Aquarius guy- Whats up with him?Dont Get him

I met this aqurius guy who was totally into me in the start.We met in class. We went on dates, talked non stop, he could even see himself getting married to me, he sent me poems and was very sweet to me. The after a month of dating he said we have to stop this because he is not able to focus on other things in his life because all he ever thinks is about me, and we should move on.And he said he doesnt have a crus on me anymore. I said ok and kept a distance from him.

After 2 weeks he sent me a text saying he's confused about me and doesnt know why hes telling me this..then the next day he said he was joking. ( i doubt it). If he left the classroom, he would look back at me...ignore my text sometimes and replies after few hours or a day. Once I ignored him for a week, he texted me saying how are you doing darling. if I talk to him he doesnt look at me, but looks away when he speaks to me..and when I look away for a moment he looks at me( can see form corner of my eye) I dont get him at all. I have all my summer school classes with him and dont know If I should be myself and stay friends with him or just ignore him? Will he come back or he's gone for good? I am a scorpio girl

This has nothing to do with the fact that he's an Aqua. It has more to do with the fact that this guy realized later on that he wasn't ready to acknowledge or make a move on any feelings he's developed for you.

No, he wasn't kidding. He's not ready. That's why his actions/contact is still inconsistent.

If you can be friends with him while 1. Not allowing yourself to get any more attached 2. Acknowledging AND accepting that this guy is NOT ready for what you're ready for & 3. Don't expect him to give you more than he's told you he's willing to offer, then sure be friends with him.

But make sure you tweak your expectations so that you won't end up feeling hurt/confused. When you STOP expecting someone to be consistent, attached to you, or whatever it is they used to do, it will NO longer bother you when that person literally doesn't do/say certain things.

The key is in IF you can handle just being friends with him.

Personally, even friendships deserve dependability, honesty, openess & consistency. Without those things, you guys not only DON'T have a foundation to be in a relationship, nor do you even have the tools that will make a friendship with him possible or long-lasting.

Either way, make him understand that if he's not ready, that's fine, BUT he better NOT expect for you to ever be OK with inconsistency, unreliability and/or mind games. If this guy isn't ready, that's fine (atleast you know now instead of investing more feelings) BUT he shouldn't keep doing/saying things to you as if you 2 were still dating if you're not. If he/you just want to be friends, you BOTH oughta act like "just friends." Don't try to mix the 2 tho

If he were ready (and he says he'snot), he'd be all over you like a rash and wanting to do the things he said he'd do.

I'd give him a wide berth for a while, do your own thing, leave him to his.

It's unlikely he'll be back - the majority of people will back off and stay backing off because, for whatever reason, he's decided it's not what they want after all.

No, i don't think he'll come back for anything more than what it is now - a head fuck.