aquarius man in love?

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sleann1967
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13 Years

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I'm an aries woman and recently started dating an aquarius man. both are older and both divorced. Although it's only been a month we've not been apart more than a few days total. We have a total blast together, share lots of interest, love to chat and bedroom is unbelievable. He'll stare at me and then just smile and say stuff like "wow!". He seems to be completely infatuated with me.

When he was tipsy the other night he almost let the 4 letter word slip. Then a few times he was hinting around about it and even commented he'd let me be the first to say it. (all the while tipsy, mind you). I've read somewhere that aquarius men tend to always fall hard in the beginning due to liking the adventure. But I've also read they aren't quick to express emotions.

My question is how would I know if he's for real or maybe it's just the other 4 letter word of "lust" instead of "love". One month isn't very long to have strong feelings for someone. And even if it's possible he's got strong feelings for me, is it too vulnerable for him to be the first to "say it".
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sleann1967
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13 Years

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I should add: He's quite a few times made some comment about "I'm gonna make you like me" saying it as if he feels I don't— And I told him "what makes you think I don't?!" And he calls me a wild stallion as if I need to be tamed! I may be extroverted and independent but I'm butter in his hands and HE KNOWS IT. :-) It's almost like he wants more submissivness (not in a bad way) or wants to feel like he "got me". Because from what i've read about aquas, if he got it then he'd be gone and off to his next challenge.
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little_sparrow
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It sounds like all is well. You are spending tons of time together. Having fun. Laughing. Enjoying each other. To me, it sounds like all systems go. I think when you are older you know what works for you and what doesn't. If he is that into you, he probably is that into you. I am shacked up and engaged to a divorce Aqua. We were pretty inseperable from the beginning and just really enjoyed each other's company. Sounds like you are the same. And when my Aqua was tipsy, he asked me to move in with him before we even had our third date. I told him, let's see how the third date goes. HA HA.

I think everything is great between you so don't stress. Nothing in life is guaranteed but just enjoy the ease between you. It is nice isn't it?