Aquarius Male dating Taurus Female advice??

​So I've been dating this guy for a little over a month. And of course in the beginning things were great. Things were cute etc. We've seen each other quite a few times since. He's an aquarius and I'm a taurus. Not compatible , yes I know but I try to give everyone a chance regardless of their sign. So I originally met him on a dating site. After meeting him he would barely log on there. But recently I've noticed that he has been. We still talk and he texts me every morning , well , he would text me every morning almost first thing "good morning" , but recently he texts me in the afternoon. Might be later in time than he started but still , he texts me. But things just seem different. Sometimes he even logs on to the date site first thing in the morning before even texting me. We talk everyday but it seems like his mind is somewhere else. He still shows signs hes into me by calling me sweet names but now its starting to feel moreso just like words and not like he really WANTS to call me those sweet names or likes me on that level to call me that. If it makes any sense. I just feel like now he calls me those names just to call me it. I've never dated an aquarius male before so im not sure how they are but things just don't feel the same like they did in the beginning. I can take criticism very well so don't hesitate to be blunt with all responses bc I need some advice. He just has some moments here and there were he seems so dry towards me but he does still communicate. I just need some relationship advice bc guys can be so hot and cold at times and me, I personally like consistency so it throws me off and makes me feel so though hes getting bored with me.

How's the quality of the time spent with him? What do you guys get up to?

A little over a month is like a blink of an eye for me. 4 weeks isn't a long time. I sure wouldn't have made up my mind yet after a month.

Posted by aquasnoz
How's the quality of the time spent with him? What do you guys get up to?

A little over a month is like a blink of an eye for me. 4 weeks isn't a long time. I sure wouldn't have made up my mind yet after a month.

Well we both love watching movies so we share that love for that. We go to the movies and sometimes he comes over and watch movies. He shows a lot of pda when were out and when hes at my place. He holds me ect . shows hes into me while with me. Hes just been off a bit lately with communicating. Now we can go hours without speaking when that wasn't the case in the beginning.

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Posted by aquasnoz
How's the quality of the time spent with him? What do you guys get up to?

A little over a month is like a blink of an eye for me. 4 weeks isn't a long time. I sure wouldn't have made up my mind yet after a month.

Well we both love watching movies so we share that love for that. We go to the movies and sometimes he comes over and watch movies. He shows a lot of pda when were out and when hes at my place. He holds me ect . shows hes into me while with me. Hes just been off a bit lately with communicating. Now we can go hours without speaking when that wasn't the case in the beginning.

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Should ask him what's going on in a casual way.

There's one thing I can admit to is that there's always a novelty when I go out with someone new. I'd make a bit more effort at the start but life eventually gets in the way. The incompatibility starts there but if you can look past this and see if it works for you for the next month or two and actively address your concerns then things might look a bit better later on.

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Posted by aquasnoz
How's the quality of the time spent with him? What do you guys get up to?

A little over a month is like a blink of an eye for me. 4 weeks isn't a long time. I sure wouldn't have made up my mind yet after a month.

Well we both love watching movies so we share that love for that. We go to the movies and sometimes he comes over and watch movies. He shows a lot of pda when were out and when hes at my place. He holds me ect . shows hes into me while with me. Hes just been off a bit lately with communicating. Now we can go hours without speaking when that wasn't the case in the beginning.

Should ask him what's going on in a casual way.

There's one thing I can admit to is that there's always a novelty when I go out with someone new. I'd make a bit more effort at the start but life eventually gets in the way. The incompatibility starts there but if you can look past this and see if it works for you for the next month or two and actively address your concerns then things might look a bit better later on.

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Well a few days ago I did ask tell him how I felt. He told me he was interested still and that he would show me better than he can tell me that he's still into me but he still seems a little side tracked. But I'll try and go with it as much as he allows me to. It's really up to him bc I like him and don't see myself going anywhere , him tho I'm not so sure

What does he do for a living? or if he's busy what's he up to?

Can't say it's the same for all Aquas but there's like an unlocking process. I'd trust him in what he said but I'm usually blunt as hell and I'd tell someone if I'm not interested in them straight away.

Try go and do something fun. Movies are nice but something better! Or hint at something you'd like to do, if he goes ahead and does it with you then I'd say he's interested in you.

Posted by aquasnoz
What does he do for a living? or if he's busy what's he up to?

Can't say it's the same for all Aquas but there's like an unlocking process. I'd trust him in what he said but I'm usually blunt as hell and I'd tell someone if I'm not interested in them straight away.

Try go and do something fun. Movies are nice but something better! Or hint at something you'd like to do, if he goes ahead and does it with you then I'd say he's interested in you.

Well he works in a warehouse. He texts me faithfully every break he gets no matter how attentive he can be in the convo he makes sure to contact me. I know he's a gamer too so that may take up some of his personal time when he's alone. But he's also 9 months out of a 5 year relationship so that may have some to do with it , he may be enjoying the single life , idk.

We were supposed to go bowling but I had to work late that day so we just caught a movie but I'll bring that back up to him.

By the way thank you for talking to me about this , I just really need some insight. I've been single for a long time so any advice helps.

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Posted by aquasnoz
What does he do for a living? or if he's busy what's he up to?

Can't say it's the same for all Aquas but there's like an unlocking process. I'd trust him in what he said but I'm usually blunt as hell and I'd tell someone if I'm not interested in them straight away.

Try go and do something fun. Movies are nice but something better! Or hint at something you'd like to do, if he goes ahead and does it with you then I'd say he's interested in you.

Well he works in a warehouse. He texts me faithfully every break he gets no matter how attentive he can be in the convo he makes sure to contact me. I know he's a gamer too so that may take up some of his personal time when he's alone. But he's also 9 months out of a 5 year relationship so that may have some to do with it , he may be enjoying the single life , idk.

We were supposed to go bowling but I had to work late that day so we just caught a movie but I'll bring that back up to him.

By the way thank you for talking to me about this , I just really need some insight. I've been single for a long time so any advice helps.

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Go with the flow my friend. I've always admired Taurus from afar. We're just a bit special when it comes to the romance department. And yes as a gamer myself I can say there's some good titles released lately, even my Leo's having a whinge I'm playing too much.

Involve yourself in what he does. The whole dating site thing... maybe it's still a routine for him. Communication is key at the start. It's all about catering and compromising. Show him what you want to do too rather than trying to guess what's on his mind.

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Posted by aquasnoz
What does he do for a living? or if he's busy what's he up to?

Can't say it's the same for all Aquas but there's like an unlocking process. I'd trust him in what he said but I'm usually blunt as hell and I'd tell someone if I'm not interested in them straight away.

Try go and do something fun. Movies are nice but something better! Or hint at something you'd like to do, if he goes ahead and does it with you then I'd say he's interested in you.

Well he works in a warehouse. He texts me faithfully every break he gets no matter how attentive he can be in the convo he makes sure to contact me. I know he's a gamer too so that may take up some of his personal time when he's alone. But he's also 9 months out of a 5 year relationship so that may have some to do with it , he may be enjoying the single life , idk.

We were supposed to go bowling but I had to work late that day so we just caught a movie but I'll bring that back up to him.

By the way thank you for talking to me about this , I just really need some insight. I've been single for a long time so any advice helps.

Go with the flow my friend. I've always admired Taurus from afar. We're just a bit special when it comes to the romance department. And yes as a gamer myself I can say there's some good titles released lately, even my Leo's having a whinge I'm playing too much.

Involve yourself in what he does. The whole dating site thing... maybe it's still a routine for him. Communication is key at the start. It's all about catering and compromising. Show him what you want to do too rather than trying to guess what's on his mind.

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It's a gift and a curse being a Taurus. We're very passionate about what and who we're into. Just hoping it's mutual and not more than the other is our concern and can at times bother us.

But I will do just that. I'm great with communicating and he's ok at it to but I'm more than just the basics " How's your day " & " how's work" I like to actually get to know ppl. He seems to be more talkative in person. But I will definitely take everything into consideration to help me through this