Being Aquas, do you have this trouble?

Hello all water bearers. I am a Feb born Aqua male and this thought has been confusing me for the last few weeks. Being Aquarians, do you have trouble or problems in understanding Fellow Aquarians. In general, how is your relationship (both friendships and beyond) with other Aquas.

For me, I had a really close friend who is an Aquarian. Distance now separates us as we live in different countries. Apart from that, I am pretty close to another Aqua girl who is eccentric and fun loving. But that's where it stops. Rest have either been way too different and confusing to me. And generally, I have not had a great relationship with Aquas I have come across, though there are few really bright spots as I pointed out.

So, what experience have you guys had?

I must add that all the Aquas I have across have made a mark that I remember for a long time )both good and bad, but mostly good). But long time friendship has been tough so far. 😢

It goes both ways for me, some aqua's I get along great with and others not so much.

@Aquadeer: Yeah, the same happens to me too. It is like some are really awesome to be with and others come across to me like they are reserved and don't open up.

@StellaKitty: Thanks for your input. 🙂

Because other sun sign people get along with their fellow sun signs, I was curious why Aquas are different. I know deep inside they are lovable people. I want to solve this mystery somehow. 😉

there is NO mystery. lol what you get is what you get.


if i dont like the energy of the person in real life, it's like, well move along.

and they dont like me, fine. move along.

what's wrong with that??

yes its either a hit or miss with me, some aquas are just so wrapped up in their own shit its like looking in reflection and i don't like it.

my brother is the closest aqua i know and we have our ups and but we're very close.

Lol, I created the post when I was too sleepy, hence the error. 😛

Posted by feby

Posted by febaqua
Lol, I created the post when I was too sleepy, hence the error. 😛

I believe dearest ands izod is talking about me. I've had different incarnations of feby Aqua over the past 2 years or so....

To answer your question I get along with 99 percent of aquas. There is a common ground and mutual understanding I have with other aquas.

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That's interesting. Even among the Aquarians I know, they do not get along with other Aquarians. Thanks Feby for your input. 🙂

I have an Aqua female friend and OMG she's awesome! We can just look at the other and know what each other is thinking. I'm a Jan Aqua (1st decan or capqua cusp) and she is a Feb Aqua.

I'll have to say that though we click, it really is hit or miss with me and other Aquas. I've met some pretty dogmatic pretentious types but the majority I do click with. But regardless of sign, if you're good to me I'll be good to you. 😉

Posted by metalaquamonkey
I have an Aqua female friend and OMG she's awesome! We can just look at the other and know what each other is thinking. I'm a Jan Aqua (1st decan or capqua cusp) and she is a Feb Aqua.

I'll have to say that though we click, it really is hit or miss with me and other Aquas. I've met some pretty dogmatic pretentious types but the majority I do click with. But regardless of sign, if you're good to me I'll be good to you. 😉

Great. Here is one more Aqua friendship in me. 🙂

Posted by febaqua
Great. Here is one more Aqua friendship in me. 🙂

Woo hoo! Back at ya. 🙂

My sister is an aquarius ( feb 1) and I'm (Jan 31) and we generally argue A LOT. It's weird because we are both Aquarius at hearts but so completely different. For example I'm more humanitarian and she's not. She loves gadgets and technology while I'm a little old school but still up to date. I had an aquairus friend but Like someone else said its either hit or miss. And well I just don't have time for people who don't have anything to offer in a friendship

Like most people have said, its either a hit or miss! I have two very good friends and they both are aqua; one is a guy and I am friends with him for more than 7 years, and the other aqua is my friend for more than 4 years i think. One aqua guy who I really admire is merely an acquaintance; I really admire him cause he's got a personality of an angel, one can easily tell by how his friends speak about him in his absence, no crap has been spoken in his absence, he takes good care of his friends and family, I do like to be his friend, he appear friendly but I can sense the detachment, so whatever.

What I think holds true for some aqua and me is, I don't mind making new friends, infact I love making new friends, I'll just not make any efforts from my side to intiate the friendship, though I offer my help and would hangout with them. I also think, if the friendship isn't old; say not more than 3-4 years; then I am still figuring the person out, even though I have most people figured out in a day or two, max a week! But I'd like to know what makes people tick and if I disapper from time to time, would they still be there and be normal and happy when I return, hoping they didn't bitch behind my back for my much needed break. And if they do stay and let me be, then I am theirs !

It's all fun & games when 2 people share the same strengths. But shit gets real when they share the same flaws & weaknesses.

It sounds ideal to be with someone who essentially is just like you.............

Problem is is that there are certain aspects in an Aqua's personality that need to conflict with or be opposite of the other person's mechanisms & personality in order for things to balance out. 2 extremely stubborn people will have a tougher relationship. 2 people who disconnect whenever there's trouble will kill the vibe & connection in the relationship b/c neither will want to 'go 1st' or be the bigger person. 2 people who have a skill for verbally assassinating anyone who pisses them off will shorten the relationship's life span b/c certain words can't be said & expected to be taken back.

When your flaws are the same & aren't likely to ever be changeable or toned down, that's when 2 Aquas or 2 identical signs may find that what they thought would be ideal is really a nightmare