Do Aquarius reach out to people first or not?

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BeautyNBrains23
@BeautyNBrains23
13 Years

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I've been with an Aquarius man for almost two years. We would normally have our small disagreements, and I would get upset and just tell him I'm over it. I would eventually call him/ reach out to him first or times he would just appear as if nothing ever happen.I have been dealing with his ways..I just accepted him even during his tough times..I never judged him always been patient. I feel like when it comes to my needs he's very selfish, and I don't ask for much. Recently we were texting and he said something I didn't like and it made me look at him differently, so I called him to talk about it and he didn't answer..I then texted him saying to call back its important..I patiently waited! I then texted him saying we shouldn't talk anymore because its not going anywhere not just on his behalf mine as well..then I told him I'm happy we met and maybe we should try being friends...still no reply and its been over a week. Now I'm kind of missing the good times but I don't want to keep reaching out first..I want him to realize what a great friend and girlfriend he had.. Do Aquarius reach out if they really care? Should I or just keep moving forward?
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BlueSandCacoon
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13 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

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The following is not astro related. If you anyone to give you good advice using astrology, then you will have to post his natal chart. Without it we're just grasping at straws.

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Maybe one day he'll learn to face his problems instead of avoiding them.

Maybe you will be rewarded when he learns to treat you correctly.

Maybe he'll call you one day and act like nothing happened.

...

Maybe he...

Or maybe... oh well.


You see, what all of those "branches" have in common (aside of complete uncertainty) is that you don't have any say on any of them. It's all about him; it all depends on whatever he decides to do. It will be that way until he decides to stop. You. Don't. Matter.

Now it seems like you have no choice, but you really do. You can either keep on waiting for him to make a move, or you can take matters on your own hands.

I wouldn't say that texting him is a bad idea, but clearly it's not enough. Met him in person and let him know how you feel about this. Stop waiting. Exhaust every option to make it work (if you want it to work). If it doesn't, then that will suck for you but at least you will know you tried your best. You won't have regrets and that will help you to move on.

Try to take the initiative instead of reacting to situations you already have no control over.

Good luck. :]