Grrr Freakin Aqua men.

Okay so after my Aqua broke up with me I think he sent out like mass e-mails to every aqua male in my area because I can't seem to STOP meeting Aquas. However my new beau is a Sagittarius (interesting). Anyway, thing is my Aqua ex has been treating me terribly since we broke up, won't return calls, says really mean things, etc and I could understand if I did something wrong, but I didn't. He broke up with me because of his own personal stuff. So now that I have a new boyfriend he's acting all odd. Like apparently when he found out he was like "I'm really happy for her seriously!!! That chapter is closed. NEXT!!" Thing is I thought it had been closed a long time ago especially when he was like "Do you not get it that we're not together?" I mean I took that as..I'm done with you...now all of a sudden it's like "I told you I wasn't interested in anyone else and I meant that" yet I find out he's sleeping with other women but he won't tell me I had to find out from his sister who's 1 of my best friends. It's like it's okay for him to do whatever he's doing but now that I have a new boyfriend it's some big ass deal. Like when I deleted our pics off myspace he deleted me off his friends list..wth is that? Then he does things to intentionally hurt me and get under my skin because he knows how sensitive I am. Aquas confuse the hell out of me. He's a Jan 24th Aqua born at 4:11 am if that helps anyone lol.

sheesh...drop him like a bad cold. He is playing with your head girl! And quite successfully. I don't know a whole lot about Aqua's and am not sure if this statement is true, but in MY experience with them, they enjoy having power over a woman. They want her to fawn over them and follow their lead, not the other way around. Sure, they love a woman who is independent, but their confusing behavior (experienced with both Aquas I dated) is serious game playing. It is impossible to understand their true feelings but I wager:

1. He still likes you
2. Is real with you when he said he wasn't ready
3. is really disappointed you didn't wait for him

But DO NOT wait for him. He may never come around and then where will you be? hurt and without him. Just keep doing what you're doing and realize you may not be able to stay "friends" with him. (Is he really treating you like a friend if he's treating you like this? Really?)

Thing is I OFFERED to wait for him to get it together and he was like "No, that would be selfish of me" blah blah... so I was like "Ok" I mean wth is this? He says no but really means yes? I'm going to need people to say what the hell they really mean. How am I supposed to just KNOW what you mean? Then you get mad when I do exactly what you told me to do? That's insane! I'm WAY too emo to be with an Aqua.

Sounds to me like your guy is typical in that every woman he's been with, he still feels possessive of even though he doesn't want to be with you anymore. It isn't unusual a lot of people are like that. They hate to see their ex's happy after they've left. Just ignore it and move on like you are.

"he sent out like mass e-mails to every aqua male in my area because I can't seem to STOP meeting Aquas."
lol, strange, why can't you stop meeting aquas? do you have an aqua rising or something?

hmm and i think sags and aquas have similar qualities to each other so he should be mass emailing sags to.

"Sounds to me like your guy is typical in that every woman he's been with, he still feels possessive of even though he doesn't want to be with you anymore."

YUP. I honestly think the possesive thing isn't just for aquas. I mean, they are a trip. But gosh forbid if you do something they've done.
Men want to dump you and like to make sure your life is miserable because they are not gracing you with their presence anymore.
Best thing you can do, tell him to shove it and make sure to not let anything he says annoy you, that will piss him off even more, no questions asked.

My ex Aqua was/is exactly the same. We split after he couldn't cope with the emotion of our relationship. I was upset as he had been so loving and affectionate. And the day after we split I went to a club with my friends and he was there flirting with girls all night. I then started dating a Pisces and the first time the Aqua saw us together he just went totally in his shell. I could tell it upset him. From then onwards whenever he's drunk he comes up to me saying how special our thing was but that he doesn't want a relationship (so just sex then) but when he's sober and I see him, he blanks me. I just laugh it off now when he comes up to me, it's a bit sad, and I can say that I've moved on from him, even though I appreciate how good we were together.