Arrrhggggg Aquas

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Must be my thorn in the flesh 😢

Dont know what the go is with Mr Aqua Man - Are Aquas just having a yucky month or something??

my Boss is an Aqua male, My Mum is a Aqua & My Man is a Aqua - They are driving me to the brink of insanity!!!

My boss is one 'special' person - is it me or are Aquarians the hardest people in the world to organise?? His demands are worse than a super star divas! ie ?Clean my car it smells, orgainise my kid to get picked up, I need a massage, wheres my coffee, I am not in a good mood I am going home, this food you got me is crap, my computer is crap? & on & on it goes!!

My Mum is driving me nuts because any kind of family get together or dinner birthdays etc she gives me like 1 hour notice that its happening & gets shitty when I cant make it ? grrrr ? My 15yo bro went missing & she sends me an email?!? I mean Wat the?? A phone call would help a little!

Then my beloved Boyfriend - The biggest winger in the world! Everything is continuously about him! If he is in a mood I have to change the way I am behaving to suit him & it is constant up hill battle with him - 1 week of heaven for 1 week of pain in the butt cheeks.

If you read my other posts you'll see that lately with him I have been insecure because he wont shagg me - not that he wont its just he is too tired or in a mood - so What do I have to do?? I have to fix ME cause HE is in a mood? Why? Why should I have to do shit at all? Why can he look good for me?? why cant he fix his mood?

Its such a pain constantly having to change things to keep up with a flippy man. I have to ?figure out' why he is behaving the way he is behaving instead of him telling me but when it's the other way around he cracks it.

I normally bail when this kind of crap happens & I am close to hte edge right now with work & no where to just chill 😢
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"Its such a pain constantly having to change things to keep up with a flippy man. I have to ?figure out' why he is behaving the way he is behaving instead of him telling me but when it's the other way around he cracks it."

Whew....makes me a bit tired reading your posts....yikes.

In regard to your above quote, I truly believe that instead of you trying to 'figure out' his behaviour - I think it would be more beneficial if you try to figure out yours not to mention easier. Why have you chosen to accept being in this type of relationship? How is it working for YOU? You cannot change him or his behaviour only yours. Either accept him for who he is and how he treats you or move on to something that brings you peace.

Your choice. Be responsible for you.

Best of luck to you P!
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19 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

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You guys are great! Thank you for all the great tips 🙂 BTW got some this morn & realise now that it had nothing to do with me but rather a combo of shit he is going thru - ie family crap, $ $ crap & changes in his attitude 🙂

So, I have let him go for today & tonight - hard thing to do but had to be done - his mate is over here from New Zealand & is racing at a bike show today - Mr man kept asking if I wanted to come with him but I said no & told him he should just have a guy thing & he asked if I was trying to get rid of him ha - na I just told him its for his mental health that he have a guy thing with his mates 🙂 so he is now going to stay over night as its about an hour & 1/2 or so away & he shouldnt drink drive 🙂 fine with me cause I really wanted some time alone & was planning on taking off if he was going to stay here so it has worked out well!

We are both happy now 🙂