Aquarius men and love? is it hard

*clap clap clap* that is GREAT advice! Very spot on!

He might be doing the exact thing you're doing. One minute you're communicating heavily with this guy as if you're back in the zone you were when you weren't married, and then the next minute you remember that you're married & that things may not work out..Well let me tell you about Aquas. He might still have feelings for you & sure, might even talk to you & express his feelings but what you did isn't the most simplest deed. You left this man for someone else & had kids. When Aquas are hurt, we can still communicate with that other person but we'll never be the same again. But then again all of this depends on how strong his love for you was when you guys first started off. If he was head over heels for you then, you'll always have his heart but that doesn't mean you'll ever get the "title" from him. Normally, Aquas know exactly how we feel & know exactly what we want & what we WILL and WILL NOT do & in this case, since he doesn't know, just means that you're going to have some trouble ever getting him back again. When an Aqua gets confused & torn between what his heart wants & what his mind wants, he'll fret in the situation for a little while but we always bounce back to being who we used to be (strong & unwilling to let someone break our heart ESPECIALLY FOR A SECOND TIME)

Aquas hate being wrong about somebody. We put so much effort & believe that we put so much time & intelligence into commiting to that ONE person that was actually able to get us to convert from detached over to commited. And when we're wrong & when we get hurt, we love that person even more, still might even give them our time (communication) but in terms of things going back to the way they used to be...that will NEVER happen. Even when Aquas get back with someone who's hurt them, we still will never be the same & eventually the relationship tends to die down slowly & slowly.

I do believe that it is possible to be vulnerable & still know what you want at the same time. Some people make the BEST decisions when vulnerable or when under pressure. And then there are some who make the BEST decisions when they are completely removed from the situation that was once troubling them. In your situation, it's really hard to tell where this is going. It would be different if you had numerous cravings for him (Aqua guy) throughout your marriage when things were good between you & your husband...THEN, I'd have to say, honey you might've made a mistake or wrong judgment call on who's really meant for you (based off of who you have the most desire for). BUT, this Aqua guy seemed to only pop back up in your emotions when things were going wrong with your husband, which of course is going to lead the average person to believe that you are just talking out of vulnerability & the "not wanting to be alone" creed.

This is just a website used for discussions, which I'm sure there is WAYYY more to the story than any of us know. BUT if you really have resurfaced feelings for this Aqua guy, make sure you do it right this time. If I were in his shoes, I'd say "Oh, NOW she wants me. She didn't want me when she had me. Now that her & her husband aren't going to work out, she's just calling me because she wants a Plan B." And Aquas HATE knowing they only got someone back because of vulnerability on the other person's part. When we want someone back & actually TAKE someone back it's because we can sense MORE STRENGTH in that person than we did before. Aquas love to be there for people & love to be the person everyone leans on but one thing we HATE is when people play us to the left, and then come back expecting for us to FIX them. Clear yourself of your husband before you look into old flames (and I'm sure you'd want your husband to do the same thing). Like I told you in the message, if it's truly meant to be, there should be no rush. If this Aqua was really the one who's meant for you, he'd be waiting for you at the end of the road, even after the divorce; you owe him atleast that. And if the Aqua takes you back now, it may not even be because of pure love, it could be due to the same vulnerabilty he has that you have, & we all know that relationships rekindled because of vulnerability don't last very long. Good Luck 🙂

Don't ask if it's hard for Aqua men to love, ask yourself that as you were the one to leave. If you're trying to rekindle things, they may take a while as he knows what you had together before wasn't enough to keep you so why should he try now? You'll have to work harder to prove yourself this time.