Advice for all people having trouble with aquas

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by highlyclassified on Tuesday, July 29, 2014 and has 10 replies.

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@highlyclassified
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

Im sorry i have to take a stand and say in the most sincerest form that no amount of distance,disrespect, or tests should make you wanna be a fool for MAN let alone a aqua if u wanna know if they have taken you for granted be strong be independent let a man know u dont need him to be happy idk im speaking out because i see alot of postsabout aquarian men not treating you a certain way if u love/like them let them go and if they come back then it means they took you for granted

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@aqualover07
12 Years

The Aqua i am having trouble with has that same code im pretty sure. What you say is true if you meant to say that. But i read that you were having trouble with an aqua. You gave him a piece of your mind.

How do you know when you are a fool? Can you elaborate on what you wrote above?

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@highlyclassified
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by aqualover07
The Aqua i am having trouble with has that same code im pretty sure. What you say is true if you meant to say that. But i read that you were having trouble with an aqua. You gave him a piece of your mind.

How do you know when you are a fool? Can you elaborate on what you wrote above?

Sure i dont mind we met at a party but back then he didnt ask for my number we met on a social site months later exchanged numbers shortly after he asked me to be his gf things were going good until boom one day he did a 360 he would start arguments all the time over the silliest things played mind games and started becoming very disrespectful it was even times where i got outta my element and put him in his place many times until i had gotten fed up no amount of disrespect will allow me to sit around for

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@highlyclassified
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

that when i threatened to leave he threatened me he would blackmail me so i had to break it down in a way where it was logical in a form of advice from a friend to let him kno he had to change if he wanted me around hes also distance and he also. Texts one word responses as well i had to fall back

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@highlyclassified
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

after i sent that last response via text i havent heard from him since and its fine with me im not sayin u shouldn't wait around because its nothing wrong with that but live ur life as well show some independence trust me they watch that if they value u they will come back i just cudnt take it no more not sayin i wanna give up on him but im pausing this till he comes to his senses ......just let your guy friend know in a friendly manner no emotion how u r feelin about him standing u up and your distance he wont get upset he may get silent and reevaluate what he has done i just hope ur friend is not as stubborn as my bf i hope he understands how hes makin u feel

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Well, classified, proud my cappy kin for taking a stand. He may have disappeared, but you found out where he stood. No more time wasted. If you hadn't taken a stand, it would be wash, rinse, repeat over and over. You did what was best for you in the long run.

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Like I said in another aqua post:

Any rational adult would be honest and straight forward and considerate. He's not being consistent at all. That's a major indication he's either a twat or selfish. Ppl like that aren't worth putting any thought towards.

I think that should be the solution to this situation.

Can we all move on please?