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This is fun, 🙂

I have deep blue eyes, very thick reddish brown hair down to my shoulders, I am smart (no question about that), have been married, 3 awesome boys, yep....guess if you wanted you could say middle class. I like to think that I am in a class of my own, not being compared to anything. Age....Hmmmm I have been told that I look very young around 32 or so....I have been PHYSICALLY on this planet longer than that. Age seems to be sort of lets say....a fence that people put around themselves. No fences for me. My body has no clue how old it is....it thinks it is very young. 🙂

Like I said before, YOU are very POWERFUL...I feel that. I am amazed at your accuracy....okay, try the rest. I am ready 🙂
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You are 5 foot 6 in and your weight is 9 stone. from your post I would guess you are now single. Your boys names are nigel, nevel, and sean. You probubly don't drink whisky which is a turn off for me. What else hummmmmmmmm. you have a male friend unless you are into women. He is 4 foot 5 in bald and sixty eight years old. I always make them inferior to myself. He also has no personality. How am I doing.
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Sweet~P, I also have a male Aquarian friend and I do not understand him either. This is a good experience because it teaches us that no one really understands another, we learn to listen, to have compassion, empathy and hopefully then some understanding. I have never been so frustrated in my whole life as I have been with him. I am finally at a place where I have just let go and let it be what it is. If I feel like talking with him, I will. If I don't, I won't. All relationships are experiences for each one of us to learn about ourselves. I have learned so much about me, what I like, what I don't like, what I will tolerate and what I won't. Lessons. I also know that I can just walk away if it is too much for me. 🙂

Best wishes....
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Sweet-P...hehe...I love your name...I assume P stands for Pisces...?

Freebirds advice is good...from your desire to love learn to make things more on your terms Sweet-P...if your heart is good those terms will never be unreasonable...

That sensitivity you speak of...the extremes you say it takes you to (oh yes I know)...embrace it...follow it...let it guide you...it is what makes us differant from the rest...it is our gift...the other signs have theirs but that is ours and how awesome it is...

As freeird says...our lives are under our own control and that sensitivity was given to you for reasons other than to feel ashamed of it...we pisceans have two choices...

1.) Understand it and feel our way through life

2.) Misunderstand it & have low self-esteam through life

These are my thoughts...I hope they help...
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Oh my goodness Sweet~P! This is amazing to me because I feel the exact same way that you do about your Aquarian as I do my Aquarian friend. I found myself rationalizing his actions. His actions did NOT match his words which is very, very important to me. I know that I need to be with someone who is impeccable with his word. This is what builds trust in a relationship. I am not out to change him, this is not my mission. I was so confused by so many things that I soon realized that my FEELINGS would show me the truth. And, they have. I read somewhere once: doubt means don't do it. Yes, he has many wonderful qualities about him and I do appreciate his friendship but, what really bothers me is that I am unable to totally be myself with him. I want to discover myself with another person, I want to grow, to learn and I feel stiffeled with him. I have needed to make a decision as it was driving me nuts! Boy, do I feel great because I have honored myself. I have moved on and by my feelings....I have made the right choice and once again, I am on a perfect path for me. Next! 🙂 Oh sweet pea....hey, how about we look at relationships as opportunities...there are no obligations, just opportunity for us to grow and to become who we are? Isn't this what ultimately relationships are for anyway?

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Your comments were also very well said, Sweet~P 🙂 Let's lift up our glasses and toast to discovery of who we are 😉
There are so many paths that we are able to take...some are full of weeds, brush, thorny thingies, mud puddles and so forth. Other paths seem to be free and clear, no rocks, bumps to avoid just a smooth path to wander down. I suppose a good question to ask ourselves while on each path regardless of the path itself and what it is made of is: does this path have a heart? If not, then I shall understand that I need to find another path and that I will do. So, to get off that last path knowing that we have learned something made the journey worth it. Knowledge has been gained and we are now ready for the next path. 🙂

I now have signed up for "path~seekers" anonomous.....want to join the adventure?

Have a great weekend......