I AM A GEMINI NEED HELP FROM AQUAS PLEASEEEE

Hi

I am new here. Need some advice. Who is more compatible with this Aquarius?

HE:
BORN FEB 4 1975

HE IS AN AQUARIUS

RISING GEMINI
MOON IN SAG
VENUS IN PISCES

ME:
BORN JUNE 5TH 1978

I AM GEMINI
RISING I BELIEVE VIRGO
MOON GEMINI
VENUS CANCER

HIS GIRLFRIEND (please dont judge i really need some honest opinions)

she is born APRIL 3 1978

i believe she is an aries
moon in aquarius
venus taurus

Who is more compatible with Mr. Aqua?? i dont know how to do all the signs and stuff so i figured i should come here for some great advice. Me and Aquarius have been seeing each other off and on the last 7 years, and I do care for him alot more than I should.. But, I really need to break it off and for some ODD reason, we BOTH cannot walk away from each other and it is getting ridiculous... we are friends and always have been ..but more FWB.. he has been with the Aries for 12 years, and they do have kids.. I also, am with someone else for 15 years now, a Virgo Sept 1st... and I really just need to let go of AQUA and it is not happening.. he tells me he cares, and loves me and doesnt know what to do as well.. and only reason why he sticks around with Aries is beucaese of the kids.. and I think I am with my Virgo for the same reasons... I dont know what to do anymore.. it is getting to deep with Aqua and I need to walk away, me being a Gemini, hard headed cant seem to let go and neither can he... Can someone tell me our compatibility and where we stand?? please help thanks

et me also add that Aqua has never been with anyone for 12 years but Aries, until I came along... and even though he has responsibilities, i do too.. he isnt the aqua man that everyone says he is.. he is not detached at all maybe his moon sign plays alot of factor.. he calls and texts whenever i call and texts back, he never good aloof on me.. he tells me all about his family, and everything else, we can talk for hours. i believe i already passed the aqua test.. we are best friends, but also lovers in some way.. it is like we have the same outlook/views in life... i think this aqua being that hes 38 years old, has evolved...he doesnt pplay games and very open.. he wants to leave his girl (aries) but is bound to stay because of the kids.. and said, that his mom raised him and his brother alone when his dad walked away... and that is the only reason why he is with her other than that, had he met me first he would have walked away already... I am with someone else too 15 years with kids, (Virgo) i love him as well, but we are totally not compatible all of a sudden... Aqua always tells me he cares and loves me and is protective of me.. I never tell him that sometimes i do because I dont like feeling emotional being a gemini myself, and we do not cloud each other.. we value our freedom, and we have a good time...all the time.. he is the opposite, it seems like than most aqua man i know.... he doesnt pull the disappearing act on me, and i am honest with him with my feelings, and he loves to hear it.... i need help.. i need to cut it off.. i dont know how.. there is something there, and everytime were togther the sparks are strong and you can see it....

What advice do you want?

The best I can offer is get therapy to end it. It sounds quite addictive and much more serious than anything astrology insight can solve for you.

You may want to end this and get counseling. Aquas and Aries generally have a strong connection. Like Aquas literally cannot shake the hypnotic spell of an outspoken, brash, and naive Aries. They feed off of Aries energy. Even if he leaves her for you. Trust me, it will be temporary. He will try to go back to her as soon as he thinks she has moved on with her life.

You are WAY too awesome for this situation. 🙂

yes you are right! he is stuck.. he already told me why it is SO hard to leave the Aries.. she will make it to where he will never see those kids!! and she is vindictive like that, tells him what to do, when to breathe, NOT TO GO OUT and have friends.. she nags hims, everything a gemini doesnt do since we dont like to fence people in the same way we dont like being tied down. We are the besttest friends, when she found out about me as his friends 6 years ago she went nutts and got implants as well to compete with me, then about 2008 we stopped talking completely.. then this year, for some odd reason we found each other again. And the reason why he didnt look for me, but never stopped thinking about me is because he fell hard in love with me but we both are married.. so fast forward to 2012, now we have found each other, the feelings returned, stronger than ever.. the problem with the aqua is he doesnt want to let me go ever again, he wants to leave her but he doesnt know how.. said the reason why he would put up with her, is because his dad left his mom when they were little and she raised the kids all by herself, dad never around.. so he made a promise to his kids that he will never leave.. so pretty much hes at home putting up with his aries wife who never lets him do anything and is too needy and clingy..Words cannot explain how in sync we are ..i dont know if its gem and aqua thing, but we have sparks even on the phone, i never tell him i love him or care i always make it clear were friends only, he will get mad and say but you know i love you and i will never hurt you had i met you first you would be my wife and i would never cheat on you, so i said you cheat on your wife now and he said, yes but just because ppl cheat doesnt mean they will with the next, i am with the wrong person and with you life will be great..ive already passed the aqua test years ago, this aqua opens up to me and tells me everything about him, doesnt go aloof, isnt distant always picks up the phone, theres not a day that goes by we dont talk except when were sleeping..its like a bond we cannot break i dont know what to do anymore.. its getting too deep

with the virgo i am with (sept 1) i love him but not in love wiht him been together 15 years with kids... and i do not want to disappoint my kids either, i love them but i cannot help how i feel.. my mind and heart is somewhere else..my virgo is too damn competitive, possessive, he suffocates me, theres not trust.. he has cheated on me before.. he drove me right back to aqua he is emotionally and mentally abusive..now that he knows of the aqua, he is more determined to win me all of a sudden hes a changed man, no longer selfish like he is no longer mentally abusive, does everything i want him to do.. the perfect virgo husband i wanted years ago, i feel he came to me a little too late...like hes doing it to keep me around because someone else wants me... so he and aqua gets into it on the phone, that doesnt stop aqua from being my friend and calling and texting me evry day still.. he still wants to meet up whenever we can.. its like nothing has chnaged despite my virgo finding out..every day aqua wants to know how much i care, love him, want him.. i brush it off and i dont show emotions as much as i want too.. i tell him, love you YOU ARE MY friend of course i care.. he gets mad because he wants me to open up.. but i feel, why should i?? your never leaving your wife! whats the point of continuing this crazy FWB or whatever you wanna call it?? me and my virgo have been down for years now..cheating on his part too..the kids are keeping us together, he has come to a turning point of wanting to be the perfect husband for me, but its too late i dont feel the same... right about now, i really would like NEITHER of them.. but i do have stronger than usual feelings for aqua i need to shake it off..i am a smart girl i know right from wrong.. and this aqua is one that is so hard for me to forget even after years of no communication, we always pick up where we left off.. he is determined to keep me, but wont leave.. i am determined to walk away but dont know how... i choose my virgo over all this madness now that he has become the man i want him to be i guess i just need to find that feeling for him again.. we have a beautiful family....its so sad.. i am numb

^^ i didnt read all this, it's too much.

but from what i get of this, you really need to mind your own business when it comes to other people's marriages.
I'm not sure what's going on, but if the aries and aqua are MARRIED? Or in a relationship, you need to step back and calm your mercurial mind, calm them...

listen to some soothing music. Take up YOGA, meditate, calm mercury.....yes calm....if you dont have a taurus fixed moon, (the one i know in real life has a taurus moon and married to a virgo) and she does talk alot BUT she is stable and strong.

You NEED someone much more stable and loving in your life, someone who doesn't have all this baggage. Take care of yourself first, k?

No man is worth this, if he's going to bring another woman and give you chaos, and instability.

Basically, think of yourself FIRST. No one is more precious than yourself.

just to add... our spouses mine and aqua... the aries and virgo are both our high school sweet hearts we married.... this is so retarded i just want to end it asap

Posted by mmarin401
just to add... our spouses mine and aqua... the aries and virgo are both our high school sweet hearts we married.... this is so retarded i just want to end it asap

shhhhhhh


listen....

lisabethur... yes i know what you are saying.. i am married too..its not the i have to mind my business.. HE TELLS ME HOW BAD HIS ARIES WIFE IS and trying to find away out.. your talking about an aqua who has been fenced in the whole entire marriage, the ONLY affair he knows is with me.. trust me i am the one trying to walk away.. i did last month, he would not let me and its hard.. i am not a bad person.. i cannot help where to put my mind and heart.. we have a spell on each other we cannot shake off..what can i do? that is why i am here asking for suggestions.... i am not trying to be all psycho and winning him.. i dont like all that, i am gemini i dont like all that possesive crap stuff... i let him do whatever.. he always seems to find his way to me when i am trying to walk away from him..... yes i am thinking of me and my kids... i need to break it off with aqua.. i dont know how...... its been 4 days i have not taken his calls or texts, he is texting like a mad man and calling my friends asking why i have not called him.. this is hard on me how am i suppose to walk away knowing i do feel something for him like i need to look back and think...

doesn't matter what he says. He can go to HELL.

that's what you should say IN YOUR MIND. No contact.

and listen....shhhh

all i want to do is work it out with my virgo i love him i just need to find a way to be in love with him again and forget about aqua, i even told aqua i cant be friends with him because of our situation, he doesnt want to let it go..he said when u stoipped talking to me 4 years ago i never stopped thinking about u, i dont want to lose you again, please let me do what i need to do with the kids.... dont leave me.. i do not want to be with aries wife anymore but if i leave her she will make it to where i never ever see my kids....i understand where he is coming from.. i am in the same sitaution.. so basically were both stuck and i must move on but how?

yes i see your point with the videos...wish it was easier said than done 😢 i have been down this road with him before... maybe ill go take some painkillers and move to agrabah with my family or something..changing my phone number dont work we have mutual friends... this sucks.. yes i have said go to hell.. doesnt work

Posted by mmarin401
yes i see your point with the videos...wish it was easier said than done 😢 i have been down this road with him before... maybe ill go take some painkillers and move to agrabah with my family or something..changing my phone number dont work we have mutual friends... this sucks.. yes i have said go to hell.. doesnt work

aw it'll be ok. 🙂

Don't know any gems in my life,but you guys seem really sweet here, and quite sensitive. How about a gem twin hugs??



And don't worry. Stay on course. Forget every guy out there, focus on YOU, focus on your husband. But you have to love yourself.

Posted by mmarin401
yes i see your point with the videos...wish it was easier said than done 😢 i have been down this road with him before... maybe ill go take some painkillers and move to agrabah with my family or something..changing my phone number dont work we have mutual friends... this sucks.. yes i have said go to hell.. doesnt work

oh i do know the one who is married to the virgo!

I found this for you:

girl i am trying too 😢 i am forcing to LOVE my husband all over again, thats not cool..i should not have to do that.. when i cut off the aqua last month we both got ill..same illness, same symptoms like we cant be apart.. i hate the fact that the aqua is open to me talking about my feelings for him and vice versa..why do i have to connect to him in every way shape or form?? i hate this..i dont want to like the aqua anymore.....its going nowhere anyways, were both married..only difference is i have the courage to file for a divorce if its really not going to work and believe me i have been trying hard with the virgo...if there was only a magical pill that will let me forget i ever met the aqua 7 years ago my life would be perfect again

Posted by mmarin401
girl i am trying too 😢 i am forcing to LOVE my husband all over again, thats not cool..i should not have to do that.. when i cut off the aqua last month we both got ill..same illness, same symptoms like we cant be apart.. i hate the fact that the aqua is open to me talking about my feelings for him and vice versa..why do i have to connect to him in every way shape or form?? i hate this..i dont want to like the aqua anymore.....its going nowhere anyways, were both married..only difference is i have the courage to file for a divorce if its really not going to work and believe me i have been trying hard with the virgo...if there was only a magical pill that will let me forget i ever met the aqua 7 years ago my life would be perfect again

there's a saying Linda Goodman says about Gemini....

Cancer can help gemini remember the things that matter in this life.

your right.. i need to focus...this sucks so bad.. i hate feeling like this
as a gemini i dont like anything rattling my household...but this time around
the feelings for the aqua is soooo calming, so strong, so karmic..he is almost
like my twin flame.. like we developed this telepathic thing..i dont know
its hard to explain..... 😢 why cant he just be happy with his aries..and
let me live my life ... we have spent too much time in each others heads

thank you so much for the calming videos.. i needed that..

Posted by mmarin401
thank you so much for the calming videos.. i needed that..

You're welcome. 🙂

any more advice from anyone here? thanks