Does she like me?

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Dafink
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Me and this aqua girl always stare at each other. She always notices me but doesnt say anything. There are times when she ignores me. I said hi to her once and she said hi back(like in a zombie way. its like she didnt even know who I was.) then we stare at each other again passing by. we sent messages online back and forth but in school its the same thing with the staring.
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NZAqua
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Ask her.

Yes, really - ask her.

We like people with guts and she may well be wondering if you like her and is leaving it up to you to approach. Ask her something about herself, we love to talk about things we know or do.

If she gives you the brush-off then she probably doesn't like you but it won't matter because she's not in your life anyway. If she responds and it goes well, go back and do the same the next time you see her and take it from there.
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krysrenee7
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Well I mean you didn't really give us much to go on so there's no really no way I can actually be positive in saying, "Yes she likes you," BUT then again I can't necessarily form the assumption that she doesn't like you either. There's the possibility of both.

I mean I'm the kind of person that assumes people only continue/make a point to stare at something they are either 1. Completely attracted to OR 2. Are completely repulsed by. And unless you look like a monster, I don't gather that her staring at you is b/c she's disgusted. So...she might very well find you attractive & might be trying to figure out within the realms of her OWN head what she likes so much about you. And if she really likes you, the fact that you've probably caught her staring at you probably made her even more nervous & even more in deep thought about you.

Just ask her. OR just make the 1st move in person. Aquas generally like for the other person to make the 1st move. Trust me, women are JUST AS afraid of rejection as men are. The fact that you 2 already have established a form of communication other than staring at eachother lol is a GOOD thing. Atleast now it won't be weird for you to approach her vs. persay the ONLY thing you had to go on was the "staring problem" you 2 both seem to have.

1 thing's for sure. Something about you has def. intrigued her. And if she's the kind of gal that expects for the man (or other person) to make the 1st move, you might as well go for it! And hey, if you're too shy to make the 1st move, then try next time to make sure the convos go a little bit different/further when you 2 speak again online. If you're afraid to just GO FOR IT directly, slowly let the conversation "go there" online.