i know your type well....why don't you practice what you preach !!!! and you're wrong...i didn't 'miss' your point, i ignored it.....she was asking for advise not someone's critical opinion.....and oh, i read it again so unless the site i'm reading is different than the one your reading, i suggest 'you' read her reply again......no where in there does it say she wants to continue with them...quite the contrary.....how old are you anyways ??
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Oooooh! Willie.... After I laughed my a** off over my Compadre's reply...(Still laughing...!) (Hey!) I can only say, your "Golly gee" attitude over being supportive for a - slut- who got herself involved physically with her business partner- who has children and who is engaged to be married? Even a "no brainer" could see that her actions (naked actions) were selfish and only an act of her "OWN" ego.
So, what do I want to say now? I'm not impressed by your sympathy for her Willie. She get's (in the future) what she deserves. Cry for her and wack your Willie over it- but get real! She's a slut. If It walks like a duck, sckwacks like a duck, fucks people she doesnt love then call her for what she is... she's a slut. Fuck you and your locked up ass! lol
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168.191....yes, i would have to agree 100% with you. what i'd like to know is, why is the 3rd party getting all the grief......it was the ''couple'' that asked 'her' to join.....if anyone's got a problem, i would say it's the female in the relationship.......like who invites someone they know and that their boyfriend works with to join them in a 3way.....hello....just asking for trouble !! however....if everyone is a consenting adult, i don't see the problem...just because the girlfriend has a problem with it, well too bad....a little late to take it back and no reason to blame the very person ''they'' asked !!!!! if the girlfriend felt she had to do it to ''keep'' her boyfriend, then she needs to re-evaluate their relationship !! simple as that.....i can't say i agree with what the 3rd party did but people make mistakes....i don't think she should be burned at the stake for it!! all she did was ask for some advise and 'some' people on this site see that as target practice!! they are probably very young....let's hope they ''never'' make a mistake and ask for some ''advise''...i'm sure they won't because they're perfect but if they do, i sure hope the people they are expecting advice from aren't as cold and callous as they are !!! your day is coming you two so make sure every step you take is ''perfect''.....and again, no where in her comments does it say she wants to continue with this 3some.....i think it's ''your'' tool that needs sharpening !!!!
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Geez, I'll try harder not to make "target" practice out of other people's stupidity. Willie's right. I'll also work on my "sewer" mouth. Thank you all for showing me the light! You saved me from flushing my own head down the toilet. Maybe it's me that needs to move to the mountains and far away from people! Please excuse my language if I get angry when I hear about immoral behavior when it comes to using our bodies as play toy's...?