He's Just not That Into You

Have any of you heard of this book "He's just not that into you" ? I am thinking that Aquarius men do not apply to the words in this book. However, maybe we are all delusional and if our Aqua guys seem uninterested then perhaps they truly are and he is "just not that into us". Maybe this is a cold hard fact all us women who adore aqua men need to address.

Or maybe the book generalizes too much, but then I am making excuses for why the aqua I just went out with on a first date isn't being real attentive now - I think perhaps we all need to face reality? If I am the "one" - I somehow don't believe he would let me get away.

Any comments, words of wisdom— I would love to hear the conversation that will follow ....

thanks!

UC - you are the star of the aqua message boards. ha ha.

Thanks for the input - I didn't read the book, my neice told me about it and how it helped her. But I do realize there are exceptions to every rule and it seems like Aquas are the true exception to the rules of romance!
thanks again,
--dp

very well said UC, probably two of your best posts ever 🙂

Pisces women tend to be delusional when it comes to romance, because they (we) daydream a lot and tend to have a difficult time distinguishing between reality and dreams...add an emotion/physical bond to that in a form of a relationship and we have to really work hard to trust our intuition instead of our heart/dreams. But I do find humor Spachtel in some of your words, if we cannot laugh at our unique challenges (not talking misfortunes or mental illness or the like) then what's the use. We do need to find humor in life and not be so serious all the time. SO YES I EMBRACE that I can be a delusional Piscean female at times - and I am sure that this has some hidden gifts for me as well, because for every shadow personality trait, there is a gift it has for us!

PEACE...

"Meanwhile, chances are you are more likely to end up this guy's girlfriend (the one you really didn't care much about) because you are going to grade him much easier and you are going to be natural and yourself, and you're going to be more attractive. Meanwhile, your object of obsession, you have probably driven away with you insecurity and attitude."

UC...I agree completely.