I'm falling for an Aquarius

I have been awestruck by an aquarian for about 7 months. He is a great guy but doesn't let his emotions show at all. I have told him how I feel about him but he just seems to get embarrassed, as if he doesn't know how to handle it. It is weird. We are friends right now but I got a tarot reading and the reader said we will be together in April/May of this year. I desire to know how I can make this relationship (or in the case of the Aquarian "experiment") work. I want us to have the best chance and feel that a partnership would be great. I am on the cusp of Cancer, Taurus is in my eleventh house, my moon is in capricorn, and my ascendent is in leo. I hope this info helps but if not, great advice will do.

Just like a cancer to overanalyze and obsess!

Thanks!

Cancer gal

you girls are great in bed but learn to back-off when a male AQ. needs space. hahahahaaaaaaaaaa only a male view.

Just as you said: Caner gal likes to overanalyze and obsess! As an Aquari who hates obess!!! You are too pushy and too emotional, why don't you try Taurus who is more predictable and boring?? Leave your friend along maybe he will be your best friend.....
Cool breeze Aqua gal

Ok lady a male AQ. is the most loving type of guy you could find the one that will take off his jacket and lay it over the mud puddle for you, and any other woman that has caught his eye but. We have our please let me think times cause like they say we are aloof 3/4 of the time we are awake and its not that we don't care we just trying to find a ways that would make you [or our lady feel whated and cared about]sounds stupid but true. : ] C-B

Hmm... sound like me! I'm oso in love with an aquarius guy too... I'm a Libra girl. The way he treated me was so strange... I'm in love with him almost eight months.

Hmm... sound like me! I'm oso in love with an aquarius guy too... I'm a Libra girl. The way he treated me was so strange... I'm in love with him almost eight months. I felt that aquarius's heart are hard to understand... Sometimes he let me feel he love me but sometimes not...

This is the "ulitimate" definition of an Aqua's character.


"The "Sun" and "Planets" placed In Aqua will express their energies and drives in a calm, detached and civilized manner. This sign is inclined to emotional distancing, and it may be hard for vulnerable feelings to be demonstrated or even acknowledged. Softer planets, such as Venus and the Moon may express their needs in an impersonal way which is strikingly devoid of sentimentality. It is often those closest to the Aqua individual who experience the sign's detachment, while more distant acquaintances and colleagues receive the full force of the "Waterbearer's kindness, equanimity and concern. Aqua is capable of immense loyalty and dedication, both to loved ones and to those larger causes so dear to the Aqua heart. Yet those in whom the sign is emphazized may find thier commitment understimated, because they do not readily give voice to what they feel, only to what they think and believe. Complex and often misunderstood, Aquas may rebel against traditional values-not from personal grievance but because a greater truth claims allegiance. Although often perceived as intensely individual, individualism for its own sake does not appeal to Aqua's sober rationality. The strongly Aqua nature may find it hard to fight for personal concerns and needs. Yet faced with a collective in need of help or encouragment, this sign can draw on enormous resources of tenancity, courage and genuine altruism."

You are quite right! That is the ultimate description!

Yeah but my Aqua friend (girl) cheated on her husband ummmn three different times. Altruism is not a common denominator for all aqua's. She was very conniving and cold hearted when it came down to getting whatever she wanted.

Boring Taurus Male here:

I guess we might seem a little boring to you self absorbed, fly by night, cookcoos of the zodiac. But at least we are somewhat stable. Now think real deep and tell us all when your thoughts and emotions were completly stable, and you probably would be standing there for a long while with a blank look on your face.

Cancer girl...if you have told this Aquarian that you love him and he just doesn't directly reply to you, then watch out....you are in his "buddy" list, and that is not where you want to be if you want him to be your lover...These people jump in bed at the drop of a hat and then think about it later, or they just pussyfoot around the fact that they don't want to love, but still want the benefits of your friendship... So maybe you should indeed try a Taurus Male who can at least respond to your affections in a more direct fashion.

Better go now, because Aquarians get bored quickly if the conversation doesn't center around them.

Aquarian, you just send all of those people that can appreciate us "boring Taurus" and we will send you all those who are looking for a nut case...

Taurus Male

Sounds like you have some issues with Aquas....
That's OK...I would never try a Taurean again!
So, we are even.

Being "altruistic" again, no doubt.
Sometimes I think you are full of bull even more than us Bulls.

Taurus Male

The truth be know : ] we are all the same its what and how you show yourself that makes a peoson U-niqie. : ]

well... i'm not sure about the cancer and aquarius mix...but i will agree with you that they are embrassed about the whole love thing.... its just cause
they are scared... when they hear the word... but secretly... they want it and need it... so be patient... if you
have the time.... get to know him and
move into his world for a bit and see how it feels...its quite nice actually
.... boring at times but the trick is...
love him in your mind first... like his
aloofness....cherish it and become placent in his world.... dont push..
just communicate and learn the way he thinks and slowly change it with the right way.

Then how abt libra and aquarius? I'm a libra gal... I love my boyfriend alot. but i have no ideas of whether he loves me not... he himself knows tat i really love him but he is taking me for granted. how can i win his heart?

lIBRA GIRL:

If he is taking you for granted, then what are you trying to win? If someone assumes that you will take anything they choose to dish out, then it is up to you to set things straight. If someone crosses a line, and is allowed, just get used to it or redefine the line. Being a door mat is not satisfying a need to be loved.