Can't understand aqua guy

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from Astrotwins' Love Zodiac.

Sensitive as an aquarius man can be, when he's done, he feels not need to stick around. Once his bruised ego recovers from any slights, he can step back and evaluate your relationship with cool, emotionless logic. His first love will always be life - and what woman can compete with the juicy promise of a new day or discovery? Second in line are the fellow pioneers with whom he shares his time in this brief mortal coil.

Here's how you'll know that you're not part of him permanent history after all:

HE MADE TOO MANY COMPROMISES:
The aquarius man can be a people-pleaser, but if he compromises his ideals of life vision to please you, the resentment will stew until it boils over. He needs to become more of himself, not less, in the relationship. If he feels his world is shrinking, he'll fade away, or notch the romance down to buddy status until you're forced to part as friends.

YOU STEPPED ALL OVER HIS EGO:
The aquarius man is a competitive Alpha dog who needs to stay ahead of the pack. Did you make him look stupid in front of his friends? He believes you should honor your partner and never put him in a bad light. He's big on humanity and if he feels you've treated him with disrespect or cruelty, buh-bye.

HE FADES AWAY OR DISAPPEARS:
There's no greater anathema to Aquarius than a heavy, tearful, emotional good-bye. It will send his system into total shutdown. If he thinks you won't go along with the whole "lets just be friends" idea, he'd rather just vanish and let you figure it out. Ouch.

YOU WERE THE PURSUER:
He's a competitive conquistador who needs to hunt his trophy and score the grand prize. He needs to seek you out. If you had to talk him into the relationship or beg for his attention, forget it. There's a better match out there for you anyhow.


HE SUGGESTS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP SO HE CAN EXPLORE OTHER PARTNERS:
If it includes a threesome for you and him, that's one thing. But if he wants to tryst the night away without you, forget it. If he can stomach the idea of you sleeping around, he's just not that into you. Aquarius is far too possessive to imagine another dude scoring some action with his lady-love.

YOU'VE MADE HIM RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR SELF ESTEEM:
Be honest: Do you often find yourself depressed and dramatic - yet refusing to do any inner work to heal your situation? The future-focused aquarius man is proactive, and he expects you to be, too.