help me please with my aquarius boyfriend

hi, my boyfriend is aquarius. on our first week together, he was so lovey dovey.. so sweet, calls me all the time. even does video call, he'd always tell me he loved me and thanked me for loving him back and for making him happy again, for making him able to feel love again. he even asks me to text him always of my whereabouts and if i don't he'd beg me to text him.. so i did. i always have gave in to his requests so that he wouldn't get jealous and he'd trust me. he would text me first and he'd always tell me he loves me. but all of a sudden, he stopped textin. he stopped calling me. i was able to get a hold of him on the line, i asked him what's wrong? are you mad at me? why arent you texting me? then he said he was just busy. so okay i told him i'll wait for his text, but he never did. then after a few days he texted me that he just wasnt feeling good, he opted to stay quiet. i told him, why arent you feeling good? i hope that goes away soon. enjoy your work. then i never heard from him again, he never texted me but he updated his facebook status, he said "why am i feeling this again? im so excited but i'm scared".. i was really bothered he had time to update his facebook but never text me. one day i got fed up and told him this, "i think i'll just leave you alone for a while, but don't think that i'm doing that because i don't care. i'm doing that because i'll respect your space. always know that whatever im doing, im thinking of you and i love you always." i never got any reply but after a few hours, he updated his facebook saying "i wanna be with you".. and i'm like?? so i havent texted him for days now.. i really don't understand but i'm trying hard to understand it because i love him so much.. from what ive read, they say this is typical aquaman behavior while others say move on, he's not into you anymore. look for someone better. it's really hard and it hurts me to think about looking for someone else.. i still wanna see how this goes, he never said he doesnt like me but feels like it. i dont knw, im a scorpio girl by the way. please help.

Well, it sounds like an aqua, but - it's a weird aqua! My bf also stops communicating when he's busy, and when he's not - he calls, texts, wants to be with me all the time, to the point I lose my personal space. And then he's busy and doesn't contact. But he calls at least once a day and tries to find time to see me even if busy!. He is not like yours, i mean not as drastic, and we've been together for almost a year, so he knows how I find that irritating.
Why did you text him of your whereabouts in the first week or so? it's too much, he needs to learn to trust you. And all of a sudden he stops communicating? I say - RUN! You really should let him go, he sounds like a possessive aqua and also a self-absorbed person (like all aquas 🙂 you think, but this is drastic person in your example)
Aquas love to talk, but communicating indirectly - NO, and facebook is that, an indirect way to communicate. All aquas i know are usually in your face.
And you're a scorpio, i guess you don't need your space like fire and air signs, so if you stay with him - if he ever contacts you again, that is, you will feel he's not caring enough, he's distant, unemotional. He'll shut you out when he has problems, work, or meeting with friends. I don't see how a scorpio can deal with that and not feel hurt.

Maintain a healthy distance is good for any type of relationship. Being a Scorpio, I'm sure you dislike it when someone invades your space and your alone time, so don't give them up for anyone. If you let dependency becomes a habit between you two, you will feel suffocated in the end and trust me when that happens, even he doesn't disappear, you will do it yourself 😄 I'm a Scorpio too and I've gone through periods where I shut out the whole world just to be with myself. This can be days, weeks, months or even up to one or two years. I suspect you like your alone time too. The reason you feel bad because you forgone your independence and own nature to get into a routine for him and now he quickly changed it. Being a fixed sign, it's hard for you to understand the inconsistency but trust me this, love needs some space too and that "let go with the flow" thing sometimes. Leave him alone and focus on yourself, don't be obsessed with "how, what,why" for this case if the original source, the Aqua guy is not going to give you any answer. Please remember not to forget your own principles for someone else. It might sound weird but some Aqua men might take you for granted if you always comply to their wishes. Once you're able to see him again, just ask him gently why did he "set up" this routine and didn't follow through. Tell him that you respect his freedom but he also needs to do the same to you. Also, A simple text "bye, I'm going to hibernate for a year now" isn't a hard thing to accomplish between two lovers.

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Maintain a healthy distance is good for any type of relationship. Being a Scorpio, I'm sure you dislike it when someone invades your space and your alone time, so don't give them up for anyone. If you let dependency becomes a habit between you two, you will feel suffocated in the end and trust me when that happens, even he doesn't disappear, you will do it yourself 😄 I'm a Scorpio too and I've gone through periods where I shut out the whole world just to be with myself. This can be days, weeks, months or even up to one or two years. I suspect you like your alone time too. The reason you feel bad because you forgone your independence and own nature to get into a routine for him and now he quickly changed it. Being a fixed sign, it's hard for you to understand the inconsistency but trust me this, love needs some space too and that "let go with the flow" thing sometimes. Leave him alone and focus on yourself, don't be obsessed with "how, what,why" for this case if the original source, the Aqua guy is not going to give you any answer. Please remember not to forget your own principles for someone else. It might sound weird but some Aqua men might take you for granted if you always comply to their wishes. Once you're able to see him again, just ask him gently why did he "set up" this routine and didn't follow through. Tell him that you respect his freedom but he also needs to do the same to you. Also, A simple text "bye, I'm going to hibernate for a year now" isn't a hard thing to accomplish between two lovers.

true.. i appreciate your reply.. it's just that i can't help but wonder why they do that. it makes me think does he still love me even if im out of sight?

Posted by shysaggirl
Well, it sounds like an aqua, but - it's a weird aqua! My bf also stops communicating when he's busy, and when he's not - he calls, texts, wants to be with me all the time, to the point I lose my personal space. And then he's busy and doesn't contact. But he calls at least once a day and tries to find time to see me even if busy!. He is not like yours, i mean not as drastic, and we've been together for almost a year, so he knows how I find that irritating.
Why did you text him of your whereabouts in the first week or so? it's too much, he needs to learn to trust you. And all of a sudden he stops communicating? I say - RUN! You really should let him go, he sounds like a possessive aqua and also a self-absorbed person (like all aquas 🙂 you think, but this is drastic person in your example)
Aquas love to talk, but communicating indirectly - NO, and facebook is that, an indirect way to communicate. All aquas i know are usually in your face.
And you're a scorpio, i guess you don't need your space like fire and air signs, so if you stay with him - if he ever contacts you again, that is, you will feel he's not caring enough, he's distant, unemotional. He'll shut you out when he has problems, work, or meeting with friends. I don't see how a scorpio can deal with that and not feel hurt.

yeah he's kinda busy. i understand that his career is going to take so much of his time since he's quite a celeb here on our country..tss..but true enough, i hope that if he doesnt love me anymore he would tell me.

I'm a Scorpio woman involved with an Aquarius man for about a year and I totally understand what you are going through.
The thing about Scorpio's involvement with Aquarius is never superficial. It's really intense and being intense and passionate beings ourselves, we understand and embrace this "energy". For an "aloof" or less emotional Aquarius, it is difficult for them to be able to feel the things that we feel when we are in love.

For us Scorpios, it is total commitment, heart, body and soul. I can sense that he loves you too but I'm guessing that he just needs space and time to reflect on your relationship or he may genuinely be busy.My man does that too and at first I was not able to understand his need for some "me" time because my reasoning is that if you love someone, you would want to spend every time you have with this other person who manages to capture your heart.

All I can say that, being with an Aquarius myself has taught me so much to be less judgemental and be more accepting of other people's unqiue qualities. He forces me to face my own trust issues and in short, he makes me want to be a better version of myself. There are so many lessons we can learn from each other and it will not be an easy ride, I can honestly tell you that!

I hope you will be patient if you think that this man is the right one for you. Trust your own instincts because no one knows him better than you do.