Aquarius Men is a species of their own!

Will an Aqua man stay with a woman who cheated on him? What about if she embarasses him like answering his phone and hacking his e-mail account and sending females in his e-mail address book rude letters?

My Aqua man has a ex after 6 years of dealing with her who I guess had become obsesses and I am just wondering if he considers her anymore for a long-term relationship. He and I got into an argument yesterday because either he tells me his feelings and where he thinks this might go or everything stops. Everything meaning the sex the massages and all the talking but especially the sex because we all know that with aqua men the only thing that is concrete is the sex, there is no concrete relationship. He treats me like im hurting him to want to know how he feels about me. I think this is crazy after dealing with him for 2 years. I cant get him to compromise AT ALL! He always throws an ex guyfriend of mine in my face when were arguing, so this time I threw the above ex out in the argument and asked how she was doing. His reply was she is ready for him to marry her and maybe he should now. Then he went on to say that since there was nothing between us he will work on something with her and hope he can settle down now the he's ready so this is the last time hell hear from me it was nice knowing me GOOD BYE. Normally I would be heartbroken and be begging him to reconsider but Aqua men play too much. Do you think he is ready? He will be 26 in feb and has a 6 year old. First of all I am an Aqua woman and I know the game, when his tempter tantrum is over he will call and act like nothing ever happened until then I guess Ill go on with my life but what I don understand is this, what do I do to bring the emotional side out of him. I feel like im right there I got him acting irrational and throwing fits now all I need is for him to realize that he can let his guard down because im not trying to hurt him that I love him and just want to know if he loves me. I use to be like that but I decided one day that I wanted all of that love and emotion in my life. This is not the first time it has happened. As an Aqua woman I need freedom but WTF? Can I get a little love.

maybe she was his first love. You know how that goes, right?

Hi all,

I am new to this forum, but I am glad I found this place. I am a libra and dating an aqua guy for about 10 months now.

It is so true about aqua guys that they hate people who cling onto them. They seem like they do not want to deal with a lot of emotions, though the reality is , they are quite emotional themselves. Its like ignore them and they will be around you. Give them a lot of attention and they find other places to run to.

We were seeing each other until one day he started talking about this woman at work .. and i realized he started seeing her. We kept away from each other for 1 month, until last week, when we met. Its a disaster now,cause he wants to meet both her and me,but I want to let go off him, though its the most difficult part to do.

Bottom line - throw a cool attitude towards them and they will stay ... get all emotional and they disappear.

You are just fine... I need to understand an aqua guy .. and if you can help me ... i would really appreciate.

We had our share of good times, until the committment came into picture. I will not deny my libra traits, yes- I need more affection than most other signs, which I am begining to realize is not what an aquarian guy likes all the time. You said it right - i have faulted too 🙂

His past 3 relationships (r/s), he has dumped every woman he was seeing. His attention span is of a fly.. very short. He gets bored soon.

This woman he is seeing at work- a saggi, is married with 2 kids. They both like what they have, with no strings attached. Which is fine by me, but what i dont understand is, even after a months break up(aqua and me), when he meets me, he pretends and says things like he is still in love with me!!!!!

I love this guy... and I want to understand what is that he needs and wants.

OK. Here is the situation now. Any aqua..Please let me know what to do—

He told me a week ago, before I got into town that he stopped seeing this saggi woman at work. So, we both spent the weekend together. It was all fine, until she began calling again and then it was all about her. There would be a moment when he has gone to the extent of telling me that he cannot do without me and then he also says he is really fond of her more than just a friend.

I am leaving the country this wednesday for a month and this sunday is my birthday. All i wanted was to spend some good quality time with him before i leave, but he says he is not sure how to keep us both happy....

i definitely do not want to deal with complications.

Should I see him over the weekend for my birthday or not?

Hi Sambarej - Your name is fun! What does it mean if you don't mind sharing? It is very unique -cool.

Yikes! What a predictament you seem to be in however, I think that you have already answered your question. "i definitely do not want to deal with complications." The only way to make a change is for you to change. You really know what you want and need to do for YOU. Trust it.

Happy Birtday! I do hope that it will be a wonderful time for you...no matter what - you deserve it sweetie.

Hi Freebird,

Thanks, its only my last name - Sambare with my first name Initial - J. My first name is Jyoti- pronounced almost like Jody 🙂

I have got some good advice on this website 🙂 And it only helps me make my decision stronger. I have decided to not think of him anymore and just go on with my life. I sure do love him, but there isnt much I can do at this point.

And, thanks for you wishes 🙂

An update -

On saturday, i decided i'd stay at home for my birthday. And so i told my friends the same , as well as the aqua guy.

Saturday evening, a friend of mine came home and took me to the aqua's house .. and guess what?? he had arranged a sruprise party for me 🙂 Now, aint that cute !?!?

Well, we all had a good time and I stayed over at his place.

Question? Do aqua's do such a thing for friends? good friends? or someone special—

At least I know now, if not continuing on the relationship, we have each other as good friends!!

Wonderful news S!!!! and so so glad that you were surprised on your birthday 😉 I hope you continue to experience more surprises and wonderful moments with your special friends 🙂

Mr. P....your smartass ways are crossing the line again - step back!!! My birthday will be here soon and I would so enjoy it if you would allow yourself to throw me a party - however, the whole DXP gang must be invited. 😉 Btw, you do have a very and I mean very nice back!

No need to be sorry Mr. P - I see now how one judges another or places them on "levels" - that is just your way and that is a - okay with me. I still like you no matter what level you are on 😉

Freebird

I understand more than you think I do.

That's cool sambarej and belated Happy Birthday to you as well! I really like Libra people. I find them to be very charming and witty people and I'm sure you're aqua man cherishes you a lot even if he hasn't a clue how to express it. Stay friends with him I say.