Completely zoned out and in an Aqua world..

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iksentricbeauty
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Hey all! I'm an Aquarius and want to know if any other Aquarius' gets called out by friends/family or anyone for "zoning out". My closest friends always notice me whenever I'm in deep thinking mode or just staring at nothing for a long time. Usually when I do that I have a lot of thoughts running through my mind and I am able to completely block out anything around me that is going on. My friends literally have to snap me out of it LOL and they don't understand how I do that. One time I had one of my best friends over at my house and she had invited this girl who I wasn't too fond of to come over later on. All three of us were in my room hanging out but I had no interest in engaging in conversation with the other chick that was there. I just turned to my laptop and completely blocked them out. It was funny because when that girl left my best friend was somewhat irritated with how I was acting when the other girl was there. She was like "I can't believe you ignored her the whole time! how the f*ck did u do that" and I just tel her I have no problem being in my own world and blocking people out LOL especially if I dont like them. Is it just me or are there any other Aquas out there that do that? Or are there any other signs out there that notice an Aqua doing that?
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Omg I'm the exact same way!

I'm very observant & my mind is always racing. Sometimes people have to literally tap me & bring me back down to earth!

When I'm around a new person or environment, I get kind of quiet. But not b/c I'm nervous or shy, but instead b/c it's my way of observing & "filling things out" first.

I'm known for literally acting like the "new girl" in the group doesn't exist. That scenario is all too new to me. I've been around strangers when with my friends & instead of engaging, I just kind of sit back, listen & do my own thing. Not b/c I'm stuck up or have something against the stranger, but moreso b/c I like to be very aware & observant of any new things/people around me that I'm not used to

When I'm on bad terms with someone & see them out somewhere, it surprises everyone when I literally act like that person doesn't exist. There's never that awkward moment or big tension in the room b/c I literally don't pay that person any attention. Literally.

I remember going to a Xmas party a few years ago & seeing an ex there. Everyone thought I was gonna be all upset & that his presence would somehow affect me. Nope. I literally mingled & went along like normal as if he wasn't even there. It's not something I do to put on a show...I don't "pretend" not to care. I literally just don't.

I'm very good at making it known whose relevant & whose not relevant in my life. If I'm not paying you attention, yep you're irrelevant
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1 thing I love about us Aquas is that we have this "Fxck you, I don't need you" sign on our foreheads.

We could careless about being popular or being a follower. Just b/c 100 people are talking to the new girl doesn't mean that we'll jump up, be in her face & try to get to know her just b/c everyone else is doing so.

We literally dance to the beat of our own drums. If we don't know you, we're not gonna act like we're desperate to get to know you. If you want to get to know us, cool, but if not we really don't care.

Getting approval from those who actually know & care about is important. But getting approval from a complete stranger, regardless of how popular they may be to our peers, is another thing & something I don't consider important.

Aquas def. don't kiss ass! The way we see it, you'll be busting down our doors to be our friend before we come busting down yours.

We're perfectly content being alone & having a small close knit group of friends. We don't mind gaining new friends, but it's not like we'll ever come off as desperate for someone's approval or friendship. Ever
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Posted by krysrenee7
1 thing I love about us Aquas is that we have this "Fxck you, I don't need you" sign on our foreheads.

We could careless about being popular or being a follower. Just b/c 100 people are talking to the new girl doesn't mean that we'll jump up, be in her face & try to get to know her just b/c everyone else is doing so.

We literally dance to the beat of our own drums. If we don't know you, we're not gonna act like we're desperate to get to know you. If you want to get to know us, cool, but if not we really don't care.

Getting approval from those who actually know & care about is important. But getting approval from a complete stranger, regardless of how popular they may be to our peers, is another thing & something I don't consider important.

Aquas def. don't kiss ass! The way we see it, you'll be busting down our doors to be our friend before we come busting down yours.

We're perfectly content being alone & having a small close knit group of friends. We don't mind gaining new friends, but it's not like we'll ever come off as desperate for someone's approval or friendship. Ever



It is soooooooooooo true about the whole "f*ck you i don't need you". I really don't waste my time on people that I feel aren't worth my time at all. I tend to move on quickly too if someone I considered to be close or of interest has hurt me. I most definitely do not kiss ass. At my job I have seen a lot of ass kissers and I'm def. not one of them! I work my way to gain respect and succeed, not suck up to people and get the easy way out. Another recent scenario happend with me where my friends couldn't relate or understand. Me and my three other friends went down to the beach for the weekend and we were staying at a nearby hotel. There were clubs and shopping places around the area/walking distance. We were planning to go out that night to the club and I needed to get an outfit. I decided to do that while they hit the beach since I felt that was a good time to do that since we weren't doing anything crazy yet lol. When I told them I was gona go off on my own to shop for an outfit they looked at me like I had 5 heads LOL! My one friend said "your going shopping by yourself?" and I told her yeah why? shes like "i mean one of us could come with you if you want?" i told her no don't wry i'll be fine lol. Like seriously I don't need anyone to come with me especially