Libra's are Stubborn

Im looking for comments from the following posters: Kenny G,Suzy Q,Jaya, Your Mother, Libra girl and Wonderbox.

I not sure if you all remember or not, but I posted the comment "WHY ARE LIBRA'S SO STUBBORN" back on 10/10/02 and all of you provided me with some really good advice. Now all I need is a listening ear to vent to.

Remember the stubborn Libra in question, (if not please go back and read that message) well just last night he told me that he couldn't go on like this anymore (after 2 1/2 months). He said, and I quote, " I'm a grown man with needs and desires and if you are not willing to fullfill them then I need to move on". Sounds like a damn soap opera.

Not only was I pissed I told the mutherf* $ to hit the road before I went Rambo on his a**. Why didn't I drop his but back when I was having my doubts. Now I feel all cought up emotionally and feel bad for not following my gut. I hate him. I wish I could snap my fingers and make him disapear or better yet, make the way I feel disapear. At this point I'm done, not planing on revisting that situation ever again. I just wanna cry : (
Can I get a shoulder?

Hey MeAmor! (love that damn name!)

Oh! Come on now sweetmeat, come here to your mother and put your head right here and let me smooth your brow and hold you in my arms and kiss those tears away. I always did love to cuddle the babies. You know that you and your 'sugar treasure'(stole that one from Bella) are never gonna leave one another!!! Darlin, you two are born to be together, and I know you are feeling upset, but I think he is full of crap and is just saying that to get you goin wild. That is usually reserved for us women, but I guess if we can do it, then y'all can too!

Sorry I didnt respond to you sooner, but my son got busted and I had to be in court! You know he is fooling around with that maryjane!

Anyway, sweetmeat dont get all shook up, ya hear me?! Everything is gonna be fine. Maybe you could not do the damn thing but at least give him a little something?? It might be good for ya both! Maybe let him smell you or something!heheh

I wouldnt mind a little action , but I am gonna wait for my dream man! I know I am older, but you know the older the wine the sweeter the taste! I've got the equipment to satisfy, whips and chains etc...and I am fired up! ok, I better calm down I think I just threw my back out just thinking about it!!!

Talk to me,

Love

Your Mother!

PS:

I knew I would be hearing from you MeAmor...yesterday I thought to myself I wonder how MeAmor is doing and wallah you appear! That is very strange!!!

and another thing MeAmor, the way you remember the time you've spent together (2 1/2 months) shows what a lover you really are!!🙂 You two should really get it together! Call him!

Good Luck

Mom!

The thing that really pisses me off and makes me go Rambo is when my husband didnt remember my freakin birthday, but he sure as hell didnt forget that little bimbo's birthday that he worked with all the time! That would just drove me crazy! If I had the strength to hurt him, I would have for doin me like that!!! I hate him too! Lets just get it all out on the table, ok!

You want to vent; lets get it on!!!

and I tell you something else he is getting the same thing for his birhtday that he got me NOTHIN!

Well MeAmor, just get out of the relationship. He sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. I agree, librans can be stubborn but also airy fairy and vascillating. It seems like sometimes we do things on a whim but it has usually been building up over a long time. If he's that wishy washy you are better off investing your time with yourself or somebody else. Dont feel violated, these things happen. Just get out now and save your self-respect. The part about following your gut, always follow it, even if your head says no because there is always a reason for what you are feeling and you will eventually find out what that is. I swear that is true.

YM, what a bastard of a husband for never remembering your birthday. Gee there are some lousy people in this world.

Good luck guys,
Libragirl.

MeAmor,

It is about compromise! Maybe you can satisfy him without having to compromise yourself. Use your imagination! All write more later I am in a hurry!

SuzyQ

Or maybe you should just forget it and find another—?

Your Mother,

You are so darn funny, when reading your message this morning (especially the part about the whips and chains) I almost choked on my bagel.

I SAY TO HELL WITH THEM ALL, and I will be moving on, I deserve someone who will want to be down for me no matter what. Do you think I would let a little thing like some dic $ come in between me and what I really wanted, if I really wanted it. I thing he may have just been sticking around to see how soon he would get it. You know how men say they like a challenge, but do they really? Not that I was challenging him, I was simply being me. I live in L.A., the land of the scandeless, where everybody is getting a piece of the action, I don't have any plans on becoming like alot of these zombies walking around this city. I plan to just continue to do the museum thang and hang out by my lonesome until that true prince comes along. I do have faith that he will come, one day.

Question: Should you give it up to make someone happy?
I hope I'm not coming off like some sweet virgin who is ooo so inocent, cause i ain't, but damn sex comes a dime a dozen, why not wait, what's the big rush?

MeAmor,

OOhhh, very romantic stuff! My heart is getting warm. I love it when lovers talk the talk, and you two are keeping me up at night!!!

I think this is all about love!!! I think you will both keep returning to each other no matter what, because this is where you find comfort, support, inspiration, passion, and major chemistry! In the end all will be just the way you wanted it to be, if you both keep meeting each other half way.

I have been told that I am strangely gifted in that I can sense how people feel. I have frightened people with my perceptions. It comes in the form of intense premintions. I can tune into certain peoples feelings no matter how far away they are!!! This is what it is, I feel he LOVES YOU and ONLY YOU more than you could even imagine and that he IS down for you no matter what!!!! Does the word DEEP DEVOTION sound ok—? If so, then you should be one very happy woman!

One other thing, stick to your principals and let him know that you wont be swayed and that you are calling the shots and then you wont have any problems in the future. I think he respects your strenght!!! In other words, be exactly yourself and dont let him have the upper hand!! I know you both will be very happy in the near future!!!

Please, dont give up just yet! If you do I feel you will miss out on something very special!😢

Love and lots of sugar for you both!!!
SuzyQ
(Sylvia Brown and John Edwards got nothin on me!)

I have had the most incredible week! My heart is about to explode and it is all about God. He shows his love for us everyday and if you dont believe there is such a God, then you are really missing the boat! I hope I am not offending too many but this is how I feel. I wish everyone could experience some of the unbelieveable mysteries that happen to me and others on a regular basis. It is leaves me speechless. Why doe it happen?? For me it is Jesus Christ; others have another name for him. I do believe there are many different paths that lead to the same place just a different way of getting there. But we all can get there! I do love him though very very deeply!!!

Say what you like SQ, its all good to me and id rather hear someone be happy than miserable (like i have been lately! Its just not good to repress your soul!).

On the subject of John Edwards, what do you think of him? He has just hit the Australian shores and my sister is convinced. Im not so sure however.

Any thoughts? Are you psychic? I hope you are right about my fame and success, i am holding on to that!

If you are i could exchange some funny stories with you, maybe we could meet on the metaphysical board. These are things i had forgotten about.

I think all things are possible with God! Without him NO!

and I doubt John Edwards. No I am no psychic. I am sensitive to other peoples feelings, that is all.

I agree. I think John Edwards is a scam. If he is a psychic why does he have to ask people their names??

To Your Mother...

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OK so it DOES skip lines..*cough* anyway

To Your Mother...


Maryjane? HAHaHaAHHahaa....!! damn kids these days(speak for myself?) pwahha =p oh and yeah..ur hubbie forgot ur birthday? that really sux major ass..speaking of ass, some ppl really do have hair on their ass? Wow..ok..LOL anyway.. well if i were you id kick his arse. 🙂. anyday.

I think Uma is hitting the party circuit and I fixin to too. Only two houses down and loud!

To answer Kenny G,
I have heard of him and read him but he was a psycho doctor not a psychic, I believe.

I had great admiration for Gene Dixon and she was the one that did the study of the prophets and their zodiac signs and if I am not mistaken all 12 had a different one. Kind of interesting dont you think!!!!!

Yes, Luz I am sure you have plenty on yours.LOL I am not doubting that for a second. I always knew you were virile and dripping sex, you wild thang! I am goin so wild for ya! I would probably hurt you badly!!LOL

bartender, another round for all my friends, please!!! I do have friends!

*touches her ass* why, omg, hair...no.

i know you're going krazy on me, you just cant help that im just too damn sexy, even for you =p LOL

too sexy for me?? HAH! I dont think so... if you dont have hair, then Im not interested. Hair make you wet and hot!LOL!!! just keep it where you want it, and you do drive me nuts! Luz, sometimes I dont know how to handle you, you come up with some pretty strange ideas.🙂

I do agree with you Suzy Q- God is good, but who in the hell is John Edwards and this Sylvia chick. My love life goes down the tubes and I get this. Okay, Im going through a little something and like a baby want all the attention on me. So unless this John Edward can help me and give me some advice about Libra's, let's not talk about him on my message board. JUST KIDDIN': )- we can talk about wahtever you guys like. Today is a better day for me. Had a great weekend, got a new hair do and went to church and got some sanctification. Like Suzy said, GOD IS GOOD.

I'm such a hethen, I used the word God and hell in the same sentence. Going to hell with gasoline draws on.........

MeAmor,

Ok, we'll talk about you. I sometimes get distracted with nonesense. You make me happy about your love for God. Go on and get yourself healed, MeAmor! I finally found someone who can hear! Gald you fellowshiping and standing up. What can I say, I havent already said before?! Turn to you faith for the answers to your problems. I think if the love is true then some way it will work out. Maybe if you shine the light and keep the darkness out, the problem will heal. What I mean by that is, talk to each other with honesty and sincerity and love and dont try and play head games or use emotional blackmail or any kind of deception. Just live by what you feel in your heart. Live life with integrity and by your own set of values. Love is compromises. Two together heart and mind becoming one. I had another great day. I went to a place called the 'Cheshire Cat' today and I ran into someone, a very good friend!!! When I saw them, it was like I couldnt believe my eyes they were so beautiful!!! I couldnt stop staring at them. I wonder why that was?!!!
Take care and let me know how things go,

Love you Much,
SuzyQ

Suzy, what's the Cheshire Cat? Did you enjoy yourself? And was your friend as equally happy to see you? Why is it that you found yourself entranced by this persons pressence? Do you have some feelings for them?

Again, thank you all for the wonderful support you all have shown. Keep your heads up!!

Hi! MeAmor,

The Chesire Cat is a metaphorical place and the friend is someone who loves God! Have you ever heard someone mention that there is a light that glows in the face of people who are close to God—? It is true, and it eminates from the heart. So, to answer your question I am entranced by people that are close to God, but it is not a psyhical. Just a brotherly spirtual sense! There is only one person who has my heart, and this is really got me going nuts!

Hello hunny bunny..

Luv, I regret that I've been away when you needed some love poured out only for you hun, but from me, it's only soothing for you now. I think that you are solid and especially warm. I almost wish I could jump in and make everything warm and comforting and stable for you for always.. but you are strong enough to make your warmth happen. You are at a point in your life where you can rest now.. rest..You are oh so right.. God is the only one that you may truly know your needs, his love blankets us all through sadness; snuggle in his warmth.. and know that you will always find our emotional support for you here.. I am really happy that you are flying high, fiercely and freely, and I'm saddened to hear that your love cocoon is being assaulted with pieces of both you and your loved one's broken hearts.. It's always a sad thing when our love would dance to another tune than the one we play in our hearts.. know that the love nest that you build from this wisdom will be even warmer, sweeter and softer than all of the ones you've built before.. Your luv makes our world warm, it will never go anywhere far away from you.. or from me; so, from me hun, it's warm, encompassing, love covering, long life giving embraces for you. Your heart will continue to bleed only warmth.. be safe, and know that we all luv you, me amor.
PS. India Arie's 'Voyage to India' music hold's great truths, and always makes me feel comforted and safe..hear from you soon..
.love Jaya.

above should read:
God is the only one that you may truly know, who knows your needs, his love blankets us all through sadness;

There is so much information floating around on this board. Initailly I came here to vent about problems I was having and now i feel light as a feather with happiness from you all. Learning about metaphorical places like the Chesire Cat and beautifull songs that provide self help- AWSOME- I don't know any of you but feel very close to you all.

Keep giving love and it will keep coming back to you.

Kenny G,

I thought about it and think I'll pass this Halloween, but if I do decide at the last minute I'll go as an old lady who flashed people, and when I open my coat I'm gonna have these saggy tits and wrinkled up belly underneith. Pretty gross hun. My dad works for Warner Bros. as a costum designer and had that hanging in my their garage. What about you, will you be out amongst the gargoyles and goblins? Whatever you decide I hope you enjoy yourself.

See Ya,

MeAmor

by the way I'm a fish.

MeAmor,

I am sorry to hear things have not been going the way you hoped. I dont have much advice to offer you will have to do that for yourself, but I can share with you an experience.

I met my now ex and we became close very fast. He wanted to have his way immediately but I wasnt having it. I wouldnt tell him where I lived or give him my phone number, because I was alone and I didnt feel right about it. I would call him every night after work and we would talk alittle bit or meet somewhere for a beer or dinner and he would tell me how he would wait by the phone for my calls. He was always trying to get me to give into him, and sometimes he would get mad and storm off, or he would let me know that he had other women and wasnt gonna waste his time etc...this would hurt me very much and finally after I couldnt go anymore we did get together. He use to brag about how I was no easy catch (rather embarrising esecially when he repeated this stort to my dad!!!), but none the less he respected me for it.
Wishing you Love

Jaya,

Your post made me smile. My immediate reaction was to cry the first couple of times I read it, but I had to re-read it over again many times to find the meaning and it was well, i'm keeping the faith and what can I say; Love the music of India Arie, and she is a Libra!
Hope to hear from you again.
Love
Khai-Khai

Khai-Khai; I feel you on this one.. and I'm afraid that you've touched a sensitive spot for me.. I could not find the words to cue you into what I am feeling at this moment; but I only needed to say one thing to you; My thoughts came to one place as I continued to read.. 'healing is a beau- ti- ful thing, it comes in many ways'...'by his stripes, we are healed..' and I'm smiling right now with you too! Good for you!!!
Love.Jaya.

***hugs**