are aquarius fickle?

at the beginning of this month i met an aquarius and we hung out a few times had a good mental connection (he was interested in a lot of the same things i was ie. art, philosophy, and south america (i'm from south america). he cooked me dinner a few times and spoke to me different languages and it was awesome. this past weekend he kissed me and we had a really awesome night. he crashed at my place and cuddled. then, its been 3 days and no word from him. i didnt want to contact him first but i caved in today and asked him how he was doing. it's strange because he didnt seem like the 'get what i wanted and go-type'.. (even though we didnt have sex).
is this typical aqua behavior? fickle?

Well it depends on the person moreso than the Aquarian. Aquarians are often times very good at determining whether or not someone is good for them long-term very quickly. Of course there's always the chance that he went MIA b/c he's busy or could have some personal things going on (which he probably won't share with you b/c he might not have that comfort with you just yet), BUT usually when an Aqua isn't feeling someone (for whatever reason), they might stray immediately b/c they hate to waste time. OR it could always be that he liked you alot & with men in GENERAL, he might've put some distance there just to make sure (for himself) that he can equally balance his emotions with his logic. There could be 100 reasons why he pulled the MIA act. Yes, it's common for Aquas to appear just to disappear but then again, that all depends on how DEEP the connection is they have with that person. If it's a deep connection & if the communication is on point, if that comfort is established & set in stone & if there has been enough time to where things developed (without rushing) then there's a greater chance that he'll come back & explain his reasons later. A good rule with Aquarians is this: If you meet one & if they start off heavily paying you some attention & investing themselves in you (time, money, energy, intellect, etc.) the only reason they'd stray all of the sudden is b/c they either. 1 Saw something in you that they DIDN'T like or 2. They REALLY like you lol. Sucks but hey, it's how they role. Seriously, you'd be suprised though, his reasons for disappearing might have nothing to do with you. Just wait it out for a couple of days & see if his attention to you returns. If it doesn't, move on. If it does, you'll know that it wasn't you & just continue to go with the flow

I can be fickle when it comes to dating...especially if im not completely into the person. Give him some time, and be sure not to chase him or appear insecure by anymeans. I know I really appreciate it when not only my guy but my friends in general are comfortable within their own skin.

well nevermind i think i solved my mystery.. aqua has a prior lady who he has an open relationship with and i believe that he may not be allowed to do anything past a hookup with another person. if id known doing anything physically with him once would mean we wouldnt be able to hang out anymore,(because he wouldnt want me to become attached or get hurt) i would have been cool with friendship. lame, aquarius, lame.

I just need women to stop letting the men lead them into foolishness. You need to be assertive of your wants and needs when in or trying to be in a relationship with ANY man, but especially an Aquarius.

pfft. his loss. i'm not dwelling on it. as the quote goes in that one rap song, "start with straight shots and then pop bottles, flirt with the hood rats then pop models." we women go through a lot of junk but atleast every experience leads us to smarten up a little more and get closer to knowing what we want. i was a little bewildered for a second because i thought that from the way he was treating me that he was interested i'm pretty good at picking out the 'i want to bang you' and the 'i actually like you' type.. plus he made the moves. aquas are weird as hell but it figures as much that i wouldnt get it.. i was his opposite sign after all.
but i brushed it off my shoulders..
had a date last night and am hanging out with another aqua guy tonight... because you know what? ladies-is-pimps-too. and i'm not the wallowing type. i sent the first guy who this post was about a message and essentially said ' if you ever want to hang out and just make some music that'd be cool, hope everything goes well for you.' ball is in his court if he wants to be friends if not then it's okay.