Cancer...Are we all that bad?

Cancer...Are we all that bad?

Well gee. Was hoping I was not the norm Cancer. I made sure my Aqua never had to guess what was happening.
Please tell me this is not normal Aqua.

When I am clear he is pushing, explain what the situation is, he pushes more. I request he stop, he keeps on pushing buttons. I tell him I am approaching becoming angry he continues. Pushes more, then flips and says "I'm not upset, why are YOU?" He knows I am fighting flu, I say I am not feeling well, long week ahead, I explain if he comes over it needs to be a quiet night and no fussing. He comes over and says "I hate such and such program, should have stayed where I was". (I told him what I was watching before he came over and he made no request to change channels).

Expects to stay over no matter how rude. (See above).

I swear I am nuts or crazy, or? Is this typical for an Aqua or is he just messed up? Those of you who know Cancers, are they upfront which gives them a bad name? Just totally mixed up. I have always tried to be considerate and let others know where they stand and not play mean head trips because I know I can be moody and appreciate when another lets me off the hook when they are not "up to par".

This guy is hardly ever straight up, says he is in total love with me, pushes me to constantly prove my love for him, sets me up into situations where I fail then twists them on me.

He's insecure.

Aqua guys will totally play mind games while trying to appear innocent. When you call them on it, they'll laugh.

Cancers (or in my case, cancer moons), don't necessarily get down with mind games. The heart is more our arena. An aqua man will drive you up the damn wall trying to figure out why he does what he does.

Good luck with that.

Sup Lady M.

Every Cancer I met has been or tried being manipulative.
not saying all of them just the ones I've met.

Hey Scorpiosity...interesting avatar.

Most cancers I know personally always seem 2 have something 2 cry about...aquas are good at wiping those tears away

Posted by airbender
Every Cancer I met has been or tried being manipulative.
not saying all of them just the ones I've met.

Yeah I agree last one I was talking to was always tryna run manip

"Aquas shouldn't be saying shit about us Cancers. Most Aquas are cocky as fuck.... and for no god-damn reason at all. They have Huge Ego trips, then they cry when somebody like me comes along and crushes it. They come out of their moms pussy thinking they are the shit for some stupid reason. They always trying to fit in and get the approval of their peers, at the same time denying it"

hahahah your homie is one aquarius out of many pimpin, not all of us are cocky ( i never met a cocky aquarius tho) and got egos. I was raised in the ghetto so i never had that "think im the shit" persona, but no offence to nobody but the white rich people around me always did and the only persons approval i need is mine lol im a grown ass man and i been on my own since i was a little kid.

well i like Aquarius sometimes, they can hold a very good conversation but when it comes to love....

Posted by *Tasha
i can't stand aquas!!!!!! i am seriously going to block my friend from my phone they drive me crazy. she's such a fucking weirdo...liar...fake and has the most pathetic attempts for sympathy bids imaginable. i can honestly say i wish i never met the aquas that i did. they everything happens for a reason fuck that. leave me alone. hate them

Were you banging your head against the wall when you typed that? Dayum! That's a lot of hate. Try love and then dismissal. You'll feel better.

I'm sure it was a good reason.

Thanks LibScorp. Now I know. LOL! Much love to ya *Tasha!

Having lunch break at work and dunno why I felt like writing this here : History repeats itself with me. My new proper girlfriend (not like date or casual thing as before) is another Cancer ! Haven't seen her moody side yet, or just a little, but she's definitely emotional and clingy. Texting all the time, even calling almost everyday. One thing in opposition to my ex cancer, she finds every chance to talk about "family things" like her sister etc or even how she likes family gatherings. I was clear on her about this, don't push me on these things, I don't think that way, at least not yet, I don't even know yet, it's just you and me to get to know each other, don't expect me to be friends with your sister for example. She seems to accept that. I'm somehow proud of myself, if it was a few years ago she'd probably see me running !! moonchild ? ladym ? anything to add ?

Yes. And I still haven't learned my lesson.....sigh. My past three relationships have been cancers. They just keep coming at me from all angles!

Busty BarbieBastard??


Hey Tas, nice to see you making movies and doing so consciously. One of the upsides of these boards....you get to see your actions through the eyes of others, thus make a conscious effort to change for the better. Don't be so harsh with her, but be honest, tastefully so. Hope everything works out for the best.

I'm running away from water signs at the moment. I just had a run in with another pisces man. Jeez, I just wish they'd leave me be!!