fatal1234
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I'm not as emotional- I see it now.
I'm the same as you. I show rather than tell. Actions speak FAR louder than words anyway.
Look, instead of trying to pull emotional content out of yourself, into your mouth and spitting it out, be honest with him and say;
"Honey, I know you love me so much - and I, in turn love you the same. However, I've never been a person that can express my feelings through words - I believe more in the power of action. I recognise your words as expressions of love - I'm asking in turn that you recognise my actions of expressing my love for you. The depth is the same, the feeling is the same - it's just a different method of expression".
That alone is a powerful way of expressing without the stress of having to "find the "right" words".
Look, instead of trying to pull emotional content out of yourself, into your mouth and spitting it out, be honest with him and say;
"Honey, I know you love me so much - and I, in turn love you the same. However, I've never been a person that can express my feelings through words - I believe more in the power of action. I recognise your words as expressions of love - I'm asking in turn that you recognise my actions of expressing my love for you. The depth is the same, the feeling is the same - it's just a different method of expression".
That alone is a powerful way of expressing without the stress of having to "find the "right" words".
I can 100% completely relate to you.
Until I met my husband (Scorp), I used to think that all the crap about Aquas being non-emotional was bull. Hell, I'm 1 of the most emotional people I know!
BUT, it's true. And my Scorp made me realize just how non-emotional I was coming off. It took him a long time to realize that just showing emotion in different ways than everybody else does NOT mean that the emotions aren't there. Oh they are, they're just now displayed in traditional ways like persay Scorps do or any other sign.
Aquas have an "I can show you better than I can tell you" attitude when it comes to love & emotions. We may not say "I love you" 5 times like others will just to prove that we do love you, BUT we will allow our actions to speak for us, in which we can only hope that others will read b/w the lines & "assume" that if we're willing to do/give so much, it must mean b/c we really care...i.e.. our actions & what we're willing to do for others oughta translate the same & be just as good a substitute as if we had actually said "I love you" 5 times
Funny thing is, there are situations when a Scorp may break down while yet the Aqua sits there & is completely unphased. And other times, Aquas may break down while other sit & think, "Wow, I didn't think it was THAT serious." So it's not like Aquas don't get emotional. There are plenty of times when other signs are around us during the time when we Aquas are being very emotional.
I guess he just needs to understand that 2 things can be different but yet mean the same thing. For instance, he may cry during the actual funeral, while you may cry in the bathroom or afterwards when you get home. BOTH people cried & got emotional; BOTH people are equally feeling the loss of the person who died. It's just that the timing was different
Until I met my husband (Scorp), I used to think that all the crap about Aquas being non-emotional was bull. Hell, I'm 1 of the most emotional people I know!
BUT, it's true. And my Scorp made me realize just how non-emotional I was coming off. It took him a long time to realize that just showing emotion in different ways than everybody else does NOT mean that the emotions aren't there. Oh they are, they're just now displayed in traditional ways like persay Scorps do or any other sign.
Aquas have an "I can show you better than I can tell you" attitude when it comes to love & emotions. We may not say "I love you" 5 times like others will just to prove that we do love you, BUT we will allow our actions to speak for us, in which we can only hope that others will read b/w the lines & "assume" that if we're willing to do/give so much, it must mean b/c we really care...i.e.. our actions & what we're willing to do for others oughta translate the same & be just as good a substitute as if we had actually said "I love you" 5 times
Funny thing is, there are situations when a Scorp may break down while yet the Aqua sits there & is completely unphased. And other times, Aquas may break down while other sit & think, "Wow, I didn't think it was THAT serious." So it's not like Aquas don't get emotional. There are plenty of times when other signs are around us during the time when we Aquas are being very emotional.
I guess he just needs to understand that 2 things can be different but yet mean the same thing. For instance, he may cry during the actual funeral, while you may cry in the bathroom or afterwards when you get home. BOTH people cried & got emotional; BOTH people are equally feeling the loss of the person who died. It's just that the timing was different
Posted by aquagirl24Posted by NZAqua
I'm the same as you. I show rather than tell. Actions speak FAR louder than words anyway.
Look, instead of trying to pull emotional content out of yourself, into your mouth and spitting it out, be honest with him and say;
"Honey, I know you love me so much - and I, in turn love you the same. However, I've never been a person that can express my feelings through words - I believe more in the power of action. I recognise your words as expressions of love - I'm asking in turn that you recognise my actions of expressing my love for you. The depth is the same, the feeling is the same - it's just a different method of expression".
That alone is a powerful way of expressing without the stress of having to "find the "right" words".
thats very nice..
hows things with the taurus— they are similar to us, except they are a little too stubborn!!!click to expand
Oh he's a stubborn bugger! Makes me laugh but man it pushes my buttons too!
All up though, things are going well - lots of cuddles, fun, lovely words, support etc.
Now we just have to deal with his jealous ex-wife trying to butt her nose in - that's a pain in my fucking arse but I've kept my cool so far - most unlike me lol! 🙂
This is just how I am. I guess everybody has different process of feelings. I think my emotional process is sort of slower than others'. So therefore that's why we're said to be unemotional. I think what emotional really refers is to is when your emotions can take over your mind while unemotional is reverse. It's just simple as that. Think of how many times you've done something you didn't want but you knew you had? Everybody's got feelings of course but not everyone acts on them at their first instinct.
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