How do you think he will react??

I finally found a way to send an e-mail to my aquarius 'fiance.' He doesn't know that I found out about their relationship so he is going to be surprised when she confronts him about the e-mail. What do you think his reaction will be? Will he try to do something to hurt me or just avoid me. Either way I don't plan on calling, taking any of his calls or letting him inside my house again, but i'm just curious of what to expect. I just sent the e-mail this afternoon.

Posted by scorpioswag
I finally found a way to send an e-mail to my aquarius 'fiance.' He doesn't know that I found out about their relationship so he is going to be surprised when she confronts him about the e-mail. What do you think his reaction will be? Will he try to do something to hurt me or just avoid me. Either way I don't plan on calling, taking any of his calls or letting him inside my house again, but i'm just curious of what to expect. I just sent the e-mail this afternoon.

Oh wow

So your fiance is cheating?

he may avoid you as to not cause a huge confrontation and have to answer a bunch of questions but no one really knows how a man will react to something like this until he reacts.

if he is cheating on you he was probably just going throught the motions of an engagement because he really didn't want to get married.
so he will probably be a little freaked out at first, then after a couple of weeks he will bask in his new freedom.
just saying

Well he might be more upset than anything. Him being an Aquarius, he hates finding out that he didn't catch on or know something so the fact that you know & he didn't have any idea will definetely make him mad, if anything at himself more than you. When an Aquarius is unfaithful, it bothers their sense of peace, thus they'll watch carefully to see if their partner changes or seems to notice anything. They will be extremely paranoid b/c of all the emotional energy it takes for them to use while cheating on their partners. If he finds out that you knew & if he really had NO idea that you knew, he'll be very upset & almost be more interested in how you found out moreso than how he's going to handle you & the relationship.

Of course with ANY man, regardless of the sign there are 100 different ways he could react. He could: 1. Flip the script on you & ask you why you didn't say anything when you first found out. He could 2. Use the time to finally tell you that he wasn't as interested in you as you thought, and if anything be more relieved. He could 3. Be more interested in questioning you & investigating just how you knew so much without leading on or showing any signs that you knew. He could 4. Do the "begging" & "I'm sorry" thing & pick that time to profess his dying love for you. Or 5. He could be so embarrassed with himself that his good sense of intuition didn't catch on to you knowing, & to avoid all possible drama between you & the other woman he might just disappear from the both of you altogether. It all just varies on him individually as a person. Either way, how he reacts shouldn't matter. He put a ring on his finger & took the relationship to the next level (engagement) & STILL made the CHOICE to be unfaithful. And since Aquarius men usually don't cheat, it's best that you let go of one that actually DOES b/c if he is cheating there's a huge chance that he's emotionally detached from you. And once that happens, there is no turning back

How he reacts depends on how the tone of your email is. If the tone of your email is from a woman-trying-to-help-another-woman-out standpoint, she will be very appreciative of finding out the truth & thus the chances of their relationship crumbling will be higher. If the tone of your letter was moreso out of spite & vindictiveness then his fiance will catch on to this & will def. relay this back to him, thus his fury towards you will NOT be pretty! His reaction will depend on your motive & true intentions for writing to her.

If you wrote to her just to break up their relationship in order to have him to yourself, you can forget that. If you go behind his back & threaten to ruin something he's put alot of energy into (regardless of how he treats her in his own personal time) he will make you pay by completely shutting you out & off for good. Sure, it might ruin their relationship but then again it might not. Remember, Aquarius can be very manipulative & very convincing & like I said, depending on the tone & nature of your email you actually might've made her cling to him more, resulting in him getting his revenge on you, leaving you alone & then never turning back. He might confront you, he might not. Whether or not he confronts you will depend on how his fiance takes your email. If they have a wonderful relationship full of trust then she might not even believe what you're saying is true, thus that will give this guy an even further reason to cut you off completely in order to possibly spare his relationship with his fiance. Either way, I hope you don't plan on messing with this guy anymore. Once you went behind his back, he will forever be done with you

Another possibility...If you didn't consult with him that you were going to tell his fiance, then the chances of his fury being stronger towards you is alot higher. If you guys were doing just fine & all of the sudden you decide to write his fiance a letter "tattling" on him, then he will see this as the ultimate betrayal, considering you obviously knew he was taken. If anything, he will spend more time trying to keep you away from any contact with his fiance & depending on how naive or trusting his fiance is, you might've actually just caused more trouble for yourself, moreso than for their relationship.

If he finds out that you sent that email out of spite versus doing so out of guilt & remorse for her, then he will do his very best to let you know that he is done with you. He might let you know by cussing you out, trying to ruin whatever you've got going on in your own personal life and/or by completely demeaning your character. Anytime you threaten the emotional & physical security in an Aquarius' personal life, they take that very seriously & there is no telling what can happen next. Aquarian men are masters of manipulation & are not ones to feed into any mind games that they didn't create or start themselves.

That's just it. I didn't know he was taken. He's been lying to me for 2 years which means he's been lying to her as well. Last time he and I spoke I specifically asked if there was someone else and he said NO. I don't care if he never reached out to me again. I have no intentions of ever speaking to him again. As far as i'm concerned he's not good enough for me. I don't deal with liars or cheaters.

That's just it. I didn't know he was taken. He's been lying to me for 2 years which means he's been lying to her as well. Last time he and I spoke I specifically asked if there was someone else and he said NO. I don't care if he never reached out to me again. I have no intentions of ever speaking to him again. As far as i'm concerned he's not good enough for me. I don't deal with liars or cheaters.

Good for you hun. I'm glad that you're totally done with him b/c any man who can lie for 2 years & literally skate by without getting caught until years later is not the kind of man that can be taken back or forgiven over night. Some men cheat & lie & the women with those men always use the excuse that it was "just a one time thing & mistake." But with this guy you know for a FACT that you can't accidently play 2 women at the same time.

If you want to contact the other woman for the purpose of making sure that another woman will finally know the truth, then so be it. There's nothing wrong with that. After all, you'd be suprised; they might be at a point in their relationship where the trust is rocky & you telling her about you might be what confirms what she was already suspicious about. Who knows, by telling her about you, you could be saving her life. I'm sure you 2 aren't the only women in his life so for all you know you could be sparing her life; who knows, he might be one HIV partner away from sleeping with his girlfriend & if you tell her, you might save her life or spare her heart from any more days of heartbreak. If you do write to her, let her know that you don't want him & make sure you sound convincing b/c she'll be more apt to believe you & do something about it quicker. Are you prepared to provide proof just in case she's nice & believes you? The only problem with telling the other woman about yourself is that you never know how many layers you are getting yourself into.