Shy Aqua Man

I work with one and he's just such a divine creature and doesnt even know it. Its a massive, painful crush (im 24 for god's sake) but he's just sooooo quiet and i dont know what to do with him. Ive caught him looking at me a few times, but im sure he just considers me weird. He's leaving for a 2 week holiday tomorrow and i'd like to ask him out maybe...Help peeps.

oh poor baby.

although I do approve...somewhat.

so sola,you have now moved on to the waterbearing territory.

hope you have braced yourself.will pray for you.🙂

he may be quiet.but he is surely checking you out right now.and you must have patience dear,or else you will end up in loony bin.we take our time.
haahaa

this is nothing new to her devil.

so you mean she has been with two of the craziest sign guys of the zodiac.
hmm.
**keeps mouth shut**

"we take our time."

-LOL!!! he isn't kidding 🙂...i know!

Sola, you're a Libra. Any other sign would have given up by now. If you can manage to really get in his private circle, you will see that he's not so quiet. In fact, he's prolly one of the funniest guys you've ever met.

Keep trying. Start with something simple. Not a big party. Just say a movie or some kind of project you could do alone together.

Yes I agree with the other posters here. he's been checking you out. We can learn all kinds of things about you without saying a single word.

Sound advice and many thanks sweet cherubs...but the god in question has a lass of his own 😢

There's a little spark for sure..but i'll just have to admire him from afar, he's so hot.

No..its not lame, its so sweet.

As for him being quiet...well, he has a little bear on his desk that says "Good in Bed"...i'll be the judge of that 🙂

lol, lost in translation...

how is a bear?

'i'll be the judge of that '

you stay away now! nothing but trouble...he's taken!

Heheh..take me with a pich of salt, and i dont steal people's men!!!

He's safe..for now, lol!

UC...you forgot SANITY!!!

but, yeah...you are right about the above. a LOT of patience is required.

"Sola, you're a Libra. Any other sign would have given up by now"

not so true! i am a cancer woman and i am still with my aqua...and it's been quite a while!!! i don't give up on what i believe in...

Is this the understatement of the year...lol! I think you need the traits in this order:
1. patience
2. PATIENCE
3. PAAAAAAAAAAATIEEEEEEEEENNNNCCEEE!!!!!
4. very healthy and active sense of humor
5. positive attitude and outlook on all situations, no matter how gut-wrenching....
6. MORE PATIENCE!!!!!!
7. Very Strong Eye-Rolling Muscles (come in very handy)

hmm ok i agree.
but in my case,the patience was more often required of me than her.and it is still like this.

hmmm, I hear its called emotional retardation these days.

HI SOLA!!! *MUAH* I knew you wouldn't give up on us fellas!

BigD...you still havent shown us.

LOL...I luv u Lady M

would luv u more, if only...🙂

Much love BigD!!!

Im just perfect for him i can tell!! So, you think he's been checking me out, heheh, i hope he likes what he sees?!

Sola,
i am sure you are already making a soap in your mind about him and you and your grand love story,offcourse with the complicated plot of him being taken right now.

"MC...I didn't include that because let's face it...you might as well kiss that goodbye!"

LOL!!!...actually i am just now starting to regain mine! and it feels really good...

DtN...you're so harsh with me 😢

Anyways...he told me has a little girl too, and he's gone off on holiday for 2 weeks...just what i need to get over my little fantasy...not fair.

DtN...you're so harsh with me

honey,i am not harsh,the truth is harsh,as it always is.

but sola,did you really share a rapport with him? as in,was there any other sign of attraction? besides physical.

wait dear,wait,patiently offcourse.good guys are always round the next corner.🙂

i hope that took the edge off😛

It did my sweet, but the truth is hurtful as you have correctly stated.

We did share a little spark, the eyes are good communicators. We havent even spoken much..we just look at each other, and i start to blush, and he laughs becuse he "knows". Silly little Sola, maybe next life.

next life?

boy you are going pretty heavy here.
easy honey easy

Whats heavy?? Its just a reference to my love life this life..i,e non existant.

Just thinking about it all, i have "known" six aqua's..i love them 🙂

...but we never quite get there.

I never give up..they just dont get me!!

Two of the 6 just pursued me, until i was like "ok, lets give this a shot" and then they disppeared..LITERALLY!!

The others, hmm, i just wasnt that into them, and then this one comes along, and BAM...Sola was assualted by Cupids arrow. Its not my fault.

LOL

This is NOT funny Lady!!

I had a mental pic of cupid assualting you 😛

I still say STAY AWAY from him...now theres a kid in the mix.

Where are all those hot Spanish men??

In Spain!! Leave here on August 20th, so not long now 🙂

haha 😉

We do pursue perse in the beginning, but always back off a bit.

Yeah well, it usually works for a while and then it gets "strange"..funny thing is, as soon as i turn my back they get back on my tail, but i dont do 2nd chances unfortunately for them.

Anyway, this Aqua is safe from the Sola luvin'...hope he has a nice Mrs because he reallly is loverly.

In fact, i realise that i dont really fancy him, its more that i just want to touch him and see what he feels like to cuddle? God, im weird.

Eh, no! I want something real.

You should find a leo, Sola. They KNOW how to cuddle lol at least the lady leo.

I need a sqweeeeeeeeze, but i'll get one from my sister later, an aries!! I dont know ANY leo's.

"They KNOW how to cuddle lol at least the lady leo."

werd.

LOL Sola is too much.

Ouch, Sola hurts!

"In fact, i realise that i dont really fancy him, its more that i just want to touch him and see what he feels like to cuddle? God, im weird."

Actually, I'm like that too...I want that too from the aqua guys I know. HAHAHAH

Yes.

lol, well I'm not sure I dont talk about my issues with many. Im usually the non-flakey one also.

BUT how does he normally open up to you??
You usually have to just let it flow out of them. When something is on our mind it comes out randomly, given enough time into the particular, but relevant conversation.

looks like he is making it look like landmines to you.