Sooo??heโ€”s married.

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by iceredrobot on Sunday, November 20, 2011 and has 47 replies.

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Actually I knew for a while. Why would a 26yo Aqua man be married? Now I've seen it all. It's gonna be hard introducing him to my parents with that wedding ring on. I told him if he shows up to my house with that thing on as a ~joke~ I will tear his throat out.

*sigh*

Oh!! he has an Aries Mars. This will be the 3rd Aries Mars guy I've dated in a row. God bless irrationally angry men

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I think she's attracted because he's not available. I think that's the appeal. If she has major emotional hang-ups then a married man is "safe". He already has committed himself to someone else so he won't be expecting anything from her.

The possessiveness, jealousy, and insecurity are manifestations of the hurt inside. She will be stuck in the endless loop of suffering and she will continue to seek out these types as long as she keeps avoiding her demons.

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Yikes... there are so many things in this post that I have that reaction to

The original post... ice - is he divorced or separated?

P-Angel - this post has nothing to do with 69 but again you make it into him...why don't you just try to hook up with him already.

ninja - I'm right there with you. I don't condone it but I'm not his wife and they are both consenting adults... so meh

nights, lady, and Perch - I haven't seen this side of you before. I need to snuggle up with my teddy bear for comfort! lmfao

venus - lol

Hmm yeah cheers mates.

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wow, nights. harsh.

lena, i'm not going to lecture you on what is right or wrong about your situation. it is not my place to judge, because let's face it, there are two people in the situation and he is the one primarily responsible for his marriage.

but this is how i see it. you will always be second best to his wife. your time with him will probably be extremely limited. this will probably never be a healthy relationship between the two of you because how will you be able to trust him if things get serious?

honestly, you can do better. you deserve a guy that can give you his full attention, and to whom you can be #1.
i hope you realize that.

and if this is because you WANT a certain amount of space right now, then maybe it is better be single for a little while. until you're ready.

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Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
Married doesn't necessarily mean together...

That is true. The other day when I was at the hospital a nurse came in my dads room and asked if my mom and dad were married.

Seems like an obvious question but she went on to say you'd be surpised how many people aren't but just live together or are and don't live together.

I guess you never know these days.

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Posted by starlover
""I've always had this thing for married women, I guess is exciting when you're getting or trying to get what you're no supposed to, so I say go for it, but don't expect anything, but to get laid and have a good time. LMAO""

that may backfire on you one day sir. you may end up losing someone you love ... she may be stolen away from you or you may wake up one day feeling like shit and thinking "what the eff am i doing"

can feel that somehow?

LMAO?

I agree that was a bit...uh

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Posted by 69virgo
If he's married why is he coming to your house? Home wrecker..๐Ÿ™‚

She's a Pisces, duh! She invited him, her Piscean "instincts" probably knew that he was married already. It's the only time the fishies instinct really works is when it's something fucked up. HaHa! Ever met a Pisces fem that has never been with a married or committed man? Exactly. Pffft...

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Posted by GeminiMind
Posted by 69virgo
If he's married why is he coming to your house? Home wrecker..๐Ÿ™‚

She's a Pisces, duh! She invited him, her Piscean "instincts" probably knew that he was married already. It's the only time the fishies instinct really works is when it's something fucked up. HaHa! Ever met a Pisces fem that has never been with a married or committed man? Exactly. Pffft...

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I love pisces to death but I have to admit I've seen that a little..just a little!

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I can't help but think this isn't true and that Lena's up to something. A test maybe I dunno.

Will be interesting to see anyway what she says when she returns to this thread.

Until then I'm not assuming shit.

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Posted by MissPirate
I can't help but think this isn't true and that Lena's up to something. A test maybe I dunno.

Will be interesting to see anyway what she says when she returns to this thread.

Until then I'm not assuming shit.

I agree with you, Miss P. The initial post read like he was married, but seperated...or that could be my naievity. Sometimes I jump to the wrong conclusions, but this all could be a misunderstanding.

If not, the level of finger pointing in this thread is icky. Lol at people acting like their shit doesn't stink. Saying that, people do feel strongly about married people and cheating. So I understand. I don't see why you'd need to e-tar and flame a person about it, though.

@Geminismallmind-I was going to talk about Pisces and going for 'taken' people, but seeing as your comment is based on a Pisces predjudice, your comment was just an excuse to jump on the e-bashing bandwagon and as such cannot be taken seriously.

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Posted by Nemesis
Posted by MissPirate
I can't help but think this isn't true and that Lena's up to something. A test maybe I dunno.

Will be interesting to see anyway what she says when she returns to this thread.

Until then I'm not assuming shit.

a test as in: i wanted to see how many of you like/dislike me?

how many of you are hypocrites?!

how many of you are judgemental?

how many of you belong to a clique?!

hahaha ๐Ÿ˜„

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hmmm this is what happens when I keep threads short and sweet๐Ÿ˜› back to writing 3 post essays it is!!

Umm no I'm not playing mistress lmao xD He's a postgrad and my assigned tutor (how we met) living on his own. Hasn't been in contact with his wife since summer โ€” she lives like 98miles away. I didn't know he was married until I *think* 3weeks ago. No, he doesn't wear his ring, unless he's trying to get a reaction out of me. Thanks for the support/concern everyone!!
loll I would never share a man...well maybe Torres๐Ÿ˜›

There. Now everyone can stop attacking me๐Ÿ˜ข

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Posted by iceredrobot

Umm no I'm not playing mistress lmao xD He's a postgrad and my assigned tutor (how we met) living on his own. Hasn't been in contact with his wife since summer โ€” she lives like 98miles away. I didn't know he was married until I *think* 3weeks ago. No, he doesn't wear his ring, unless he's trying to get a reaction out of me.

This innocence you are now trying to play doesn't coincide with the Original Post, which obviously describes that you know full well that he is taken and plan on making sure he's yours.

Posted by iceredrobot

Actually I knew for a while. Why would a 26yo Aqua man be married? Now I've seen it all. It's gonna be hard introducing him to my parents with that wedding ring on. I told him if he shows up to my house with that thing on as a ~joke~ I will tear his throat out.

You know I like this one. He's different from the others. Like I didn't get bored when he gave himself up. And I'm getting possessive, jealous, insecure โ€” ummm??_.have I switched signs? Wtf? =/ I'm *this* close to branding him with my initials, he's pretty much mine. I told him last night good luck if you want to get away.

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Actually, that would be you trying to get a reaction .... because this is something an attention whore would do.

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Posted by 69virgo
Posted by tbird
Yikes... there are so many things in this post that I have that reaction to

The original post... ice - is he divorced or separated?

P-Angel - this post has nothing to do with 69 but again you make it into him...why don't you just try to hook up with him already.

ninja - I'm right there with you. I don't condone it but I'm not his wife and they are both consenting adults... so meh

nights, lady, and Perch - I haven't seen this side of you before. I need to snuggle up with my teddy bear for comfort! lmfao

venus - lol

Hmm yeah cheers mates.

She just want me to make her talk dirty,and bring her inner freak out..๐Ÿ˜‰

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lol... maybe your the right man for the job 69! I've seen your posts... you don't hold nothing back! =)

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Posted by nimbue
Posted by MissPirate
I can't help but think this isn't true and that Lena's up to something. A test maybe I dunno.

Will be interesting to see anyway what she says when she returns to this thread.

Until then I'm not assuming shit.

I agree with you, Miss P. The initial post read like he was married, but seperated...or that could be my naievity. Sometimes I jump to the wrong conclusions, but this all could be a misunderstanding.

If not, the level of finger pointing in this thread is icky. Lol at people acting like their shit doesn't stink. Saying that, people do feel strongly about married people and cheating. So I understand. I don't see why you'd need to e-tar and flame a person about it, though.

@Geminismallmind-I was going to talk about Pisces and going for 'taken' people, but seeing as your comment is based on a Pisces predjudice, your comment was just an excuse to jump on the e-bashing bandwagon and as such cannot be taken seriously.

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Exactly! I myself and intrigued was flamed a few days ago and was called cheaters even though we are married yet separated. All involved know the score and we are not going back to our ex's it's done and finalized yet we were told we women are cheaters and should be ashamed and to clean our marriages when no one knows what the hell they are talking about.

I give icerobot props for stating her situation on here even though she seen us (intrigued and I) fight with a person. All are consenting adults and they way I read it too was that he is separated. Now I have said on one post that the girl was cheating with a guy who's in a relationship (the female is unaware) that she finds out. Because she deserves to know.

Same for ice...if he's actually still with his wife and she doesn't know, she needs to know. I'm not going to say ice your a such and such because honestly I can't throw stones. I'm not perfect, nor is anyone else on this or any other boards, and in real life.

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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by iceredrobot

Umm no I'm not playing mistress lmao xD He's a postgrad and my assigned tutor (how we met) living on his own. Hasn't been in contact with his wife since summer โ€” she lives like 98miles away. I didn't know he was married until I *think* 3weeks ago. No, he doesn't wear his ring, unless he's trying to get a reaction out of me.

This innocence you are now trying to play doesn't coincide with the Original Post, which obviously describes that you know full well that he is taken and plan on making sure he's yours.

Posted by iceredrobot

Actually I knew for a while. Why would a 26yo Aqua man be married? Now I've seen it all. It's gonna be hard introducing him to my parents with that wedding ring on. I told him if he shows up to my house with that thing on as a ~joke~ I will tear his throat out.

You know I like this one. He's different from the others. Like I didn't get bored when he gave himself up. And I'm getting possessive, jealous, insecure โ€” ummm??_.have I switched signs? Wtf? =/ I'm *this* close to branding him with my initials, he's pretty much mine. I told him last night good luck if you want to get away.

Actually, that would be you trying to get a reaction .... because this is something an attention whore would do.

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Are you mad because in your eyes she is doing what you do? Possibly...

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Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
I haven't had sex in two years.....I'd say there's no way I can be a cheater. In my heart I have no marriage, haven't had for over three years. But a divorce takes money....when I get some, I'll letchyal know.

Hello luv!

Exactly H...

My thing is you don't have to agree but it's unnecessary to be shitty with a person. Now if a person is shitty to begin with then by all means have at it... we can have a shit throwing fight like monkeys. In the end we will all have a shower and go back to our normal lives in the real world...if some of you actually venture forth out in it. That statement is not applied to all just one person in particular I have in mind.

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Posted by tbird
I give icerobot props for stating her situation on here even though she seen us (intrigued and I) fight with a person.

Ohhh that's what Elly meant!! I didn't see those threads, I haven't been on much lately. That explains why this thread blew up.

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Exactly! I myself and intrigued was flamed a few days ago and was called cheaters even though we are married yet separated. All involved know the score and we are not going back to our ex's it's done and finalized yet we were told we women are cheaters and should be ashamed and to clean our marriages when no one knows what the hell they are talking about.
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Was the person who told you that this woman?

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Posted by iceredrobot
hmmm this is what happens when I keep threads short and sweet๐Ÿ˜› back to writing 3 post essays it is!!

Umm no I'm not playing mistress lmao xD He's a postgrad and my assigned tutor (how we met) living on his own. Hasn't been in contact with his wife since summer โ€” she lives like 98miles away. I didn't know he was married until I *think* 3weeks ago. No, he doesn't wear his ring, unless he's trying to get a reaction out of me. Thanks for the support/concern everyone!!
loll I would never share a man...well maybe Torres๐Ÿ˜›

There. Now everyone can stop attacking me๐Ÿ˜ข

Whew!!! Glad you cleared that up because I was about to go in. ๐Ÿ™‚

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And what's the big deal with all of you? Obviousely the wife is no longer a part of his life, what difference does it make if he's still married on the paper. It's just a PIECE OF PAPER. People in here are really conservative! :-/

I say god for him... and iceredrobot.

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Posted by enfant_terrible
And what's the big deal with all of you? Obviousely the wife is no longer a part of his life, what difference does it make if he's still married on the paper. It's just a PIECE OF PAPER. People in here are really conservative! :-/

I say god for him... and iceredrobot.

Thank you๐Ÿ™‚ Even though I wanna kill you for bumping it๐Ÿ˜›

Yes, it's just a piece of paper, it doesn't define us. And even if they were still together who cares?? A few people here are a little too invested in my life.