Aquarius&Aries need assistance

Aquarian female,s please advise and guide Aries male passionately in love and have been so for 8 devoted yrs. But she won,t leave her partner.

Its so cold out here on the moors alone are there any Aquarians out there or have you all gone to the moon which shines so brightly tonight.

look elsewhere and find happness there more than one soulmate.

Hello! I have been to the moon and back and gathered enough energy to sustain me the rest of my life...positive energy that would be! I am not sure that I have a lot of insight for you...but I will try as I am a persevering soul! Aries fire is exciting and yet frightening for the Aquarius who tends to be aloof...calm, cool and collected, that would be...
Your best bet is to focus on a "friendship" type relationship...attempt to contain your fire until the time is right so as not to cause your Aquarian girl to throw water on it! (We are an Air sign...but are water carriers...which actually means we are nurturers...)
You don't have any little creatures that may need her attention— That may appeal to her nurturing nature!
A few definite important aspects are to have a sense of humor and to not be too arrogant...

I am not sure I helped much...but the point is that I tried!
Good Luck!
And Best Wishes!

Thank-you to you both for your replies
I liked them both and each gave me something to think about.
Aquas moods change so quickly why is this.maybe its just life or hormonal any further info would be useful.

Hi! You are quite right. Our moods do change easily and quickly...
I am not sure why but we seem to be particularly sensitive to negativity...negative emotions from outside sources bring us down quickly...it is like we absorb what is in the air around us....
I have learned to focus on the positve and to try not to get overwhelmed with negativity no matter where the source is from...
I say things to some that I never would have said before when I was younger...I was too considerate of their feelings...but, it works, usually... to dissipate the negativity and to make the other person become more rational. At least, for me! (My parents gave me firsthand training! And, sometimes it was about how NOT to be! I try to learn something from everyone!)
As far as dealing with an aquarian...when mood spells occur that are dark...proceed with caution!! You may try humor as long as it cannot be construed as personally derogarory...this has brought me out of a foul mood...
Best to you!

Whoops! The word should be "derogatory"...excuse my typo...

Thank-you for your reply and second correction. I was,nt really going to say anything honest.
I understand more and thanks for the tip.
I would like to know if intimacy is a great fear, that is, showing real feelings makes aquas vunerable and are un-easy with?