Broke with an aquarius guy...

I'm a libra girl... I need to know more about aquarius man. I just broke with my aquarius boyfriend. I've been with him for one year and nine months plus but i have no idea why he change suddenly. I asked him whether he still love me? He told me YES! But why he treated me like this now?

I give in alot to him but why he still treating me so badly. He say I'm the only girl who love him so much but why he don't even care for me?

He always say something that can hurt my feelings... I admit that i'm the one who always say break up but it is because he always say or do something which make me feel that he don't cherish me at all. He love to play mahjong and play station game then he nelgect me. Even i'm at his house he still keep playing non-stop. Does game and mahjong so important to him?

I always let him play when i'm at his house but he ask me come for what since he want to play game right? When he play mahjong more worse, eg: i at his house at 7.30pm he can start playing 8.00pm with his friend and family. They played til 3.00am!!! I stayed in his room alone. SO LONELY! I came his house to accompany him but he left me alone all the time. I asked him before whether he loves me? He say yes but he never prove it. He promise me alot of things but never do it at all.


From the May 20 2002 I be with him til now he always lost his job, he say very tired and he don't want to work. Or sometimes woke up late so never go work then the boss fired him. We quarrel several times because he say he has no money he will be in bad mood.

Everytime when he had no money, he will scolded me or shouted at me. I really feel so hurt. Why he do this all to me? He know that i love him and he keep hurting me. Why? I feel that he is toying with my feelings. I told him since he like to play game and mahjong so much then we break up so you can enjoy your game and mahjong everyday. He say don't want. He wants me. I give in to him several times and i think he is too much instead of treating me better he changed worst

Beginning from last year DEC 2003 things get more worse, i told him since he like to play game and mahjong so much then we break up so you can enjoy your game and mahjong everyday. He say ok! He ask me to take care of myself. I'm so sad although i really love him.

After two or three days, I called him to take back my things left at his house. He given back to me and i asked him whether he still love me? He at first say don't love me anymore. But after i put down phone, one hour later he called me... he say he will change his bad habit. He won't scold me or shout at me when he had no money.

I'm so stupid enough to believe him again and again... We patch thing back. But after few days we had quarrel... Why he wan to quarrel with me? I give in alot to him already what more he want?

Last week ago, he played mahjong and game whole day and whole week. He never meet me or even call me not more than 2 minute he hang the phone. And what does this all mean? Sound like he isn't interested in me anymore right? Or perhaps he no longer love me? So i told him that i let him go... and he say he let me go too.

I asked him whether he no longer love me? He say yes he still love me. Do you believe what he say? If so, then why treating me like that? He say i'm the only girl who cried for him. Last time he say among his ex gf, he love me most...

He changed alot ever since the last year DEC 2003... From last week we broke up, i did call him but why when he talk to me he feel so anger at me? Can't he talk nicer to me? I admit i'm wrong to say break up sometimes but i don't mean it one... why these few days when i called him... he seems like avoiding me?

Did i ever do anything wrong which deserve the way he treating me now? LAst few days, I sms him asked him whether he still want to carry on our relationship? He say at night then give me answer. I waited for

Hello there Bellebelle and welcome my sweety:-)
I will cut to the chase...not go on too long as I don't have the time as I am in work.
You say your guy is aquarius and the Chinese horse.
I am aquarius and in chinese astrology - I am the horse too. However, I am female:-)
My advice to you is
1]. Stop calling, ringing, texting this man and asking him does he love you!! Just stop that immediately. You don't mean to (being lovely romantice libra, you love all that lovey-dovey stuff) but aquarians don't like to be constantly asked this question. They will feel smothered and distance themselves more and more from you. Aquarians don't like cling-ons or people who need to be constantly emotionally told they are OK. YOu are fine the way you are - if he doesn't love you as you are now...he never will...

2). As for the mahjong issue.....I'd say there's an addiction problem there...if you go over to his house, you say to him - OK Mister - one hour on the mahjong (whatever that is I don't know - some game I presume!) and then we go out for coffee, walk, drink whatever!!!....if he doesn't stop after an hour, you leave the house promptly and abruptly and say you are off to meet your pals who want to spend time with you!! No hanging around in his room waiting for him.

3]. If he talks rudely to you, you tell him straight out that that kind of language and behaviour is unacceptable to you - when and if he wants to apologize to you, then you will talk and again you leave his house!!!

Being aquarius and the horse is hard sometimes...I know!!!....I can be the sweetest creature on earth....but if I am in a bad mood, I can be the most selfish supercookiemonster on the planet, I will disregard everyone's feelings and hurts in the blink of an eye....to achieve what I want, when I want it....however, when someone points this out to me, I am the first to recognize it and apologize...
I think your guy is constantly in a bad mood...maybe due to work pressures....that's why he's so uugh to you.
So I say to you step back, give him time and make him be the first to approach you..you are losing your dignity and self-respect if you go pandering after him all the time, breaking up, making up....step back for a little while and just think nice belle belle thoughts in your head:-)
A x

Thanks alot Alana!! But how to know whether he still love me not? Even we broke already, he can still call me for a chat as a friend! But why he doesn't? Or perhaps he has other gf?

We always quarrel because of mahjong and game!!! If i leave the house when he play mahjong he will say that i never let him have freedom...

Well Belle, I just don't know whether he has other girlfriend or not.
I suppose the best tactic is to ask him straight out - none of us are psychic though I think we all like to think we are in some way!!!
If he has, then your heart will be broken - but hearts are made to be broken and then then somehow, some day the bits all come together again in their own time and place.
If he has't then you are still his no. 1 girl but you got to make him "realize" that you are no. 1....and ehhh not no. 20 on his list......

As for the maghong things...hey....come on missy, use your womanly wiles.....as he's playing it, you come up behind him, slip your hand inside his shirt, his trousers or wherever:-) and say hey Mister!!!...you want to mahjong me now!!!! spin him round and start massaging you know what:-) or if all else fails.....well couldn't you slip that dam majhong cassette into your handbag or shoe or wherever when he's gone out of room or break a button the the bloody playstation....then he won't be able to play with that again will he.!!!only you!!!!

Come on belle...you gotta think "outside the box" - the majhong box!!!

Good luck my pal.

alana x

Last few days i did asked him whether he have gf? But he sy no... How can i win him back? I admit i love him but don;t really mean to hurt him by breaking up with him.

How to make him realize that i'm the no.1 girl?

We had broke up last week... I'm really sad! I cried almost everyday...