Cancer rising

Anyone else have this? I'm so clingy to people that I love and even when they do bad I still love them and I can' leave them. So intensely unconditional. Anyone else no what I mean? It's hard sometimes...

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I've had cases where I've had a girl get real clingy and that made me feel a little uncomfortable. But I've never been the clingy type so no. But I understand where your coming from.

I also have Cancer rising...It's weird in my case because I appear aloof but completely needy inside... It's hard for me to let go of someone I love until I know there's no more hope...

Currently, I'm seeing this guy and I'm falling for him so fast. But he's busy with work and he's got a son. He's been divorced about a year and his ex-wife and his son live far from him. I feel selfish asking for his time because that time could be spent with his son even if it's just for a second. I know how important it is for a child to spend time with his/her dad because I lost my dad when I was younger. So I don't initiate the contact but miss him badly when I think of him and he's not beside me.

My cancer sweetie has a cancer rising and a mars in cancer. When we first met I didn't want to be bothered with him because of our age difference (he's 12 years old than me) and at the time I was 20 yrs old. Plus he had been married before. So I though we wouldn't have anything in common. Anyway, I have never ever been pursued so hard like that before. But I found him to be a sweetheart once I got to know him. However, I did notice he wanted to almost every day with me once we started dating. I wasn't use to that lol. But we've been together for 6 yrs 🙂. I'm a pisces btw.

""It's weird in my case because I appear aloof but completely needy inside... It's hard for me to let go of someone I love until I know there's no more hope...""

Same here.

I have Cancer rising in me and am, verbatim: "so clingy to people that I love and even when they do bad I still love them and I can' leave them. So intensely unconditional."

I asked, though, for a cold heart. I couldn't through sheer will stop . . . so I did what I could to kill any chances with her. This resonates very well: "It's hard for me to let go of someone I love until I know there's no more hope..." I had to intentionally wreak havoc on my chances with her so all hope was lost and I would get over a three year obsession.

Over the next few months, I went through the pain of falling again twice, mechanically to one girl then the next, and both with the same scenario, their getting a boyfriend, I lost interest. I attacked the cycle of falling over and over, being familiar what it was for years, and I've achieved a sort of nowhere. I don't feel the debilitating distress nor any sort of bliss or hope about a prospect for a new relationship. I'm unchained, yet unmotivated. I wonder if I have permanently solved the problem of the never ending cycle or if I've brought something on I really don't want and cannot take back . . .

Having that unconditional love can be such a pain in the # $ % I agree with Sag.... Sometimes you wish you could just turn it off hmm?

Damn Cancers.... we are going to be everyone's mother, lover, best friend, and friggin savior.

^^True that🙂

Well Doll being everything is what cancerians do Best I guess. That even includes all the negative things as well, I will not lie about that fact. I do have some negative cancer traits at times....*cough*..*cough*..mood-swings..*clears throat*

Who else has this? How does it effect you?