I don't understand his behaviour

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catalyst1111
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15 Years

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I am a Cancerian woman, so should have perhaps stayed away from any involvement with an Aquarian to start with.

I met him online and we were seeing each other for about a month and were intimate. I noticed that he was on online dating a lot and was actually not taking my calls etc because of his activities online. I told him it was basically over. A week went by and he got in touch with me and said he really wanted to see me and get to know me. he was just bored etc.

So we caught up again, but nothing had really changed and I also found out he was spending a lot of time on adult dating sites as well. I called it a day again, basically figured he was too soon out of a relationship and he needed to sow his wild oats and left the door open for him to get in touch with me some time in the future if he was in a different place.

Unfortunately I had left some things at his place so left a message for him 2 weeks later to ask him to send them back. He texted me the next day (Sunday) and said lets catch up later in the week and you can get your stuff. On Thursday he decided Friday was a go. On Friday morning he starts sexting me basically. then as Friday afternoon and evening roll on he's saying he has to work late etc.. I know this is not true and he was obviously hedging his bets for another date that night. All this I can prove. I called him out on his lies and said I don't want to see you or for you to have you lie to me, just post my things back. I have had no response.

Not sure what to make of the whole thing really. I really did like him, but not enough to have him date around and lie to me. Is this an Aquarian thing??