Hey Guys! Im new to this website. I made an account because I have an AQUA Boyfriend for the past 4 years (Im a Gemini) and ofcourse of rollercoaster of a relationship makes me come on this forum all the time to relate to others.. I need your guys help asap!! Background: Weve been together for 4 1/2 years.. He absolutley loves me (actually shows and expresses it to me) He even told me whilst drunk that we hoped we'd be getting engaged next summer.. etc..... Problem: 2 nights ago, I kept text messaging him and he couldnt reply.. I got really angry because I thought he was ignoring me, so I said "Alright, NVM.." he knew I was angry......he replied: "OMFG, IM treetrunkING SLEEPING" and then I got the point and never bothered him again...and its been two days and he hasnt even messaged me or spoke to me!! I msgd him yesterday saying what are you doing and he replied: Moving Furniture... i even said Goodnight last night, and he didnt reply...........im going crazy. i always cant help but think the worst.. i hate these moments...whats he thinking?? Please help.......THANKS!!
Okay, if he's given you that response to you being angry at him not replying then I suspect you get on his case about not replying quite a bit. Otherwise he wouldn't have been so shitty to have responded it that way.
Also, if he doesn't reply then that's his choice, there's no law says he says to.
It doesn't make much sense that you should be so worried about him not replying for a couple of days. So, what aren't you telling us?
well the reason why i stress a lot when he ignores me is because he goes into his solitude zone and sometimes he doesnt come out for weeks and it scares me because i have this fear of losing him..and i have that fear because of him always resorting to his cave........however i know how to handle when he is in his cave, but i dont think he will be this time.. he msgd me and told me hes just been busy with tests and if hes not studying, hes sleeping
Do your own thing. The more you contact him, the more he's gonna pull away. Aquarius are free spirited and he probably feels like having his independence back for awhile. Just disappear, and he'll come back because he'll be curious as to why you haven't been on his case. My sign is very childish in that sense where we like games without even knowing it.
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Im new to this website. I made an account because I have an AQUA Boyfriend for the past 4 years (Im a Gemini) and ofcourse of rollercoaster of a relationship makes me come on this forum all the time to relate to others.. I need your guys help asap!!
Background: Weve been together for 4 1/2 years.. He absolutley loves me (actually shows and expresses it to me) He even told me whilst drunk that we hoped we'd be getting engaged next summer.. etc.....
Problem: 2 nights ago, I kept text messaging him and he couldnt reply.. I got really angry because I thought he was ignoring me, so I said "Alright, NVM.." he knew I was angry......he replied: "OMFG, IM treetrunkING SLEEPING" and then I got the point and never bothered him again...and its been two days and he hasnt even messaged me or spoke to me!! I msgd him yesterday saying what are you doing and he replied: Moving Furniture... i even said Goodnight last night, and he didnt reply...........im going crazy. i always cant help but think the worst.. i hate these moments...whats he thinking??
Please help.......THANKS!!