Fellow aquas i need some insight

Profile picture of WaterCup
WaterCup
@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 712 · Posts: 13125 · Topics: 157
I moved to the province where im staying 3 years ago and during this time i only befriended only one person whom im no longer friends with anymore. I get lonely and tell myself to make some friends. At my son's school we have monthly parent meetings and i get to meet other interesting ppl. I exchanged numbers with some and when they call i find myself avoiding every single call. I dont know why. I want to make friends, but at the same time i dont want to, i d/k if that makes sense.

Is there anybody in here who had experienced the same thing?
How did u overcome it?
How did/do u deal with personal space issue? (this is my major concern)

Thanks for taking your time reading this and thank u in advance for your input.
Profile picture of exam
exam
@exam
18 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 764 · Topics: 33
You aren't the only one. It's the Scorpio moon. Having it will make us some kind of "lone wolves". I used to be suprised at how much space I need . It can go on for years and then suddenly I'm out and about busy making hundred friends then "shut in" again. I call it "hibernation" period. I feel peace and embrace it. There is no need to be afraid of being a "loner". Those are the best time to do creativity activities like writting and drawing or thinking and planning for your next step in life. Sometimes, it's simply just a perfect time to reflect everything has been and you know "the thing" Scorpio mooners are good at : predicting your future and everyone else! Lol 😄
Profile picture of SylkeSpyker
SylkeSpyker
@SylkeSpyker
13 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 1 · Topics: 0
What I don't think most people understand is while an Aquariuos can be the fun and exciting one in the group we are really introverted. We do not usually "Get out There" so to speak. Now give us a guide to take us on our tour and we will follow their lead and let loose. So maybe find someone at work or that you know and see if you can get a friendship started on a smaller more one on one level.

You really should not force the issue of answering the phone or allowing contact. I do the same thing but when I feel like allowing the contact to take place it's because I feel they will be good friends lasting and personal space Will not be important.