Get Bored in Relationships??

Do Aquas tend to get bored and fall out of love quickly? I've been with my Aqua guy for 7 months now (been friends a lot longer) and so far I know that he loves me just as much as I love him but Im scared that he's going to get bored of it soon or wake up one day realizing he doesnt love me. I know I might sound paranoid it's just that I know that he (and Aquas in general) tend to get bored easily and the one thing that they hate most IS to be bored.

He hasnt given me any reason or signs that this is going to happen, Im just worried.

So when you guys love someone, do you tend to STAY in love. Or after a while do u want to try going out with other people for the excitment??

I mean it's kind of contradictory. Aquas get bored easily, yet at the same time they're supposed to be one of the most loyal signs. Not to mention they're a fixed sign. So I would think that once they chose to be with someone, they stick with that decision. And I also hear that Aquas are the type to stay in long term relationships.

Anyones opinion?? Thank you!

ANY sign can get bored in a relationship, ANY sign can fall in and out of love quickly. If he has not given you any reason or sign to doubt his love, then what valid, rational reason would you have to question his love other than you are "worried"? Why worry about something that does not exist. Also I would caution against reading too much into his sign, people are who they are.

If you are worried that the relationship may become stale, I would recommend that you both find hobbies or activities that are seperate from each other and the relationship. Have common interests that you both enjoy doing together, but have seperate ones as well.

If he loves you then he loves YOU, Y O U! Just sit back and enjoy the ride 😛

Yeah I know Im just over thinking things. We deffinately do have both seperate and similar hobbies so thats good. It's just that I know that the enitial passion and excitment that everyone experiences at the beginning of a relationship usually tends to go away after a bit. So Im just scared that loving me wont be enough and he's gonna want to feel that initial excitment again if we dont have it anymore.

Damn I dont know why Im being so paranoid. It's just that he did the disapearing act on me 2 months into our relationship for two weeks and I just dont think I can get over it. Im always on edge around him thinking that if I say the wrong thing he's going to disapear on me. I wish I could just relax but I still cant get it off my mind. Haha Im just paranoid, it's annoying.

But he already told me that Im one of the most important people in his life, one of his closest friends, and he's completely attached to me, and that it would completely kill him if we werent together anymore. God Im weird. I just need to stop worrying so much... but its SOOO hard. 😢

Well yeah I understand OFA that basically every single couple out there starts getting into the routine of things and it might start to seem a bit dull. So ur not alone in that. But at the same time does that mean that ur going to break it off with ur guy cause ur feeling "a slight tinge of boredom?" Throw everything away? Because in the end every relationship is going to loose the initial passion right? Ha that sounds so depressing.

"Don't leave an Aquarian to their own devices TOO much"

^^^ lol i know this is off topic but how do you create all those different smiley face—?

I see said the blind man 😛 muahahaha

ummm first offf EARTH SIGNS GO! down to earth = real baybee &&' thats what we be.second we aint boring at all we just aint A.D.D. babies like u aquariuses.=)

"we aint boring at all we just aint A.D.D. babies like u aquariuses.=)"

don't be jealous lol

"Don't leave an Aquarian to their own devices TOO much! "....

This is very true, they like to think they are in control in relationships but deep down they like to be kept on their toes a little too!..

I've had long relationships and short relationships.I don't see it as a sign thing as mentioned above, it's more down to relationships. All relationships have moments where you may feel bored or fed up/need some space. For me a relationship is about many things and to keep each other from being bored you have to have fun, be creative and always take a risk or two to keep it lively.

woops.. I meant to say "it's more down to relationships in general" xD

Well, if an Aqua REALLY loves you & has made a clean cut investment in you, then he/she is not going anywhere unless something tramatic or scornful happens that would leave them no choice. Sure, we Aquas get bored easily, but for some reason we let our boredom drive us away into others arms. We see the boredom as just a phase that will quickly pass & as something that is normal of every relationship (and this realization prevents us from freaking out & automatically leaving that person high & dry). We aren't that shallow. BUT, I think this only happens when an Aqua is truly in love with you.

Sometimes when we get bored, we'll throw out hints or even suggest how the relationship/love life can get better. And there are 2 types of "bored" with Aquas:

1. We're bored with you b/c things aren't as exciting as they used to be, BUT the love, trust & motivation to stay is still there, so we'll just see the boredom as a phase that will pass eventually & as something we shouldn't freak out about. We're in this for the longhaul & aren't naive or unrealistic when it comes to our relationships. As long as the trust, love, honesty & connection & the other person's same undying love for us is still there, we'll hold on for the long haul. We're not going to pretend like we're NOT bored, but we're also not going to leave either.

2. On the other hand, when our partners start to mess up & start showing signs that they have OR will betray us, even if we know we don't have the strength to let that person go, we'll just override the word "naive" & call it "Boredom," & only when THIS happens, will we let our boredom in the relationship actually allow those feelings of wanting to leave or find something new/exciting overpower our love for that person.

So in a nutshell, if we feel the relationship is worth having, we'll also feel that it's worth saving & sticking by. If the relationship is set in stone & has a sturdy foundation, Aquas won't leave. Boredom is too small & too temporary of an issue for us to leave. It has to be something MAJOR & realistically permanent for us to start straying.

Being bored b/c every relationship hits its "dry" season is one thing. But being bored b/c we're FED UP is a whole 'nother story.

If we're bored b/c we're fed up, and by being fed up we naturally get bored with the relationship as a whole, then we're likely to leave in the long run, but not necessarily in a quick hurry. Once an Aqua really (I mean REALLY) loves you, it'll be very hard for them to leave you unless their partner's just keep doing the unthinkable. We do the "distancing" ourself thing whether we're bored or not b/c that's just how we are in friendships AND in love. But Aquas take great pride in who they commit to & who they invest their time in & leaving that person for shallow & unrealistic & impatient reasons is not something Aquas are quick to do.

Now on the other hand, when an Aqua gets bored, their partners will know it. It's not like we keep it in & don't show signs that we're bored. Oh we do. Of course when we get bored, we get a little more frustrated & actually show out b/c of an inner fear of the relationship (as a whole) not working out. But we see love as something that should be earned & kept, & being bored with someone is maybe a good reason to be irritated but not a good enough reason to actually leave. Hell, if anything, we're always in constant fear that our partners will get bored with us just b/c of the main fact that we know we're a different kind of "breed." And b/c we secretely fear others leaving us high & dry for shallow reasons or b/c of temporary issues (phases), we make it a point to not give others that fear & to not do others the way we'd crumble if treated the same way

Long Distance never works regardless of sun sign.