Dating Aquarius guy- Virgo gal.

It started off amazing. We had the most memorable conversation both times we connected. Back in August we had a great talk but lost contact. Then he randomly added me on facebook and we had another amazing talk.

He kept repeating how amazingly compatible we are for the first week. And we talked basically all day, everyday! Called each other 5+ a day just for a quick 5 minutes, mostly him calling me. He would remind me of how much he liked me very often, it felt so comforting. It felt refreshing!!! He stated very clearly that he wanted me to be his and no one else's. What's between us stays between us.

Then I returned the favour and mentioned I wanted to be officially exclusive... He disappeared for 2-3 days. I left him alone. But really.. Lol

Last night we randomly had a great conversation, not surprising. He added "just wanted to show you some of what's inside my mind because you seemed disgruntled that you displayed your thoughts. Still like me now?" Then disappeared again today.

What is going on?! I don't mention that I miss him... Or ask how he's doing. We just start our debate and go on like nothing changed. This comes naturally, to be honest. But he's gone again.

Is it a bad idea to go on with things and try dating again? He hasn't said yes to bring together officially.

Why do u want to commit so fast? Take it easy, be his friend.. better yet.. BEST friend. Why the need to make this official? U have great time together, enjoy it. This way u wont be pushing your Aqua guy away.

They do the dissappearing act when they need to think, analyze, see the relationship from far away. Dont pressure him, be there for him, chat, love, cuddle, have sex and just be chill and go with the flow. If you know he likes you and you like him, then u need to be confident that when he is ready, then he will make the announcment to be in a relationship.

When u push him, he will go away and do this disappearing.

He had already said he wanted it, so I waited a few days and then agreed. But lesson has been learnt. It feels like a game.

lol this aqua sounds strange. as if he is playing peek-a-boo and acts like a child hiding behind a tree. Runs to you, wants to hug you, then run away. Boys did this at a young age. This guy sounds like he didn't grow up yet.

That's the vibe I'm getting as well. :/ he came back and now he's being deeper in conversation. Totally different from before. I have no idea what he's doing but I'm trying to work with it!

cmon guys, dont push this guy away! we have all been kids and it takes time and people around us to define who we really are. if u really like this guy u should try and be with him, even though he is distant sometimes.. if the relationship is going somewhere in the near future, he will calm down as u are the one who is sculpting his new behaviour. that does not mean changing him, no just lending him a hand while he goes through the "now-entering-adulthood-acting" scenario

I feel like I want to wait for him a little longer. I want him to go back to the way he behaved before. I shouldn't have displayed my feelings that's for sure!

But at the same time I'm not scared to commit anymore so my patience is being stretched.

I'm not exactly sure. How do I find this out?

This guy is very close to how I behave when I like some girl. It is little tough for at least me to say, "yes, I like you too.". I must add, it should be obvious from the way he speaks to you. If he seems super close to you, then chances are high that he likes you. But he may not express it.

Give him some time. Be a really good friend to him and take it from there. I must add, you may need reserves of patience to deal with this guy.

Talking about his 'kiddish' behavior, just appreciate it. He will be happy to know that you like him the way he is. 🙂